ladies..how do you define a man's love for you

[Tuushi]

@BV. What is imperative? That you find love prior to marriage or after it? Ma ku fahmin.

That there is my kind of love before marriage

What do you make of the people who say "Love only comes after marriage"?

I think people mainly say that because u really need to live with the person to learn everything abt it.After that,if u r still crazy abt them,then ur love runs deeper than lust.

[SummerRain]

Love is his ability to deal with my bullshit.

[Lillaahiya]

mutual respect,consideration,mutual aspiration,similar desires.etc.

This

[Twist]

Love?

[BlackVelvet]

Twist you don't believe in love?

[BlackVelvet]

.

[Twist]

Believe in love?


In lust we trust.


PS: As usual, when this matter is mentioned people like to point out the love for parents/religion/God etc. I am not talking about that one but the one said to be between partners and something along that line. Bullshit! Shit is based on interest and not solely & unselfishly on the so called love itself. It's either one is blindly & stupendously devoted to another (in my dictionary, extreme lust/infatuation) or it's just for some other selfish reasons.

Love kulahaa; sheekooy ku nacay!

[BlackVelvet]

Wow, no wonder you're still single. How can you not care deeply for the person you choose to share your life with? Wam, bam, thank you mam for your wife as well?

Waad iska hadleysaa adeer

[SummerRain]

BV, don't buy into what Twist wrote. Men like him are actually hopeless romantics, the issue with him is not that he does not believe in love, but because his experiences with love has disappointed him. He is basically a man running from love.

[BlackVelvet]

I know waa iska booto no one can be that disconnected...I hope

[Methylamine]

Love?

[AmalJaber]

is it the things he gives you, or what he says.

my cousin is married to a complete A-hole who at one point threaten to cause her harm if she ever left him cuz he loves her too much to see her with another man. to her this is deep love that compensates for all his other shortcomings.

love between man and a woman seems abstract in the eyes of women..but somehow before a woman enters into a relationship with a man, she's sold(to self,most of the time) a universal idea of a man's love. its a different ballgame when she's living with a man... love is redefined.

your thoughts my sisters, please and thank you!

As a man of actions, I would rather answer that question with actions; do you have another female cousin?



But just to give you a hint - I'm the opposite of AW

[SultanOrder]

is it the things he gives you, or what he says.

my cousin is married to a complete A-hole who at one point threaten to cause her harm if she ever left him cuz he loves her too much to see her with another man. to her this is deep love that compensates for all his other shortcomings.

love between man and a woman seems abstract in the eyes of women..but somehow before a woman enters into a relationship with a man, she's sold(to self,most of the time) a universal idea of a man's love. its a different ballgame when she's living with a man... love is redefined.

your thoughts my sisters, please and thank you!

As a man of actions, I would rather answer that question with actions; do you have another female cousin?



But just to give you a hint - I'm the opposite of AW

you're a man

[AmalJaber]

you're a man

How many times MUST i say that?

[Ismail87]

^ why did you call yourself Amal???