Am I the Only Person Who Has a Fear of Commitment?

[Insigne]

Sally you're clearly not living in reality.

Somali men have far higher sexual value in the eyes of foreign women than Somali women do. There are studies which prove this.

No cadaan man would ever touch you but in my days of jahiliyya I slept with over 13 cadaan women. You will never find a husband.

Your problem is further compounded by your lack of a clitoris. If you are lucky a farax will make you his third or fourth wife.

[Insigne]

Honestly if you are a male and your father did not keep contact with you it's because you are a disgrace to him. He wanted a better son. One he could be proud of.

It's not his fault.

[SavySallySupersedes]

Sally you're clearly not living in reality.

Somali men have far higher sexual value in the eyes of foreign women than Somali women do. There are studies which prove this.

No cadaan man would ever touch you but in my days of jahiliyya I slept with over 13 cadaan women. You will never find a husband.

Your problem is further compounded by your lack of a clitoris. If you are lucky a farax will make you his third or fourth wife.

Lolz, I don't give a fuck. What if I don't want to marry a Somali guy? What if I like Tololupe who's an MIT grad in Mechanical Engineering and Physics?

[STARKAST]

Insigne tone it down, shes just confused and lonely,no need for that !

[SecretAgent]

Sally you're clearly not living in reality.

Somali men have far higher sexual value in the eyes of foreign women than Somali women do. There are studies which prove this.

No cadaan man would ever touch you but in my days of jahiliyya I slept with over 13 cadaan women. You will never find a husband.

Your problem is further compounded by your lack of a clitoris. If you are lucky a farax will make you his third or fourth wife.

Dude she's 22 years old she has a full clit only xalimos ova age 30 have no clits

[Insigne]

Walahi I hate this girl. I've only seen a few of her threads but she is exactly what is wrong with Somali girls in qurba.

Who gave them the idea they have worth?

[Insigne]

Sally you're clearly not living in reality.

Somali men have far higher sexual value in the eyes of foreign women than Somali women do. There are studies which prove this.

No cadaan man would ever touch you but in my days of jahiliyya I slept with over 13 cadaan women. You will never find a husband.

Your problem is further compounded by your lack of a clitoris. If you are lucky a farax will make you his third or fourth wife.

Dude she's 22 years old she has a full clit only xalimos ova age 30 have no clits

She made a thread about it (her lack of kintiir), railing against the 'patriarchal opression' and 'hegemonic tyranny' which robbed her of her 'right' and 'freedom' to be a street walker.

Or whatever other buzzwords she picked up in her English lit class.

Any Somali girl who thinks they're better than Somali men needs a punch in the face.

[STARKAST]

Who gave them the idea they have worth?

He has a point. a very very valid one. Obviously were talking about other girls now.


lol @ punch in the face

[SecretAgent]

No she's good man she's very open minded bout sex we need more xalimos like dat sally likes to have wild sex,bein slapped wit a dickz on her face she's cool dude!

[SavySallySupersedes]

Walahi I hate this girl. I've only seen a few of her threads but she is exactly what is wrong with Somali girls in qurba.

Who gave them the idea they have worth?

Oh, you don't like me? You think I give a fuck? You're mad I'm not waiting around for you to validate me?

[Insigne]

Go pray two raka'at and stop looking for attention on the internet. Throw away your Sylvia Plath books and learn how to hoover.

Then maybe you'll find a husband.

[SavySallySupersedes]

Go pray two raka'at and stop looking for attention on the internet. Throw away your Sylvia Plath books and learn how to hoover.

Then maybe you'll find a husband.

I actually read Gloria Steinem's work. I'm a feminist. I'm that radical, pro-choice woman who is also a Wiccan.

Why don't you go back to your taxi driving while you struggle to pay your child support to your 3 estranged wives while not giving a fuck about any of your children.

[BigRedBook]

Give it a rest. This ridiculous logic would never be accepted anywhere else other than your cushy western world. It isn't a problem. You are making it a problem by blaming your present, personal shortcomings on things that don't matter. Personal responsibility; ever heard of it? You seem like the type who would make excuses for criminals, and blame their criminality on their parents, environment or society. I read your posts and all I see are a bunch of excuses for your failures and buzzwords to back them up. It is weak and disgusting.

Did I hit a nerve? Why don't you post under your real username? You're all over the board. I'll try to be concise.

1. Yes, I do engage in personal responsibility. Being punctual, abiding by traffic laws, and meeting deadlines is personal responsibility. What I'm talking about isn't personal responsibility on my part, it's on my father's. Children have obligations over both of their parents. Somali fathers aren't exempt.
2. We don't have control over our beginnings. Our race, gender and socioeconomic status are predetermined in the first 5 years of our lives--the most crucial in development.
3. We are not self-made success stories. We are indebted to our teachers, our parents, our neighbors, our peer group. We can't build ourselves alone. It's not only impossible but it's a detrimental concept when internalized.
4. Yes, I have grown up privileged enough to talk about issues like this so openly. I've had all of my needs met, to have the means to work towards a college degree, and friends who create space to talk about the importance of everyone's lived experiences.

What does that even mean, "You are all over the board"?

Are you not mentally developed? What are you lacking? You sound like a success story, despite your father abandoning you. Yet, you cling on to him and blame him for any problems in your life bigger than your "punctuality." Childish and stupid. It is to be expected of people who were brought up in the hyperliberal west. You are not a special snowflake. Despite your race, gender or any other excuse that you invented to help you rationalise your shortcomings, you have had all your needs met. Does that not mean that you never really needed a father, but that you say these things now because you have a victim-complex? All your threads, based on the ridiculous social-justice-warrior fad, have one thing in common; you are the victim. Victim of sexism, racism, lacking a father figure, etc. It is extremely disgusting and weak. And for future reference, cut your excessive use of useless buzzwords, your ridiculous hyperboles and your empty statements based on nothing but emotions.

[Insigne]

Excellent post BigRedBook.

[Insigne]

Aside from sounding like a success story.

Don't lie to her. She sounds like a million other 'recently emancipated' vapid little girls from Muslim backgrounds who waste their youth reading books and then suffer severe depression in menopause due to being childless and single.