Men should be allowed to have 5 wifes

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Re: Men should be allowed to have 5 wifes

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Tuushi wrote:Why stop at 5?
I'm realistic :whew:
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Quran says 4, and only if they are widows etc. and have no one to provide for them, etc or if they are homeless etc, and if you can treat them equally etc


lol only dude who wants more then 4, wants to fuck, thats it

i doubt much dudes in this day and age actually care about the requirements, you f-king fakes


if so, more homeless and single mothers would be married,

instead of youngish (20 sumthings) virgins to old shiekhs.

I am the last true somali dude alive, im reviling all of you bastards secrets, yall make me sick, lol 5 wives kulaha, its some toothless old man saying this shit f-king child molester.
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DR-YALAXOOW wrote:in islam technicly you can marry 100 women according islam.. your allowed 4 free women and AW MAA MALAKAT AYLAAMANKUM( SLAVE WOMEN) billions of billions of them..
in old days you could go your local market and buy a Women, 10 women and have sex whit them every day and its xalaaal 100% --- so i islam you can have how many women you like...

why are spreading haraam lies, you know Allah will ask you on the last day, why you make things halaal when they are haraam.

this is not true

please disregard this kaffir,



hes a disnfo agent. ( if you have not already figured this out )

against islam and somalis.
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DonCorleone wrote:Quran says 4, and only if they are widows etc. and have no one to provide for them, etc or if they are homeless etc, and if you can treat them equally etc


lol only dude who wants more then 4, wants to fuck, thats it

i doubt much dudes in this day and age actually care about the requirements, you f-king fakes


if so, more homeless and single mothers would be married,

instead of youngish (20 sumthings) virgins to old shiekhs.

I am the last true somali dude alive, im reviling all of you bastards secrets, yall make me sick, lol 5 wives kulaha, its some toothless old man saying this shit f-king child molester.
KKKKKKKKKKKKK :lol: :lol:
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Reminds me of Kenya's Akuku Danger who married over 100 wives in his lifetime. this article written in 2008
He has lived past his prime age. While many Kenyans are not expected to live beyond 40, this old man is way past that and still going strong.

Polygamist Mzee Ancentus Akuku alias “Akuku Danger” is now a nonagenarian after turning 90, and he seems set to mark more milestones.

The grand old man justifies his long life to a diet of traditional foodstuffs such as dek, osuga, mitoo, apoth (traditional vegetables) and fermented milk that have kept him going.

“I am still very strong, though I am now worn out and cannot sire more children,” he says jokingly.

However, Akuku says he has been on a strict diet and does not eat food rich in fats.

Avoiding too much fat and salt has enabled me escape opportunistic diseases,” he explains.

The old man, who is happy with the way his wives serve him, says he has to eat special food and does not starve at any time in the day.

“I eat at the right time. And I just don’t eat anything. I am served special food that is well prepared. I always eat a fruit after every meal,” he says.

When the Sunday Magazine visited him at his famous Aora Chuodho home, Homa Bay District, the old man was relaxing.

“Karibuni! Welcome!” he gave us traditional stools to sit on.

Before we settled for the interview, he went into a meditative silence for about three minutes.

He wanted to be reminded of who we were. In trying to jog his memory, he told us he still has a stable mind and remembered that we had visited him a few years back.

“I don’t drink chang’aa (local brew) that corrugates people’s mind. I am fit as you can see,” he dropped his walking stick and tried to jump. Then, we gave him a small gift we had carried for him. It is not African to visit someone empty-handed. He was happy and we settled down to the interview.

Akuku Danger (seated) with some of his wives and children.

Akuku is no longer as energetic as he used to be but he takes time to walk around his expansive compound offering advice to his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren.

Akuku who married his first wife, Dinah Akuku, in 1939 is famous for his polygamous life. He married 130 women in his formative years but chased away 85 on grounds of infidelity.

“I showed the door to those who misbehaved,” he says with no regret to his actions.

And it was not just separation. He carried out the traditional divorce by going to their homes to claim the dowry he had paid. This way he cut all strings attached.

He remained with 45 wives. However, 16 of them have since died. Today, he lives with 29.

The old man says he could not gamble with his life.

Spying on wives

“I had spies attached to each home. They briefed me on how each woman went about her business in my absence both during the day and at night,” he says.

Akuku would institute private investigations to crosscheck the leads he had gathered before resorting to any action.

“This is how I detected that the 85 were unfaithful and posed a serious risk to my life. I did not hesitate in sending them packing,” he says.

He explains: “With the threat of HIV and Aids, I had to be strict with the conduct of each woman.”

By the time he was 22, Akuku was already a polygamist.

“Little did I know that I would marry many more women later,” he says.

He became a polygamist as a joke. But the joke worked well for him, he says.

