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I think it's a growing older thing. The older the person the more anti crazy family they become.

Growing up = getting cynical + loving calm so you can sleep more often, longer and more peacefully

Jasmine6 wrote:SelfD what happens if you've already fallen for the person, let's call the whole thing off coz yo mamma a cow?

Samatr wrote:If she is good enough to marry, her family should be good enough to be in-laws.

No exceptions?

Drug addict siblings/parents, rude and intrusive etc

Well if she has drug addict siblings/parents that has nothing to do with her as long as she isn't like that, if her parents are intrusive they are more than welcome to hear the noises coming from the bedroom.

^

Jasmine6 wrote:

Curiosity killed the cat, if she has nosey parents I will give them something to talk about.
but inshallah I won't be forsaken with such in laws.

DeeqaDagan wrote:^

You speechless as well


Horta something tells me you two would hit it off, pun not intended.

As long you can get along with the mother and to some degree sisters, waa isk caadi. If they happen to be qumayooyin good luck

Jasmine6 wrote:

DeeqaDagan wrote:^

You speechless as well


Horta something tells me you two would hit it off, pun not intended.

Looooooooool No.

But your expression was funny BV. I can imagine the reaction on your face after reading what he said.

Ders a guy who lives in my city his mom was kicked out by his wife n she brought her mom in nxt day dude left he lives wit his mom now

How do couples decide who what parents live with them. Like when the parents reach old age and need care?

I think it's important not to judge someone on the faults of other associated with them. Also, if you do intend to marry a woman; try to make sure you're on your best behaviour and act a gentleman regardless of if you like them or not. Respect is key - no one is asking you to live with them, in somali culture anyway the girl is left to be with her husband and his family in most cases peacefully. Although the man will be in contact with the womans family, but it is with clear barriers. As long as you behave, work hard, support, give your wife independance - nothing bad will come of it - infact your inlaws will love you and set you up as the benchmark. Just don't be a wasteman.

As for the womans male relatives being a bad influence - why should it matter, they will have no contact with you to begin with, unless you want to. They generally under our customs should never intefere with your relationship because it is taboo. Female relatives on the otherhand is a given, and just follow my steps above.

Aslong as his mum is dead or in another country and no sisters we r good to go

Sodoh xun waa laga fogadaa intaad ka fogaan karto.

Lakin ka waran haday adiga hoyadaa noqoto sodoh xun? Ileen iyaduba way dhici kartaa e.

AishahWaqooyi wrote:Aslong as his mum is dead or in another country and no sisters we r good to go

Wow do you hate my mum that much

How selfish.We all hating someone else`s mother while we bite the head off anyone who looks at ours.