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If you're a 34 year old woman with a bidaar, then you have a cause to worry.

Your whining will drive them away before the bidaar and brokeness.

BlackVelvet wrote:

Twist wrote:War ninkan suuqa naga xiraya yaa nagu soo saliday, Ilaahay amarkii!

Xaasid, it is no laughing matter.

Best advice,

Be grateful you are black. Black men pull off the bald look easy. Clean bald skull with a nice clean cut beard and you should be right to go.

I think you can use what you allege to be your short-comings to your advantage.

1- Madaxa iska xiir to let your boldness blend into the background. Hit the gym to look a bit leaner, avoid belly beer.
2- Up your wadaadnimo and use your know-how of religion to preach to the choir(like-minded girls). Funny enough girls at the mosque are hunting men as well and are desperate to get hitched. Be seen there and become a presence. The word spreads you are available. If you have a good voice and can read the Quran, one prayer you lead will make you a hit among women at the mosque. Why not use legitimate means of attraction huh? Kitaabaaba la isku meheriyaa sidaan maqlay, ama xabad timir ah, expensive meher will be no-worries of yours.
3- Money isn't an issue for women always if you are willing to work and be responsible for your family.
4- 34 is very young. Even in your 40s, if you look healthy and exercise, many women will find you attractive.

Zeliha wrote:Ninku calaacal badanaa!

War nin wadaad isku sheegayaad tahay intaasna dabeecad wanaagsan hadday kuu dheer tahay maxaa kaa maqan?

Waan ka helaa your posts. Bal isku day inaad meesha buuxisid fadlan markaad chance hayso.

Meeshaan iska iloow kawaran haddaan inboxka kuu soo buuxiyo

Zeliha wrote:Meeshaan iska iloow kawaran haddaan inboxka kuu soo buuxiyo

Ooh, that would be awesome



Haddaan ku orday meesha thinking "waxbaa meesha ii yaal"


I knew you were pulling my leg, but that is good too, just the offer alone


made my head feel bigger than it actually is.