Arguments btw couples

[hargaysaay]

Jax, how you going to have your excuses lined up before you are even married? :huh:

Couples happiness goes way down after they have kids. Also, if they don't have enough money, not being home enough together. Lack of sex. Honestly, don't know, not married.

BF/GF, atleast the girls complain about not enough attention for them, and other girls flirting. If they are about to get married, those issues. Once arguments start, every little thing is fair game, those little things that you kept your mouth shut cuz it wasn't a big deal then, but now...

That alone would be enough to ruin marriage .

[QaaliDumar]

bal maxaan u guursaday, lacag lee lagu bayaa, dad mahan dadkaan, wallee if I had the power, , xaaji manaxe my saving account ayaan ku ridi-lahaa -till I find I solution, ma anagaa dumar u baahnaan leheen runtii.caku iyo nin nibkiis

????

Maxaad ku hadashay walaal?

[SelfD]

Friends interfering cause they're jelly or bitter or because he's a deadbeat?

Jelly....

One incident, she INTRODUCED US, then SHE set him up with someone else while we were still seeing each other, then SHE came running to tell ME he's seeing someone else.
Second incident, SHE chats with him on fb (flirting and whatnot)then comes to me, telling me things.
Third incident, Fourth incident..finally I walk away.

I read the above statement 7 times, still cannot follow who is "she" and is who "he"?

Did that help?

[FarhanYare]

i would say majority of those arguments between couples stem from money issues particularly somali beobal living in the west as polygamy is hardly the case

[Rabshoole]

Women have some psychological issues deeply embedded in them (everything is always wrong, nothing is ever right unless they do it themselves), I've learned tuning them out works wonders.

[AbtiiDoon]

Don't have arguments with the wifey tbh. So much relationship talk on here lol yet maybe 10% are married. Armaan y u edit your post? Some decent points in there

[salool]

One major problem that somalis hardly talk about (because of xishood) who's is probably behind 80% of divorces, is the lack of SEX.Laakin waa mushkilad aaney cidna ka hadlin karin...naagina aabahed ku odhan kari mayso marka la waydiiyo ninka maxaad ku dhacday "aabo xaga sariirta ninku kuma fiicna"...i mean just imagin the reactions...

[DonCorleone]

If I ever argued with my wife , I'd always apologize after since I'm a good guy. She'll be my number 1 homie we need to be united babaaaaay

[SelfD]

One major problem that somalis hardly talk about (because of xishood) who's is probably behind 80% of divorces, is the lack of SEX.Laakin waa mushkilad aaney cidna ka hadlin karin...naagina aabahed ku odhan kari mayso marka la waydiiyo ninka maxaad ku dhacday "aabo xaga sariirta ninku kuma fiicna"...i mean just imagin the reactions...

[DonCorleone]

1 Money
2 HIS interfering family (It's ALWAYS the mans family who bring drama, that's why I advice marrying nin hooyadi ay dhimatay and one with preferably one sister ONLY and even then taas sharkeeda ka ducaysta )
3 Beerka laagis aka the good stuff
4 After the top 3 become a regular topic then it's probably dirty dishes/ leaving his clothes all over the floor etc

Hey what the fuck , I like my sisters , shit give up my family,looooool y'all better get along I ain't marrying a girl my sisters hate I value their opinion

[SelfD]

I noticed that when your fighting with the person you care about, sometimes your over come with strong emotions that you say something to hurt them so that they may feel a similar hurt to what they have caused you to feel.


It seems so immature, but in the moment you cannot help but utter those words. In the future, I hope to always hold my tongue when ever im in a disagreement with someone I care about.

[salool]

Self, sometimes SILENCE is the best answer....never say anything when you're angry.You can never take back words.

[SelfD]

Self, sometimes SILENCE is the best answer....never say anything when you're angry.You can never take back words.

If I recall my last fight, I believe I turned into a whinny 15 year old...

[QaaliDumar]

One major problem that somalis hardly talk about (because of xishood) who's is probably behind 80% of divorces, is the lack of SEX.Laakin waa mushkilad aaney cidna ka hadlin karin...naagina aabahed ku odhan kari mayso marka la waydiiyo ninka maxaad ku dhacday "aabo xaga sariirta ninku kuma fiicna"...i mean just imagin the reactions...

Gabar aabaheed soo hor fariisanaysa oo hadalkaa oranaysa majirto (unless uu aabo maskax furan yahay laakin adigaaba ka xishoon inaad waxaas ku hadashid) Walaalo kula dhashay ama ilmo adeero ku fahmaya oo aad isku da' tihiin ayaa loo sheegan karaa. Hadday timaado wax laga xishoodo maahan.

[LetsCookBreakfast]

One major problem that somalis hardly talk about (because of xishood) who's is probably behind 80% of divorces, is the lack of SEX.Laakin waa mushkilad aaney cidna ka hadlin karin...naagina aabahed ku odhan kari mayso marka la waydiiyo ninka maxaad ku dhacday "aabo xaga sariirta ninku kuma fiicna"...i mean just imagin the reactions...