The grand master of polygamy married his last wife at 79 in 1997. The woman was then only 18. He likes to call her Auma min Anyona (Auma mother of Anyona). Today she is 29 and a mother of three.

“I call her my caretaker. She is a woman and a half. She is the one who now caresses me so I don’t feel out of touch with love,” he says.

His first wife, Bina Akuku died in 2001.

Though many people, particularly from his community — the Luo — have failed to manage polygamous families well, Mzee Akuku has broken the record.

He has led a very ‘successful and productive’ polygamous family. He sired 110 sons and 305 daughters. Of the children 150 are married and also blessed with their own children. He says 35 of his sons have died. Despite his age, Akuku still knows each of his children by name. And which child belongs to which mother.

I can’t forget

“I can’t fail to know my children. When they are born I am the one who is consulted to give them a name. So I can’t forget,” he asserts.

He feels that family responsibilities must be shared. The older siblings are charged with the task of educating the younger ones.

Once I have educated the first-born of every wife, it is their task to sponsor the education of the younger siblings,” he says.

Akuku, also called ‘Danger‘ (from his ability to marry many women) has all kinds of professionals in his home and that is one of his greatest pleasures. They range from doctors, lawyers, teachers to drivers and messengers.

Born in 1918 in Kanyamwa, Ndhiwa Constituency, Akuku may not have gone to school, but today he commands respect among all cadres of people.

He mingles with the high and mighty within his community. Many pay him homage almost on a daily basis.

They visit him just to learn of his fascinating story as an icon of the Luo cultural practices.

Akuku was born with a business acumen. To earn a living, he trained as a tailor and opened shops in Homa Bay District, along the shores of Lake Victoria.

He became rich and attracted many young women even when he was old.

“I lived a lavish lifestyle. I was always ready to spend money on women,” Akuku explains. “I always made sure that I got the girl I wanted.”

The old man says he learnt the art of seduction and that to keep a woman one had to respond to her immediate needs.

“Those who mingled with me are the ones who went spreading word in the village of how witty, wealthy and loving I was,” he says.

In turn, girls would go hunting for him everywhere in the village including social places which he frequented.

“I was a reveller and went to night clubs to enjoy myself. Some girls followed and timed me at the dancing floor and at times I let out my heart for them,” he says.

He adds: “I married those who I lost my heart for.”

“I owned a fleet of matatus, driven by my sons and several tailoring, wholesale and retail shops. So maintaining the women was not a big deal,” he brags.

Though the magnitude of his immense wealth is not visible today, Akuku prides himself in educating his children to take over.

“Today my children are my wealth. I have educated them well,” he says.

His children who borrowed a leaf from his business acumen run most of the tailoring shops in Ndhiwa, Homa Bay and other neighbouring districts.

One of his sons, Dande Akuku, born in 1947, is an established businessman.

Dande refused to go to school and capitalised on his father’s immense wealth to establish his own business. Today, he carries the old man’s legacy.

Dande has a fleet of matatus and businesses in Homa Bay and other districts.

Though old, Akuku is not old. Each morning, he looks at his diary, which is well maintained, to see which home he will visit for either a funeral or other businesses.

Akuku says he has a responsibility as a parent to nurture upright children and look after the family’s immediate needs.

“I am fully updated on what is going on in each home every day. If a child falls sick, I must be told,” he says.

These are some of the strategies he uses to maintain sanity in his home.

Despite his having a large family, many people today see him as a role model and are learning from him how to keep stable marriages.

Akuku says he put up a hall in his home where he summons all the members of his family and addresses them. At these assemblies those who have erred are rebuked.

He cautions men not to imitate him because HIV and Aids pandemic.
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Re: Men should be allowed to have 5 wifes

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Well, it is very clear that warsheekh has never been with a girl in his life. Warsheekh, is this your way of telling s-net you need help with getting girls??????????
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herndonhomer wrote:Well, it is very clear that warsheekh has never been with a girl in his life. Warsheekh, is this your way of telling s-net you need help with getting girls??????????
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nigga i got kids what are you on about :?
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Warsheekh wrote:
herndonhomer wrote:Well, it is very clear that warsheekh has never been with a girl in his life. Warsheekh, is this your way of telling s-net you need help with getting girls??????????
:childplease:

nigga i got kids what are you on about :?
Word yo. this is 2013 you dont have to lie to anybody. I dont know what you do in real life vice versa. BUt you just made it seem like to Snet you have never talked to a girl. I'm just going off of what you say
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your right man :tocry: :sadbron:
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Warsheekh wrote:your right man :tocry: :sadbron:
Okay!!!!!!!!!!!! take care of your kids then!!!!!!!
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kkkkkkkkkkkkkkk fockin nigger get out my sight :pac:
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Mondey wrote:Navy9

:lol: :lol:

did u see "3ayza atzawag"?

ofcourse, i loved it :D
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