The institution of marriage

[Basra-]

a grumpy middle-aged black Somali man ?

Do u think the "Black" part was a bit redundant?

[Urgobeh]

Marriage was never an institution equal for the sexes. One would rather say it is the theatre of the oppressed, reinforcing gender based oppression.

[Basra-]

Marriage was never an institution equal for the sexes. One would rather say it is the theatre of the oppressed, reinforcing gender based oppression.

Do u mean-- 'the theatre of the Oppressors? " The oppressed, I would think have no luxury in this theatre, they are too busy surviving the oppression from the oppressors.

[Urgobeh]

The theatre of the oppressed. Life itself is a tragedy. By presenting this tragedy the oppressed are purifying their tormented souls.

[Basra-]

The theatre of the oppressed. Life itself is a tragedy. By presenting this tragedy the oppressed are purifying their tormented souls.

AAAhhhhhh OKKKKKKKKKKKkkk if you say so-------Weirdo!

[AbkoowDhiblaawe]

im going to do qudbo siro soon.

[Basra-]

Warsheekh

U aint doing sh!t! U will remain single for life.

[AbkoowDhiblaawe]

[Basra-]

[hydrogen]

Marriage was never an institution equal for the sexes. One would rather say it is the theatre of the oppressed, reinforcing gender based oppression.

The theatre of the oppressed. Life itself is a tragedy. By presenting this tragedy the oppressed are purifying their tormented souls.

^ this.

[Reacher]

Regardless of my feelings towards the types of marriages people enter into; whatever the intentions, as long as they remain within the fold of the "institution"...I'm cool with it. There's a decay in the sanctity of marriage in the modern era, and when people marry for all the wrong reasons, it strengthens the argument to scratch the notion...and yes there are those working overtime to make this case. This is why I step back from my personal views on some of the elements of marraige I don't find agreeable to me...lest I fall into much greater trappings that could very well see the framework of the institution disappear altogether. If it's halal and at the discretion of consenting adults, I let it be...if it concerns me, I believe I am afforded ways to redress my grievances within the "institution", and so I will go about it as such... Allah knows best!

I wish I knew your hubby so I could intimidate him into taking an oath to never get married to another woman as long as you are satisfying his needs. I feel bad a little when I think your thoughts came about due to circumstances that forcibly changed your previous stance when you got started as a newly married woman. You seem reclined to a fate that was not your doing.

Nin baa intuu ku helay ku edbiyay Suleeqo

[Basra-]

Reacher

It is my psychology studies experience to notice a desperate woman always loses in the end. zulaika is one who is certainly desperate. Her need or dependence on a man is so strong that she is willing to risk everything, including getting Aids for him if that is what it takes to keep him. (figurative speaking of course. lol) I say, Good for her. But --sadly it tells me the height of her character, and that is--she has very low self esteem. She runs after a man when it should be the other way round. My assumptions is--she may be less good looking than him, or at the very least- very fat. Either way, he has her in his hands and that is not always to her advantage.



PS Sadly, such relations never survive. The ONLY relation that survives is when a man is a slave to a woman. (a good incentive to have an ever lasting erection) That he cannot see himself without her, dead or alive. A desperate woman can only go so fat with plastering the walls with bandages before it collapses in her face.

[Reacher]

Reacher

It is my psychology studies experience to notice a desperate woman. zulaika is one who is certainly desperate. Her need or dependence of a man is so strong that she is willing to risk every, including getting Aids for him. I say, Good for her. But --sadly it tells me the height of her character, and that is--she has low self esteem. She runs after a man when it should be the other way round. My assumptions is--she may be less good looking than him or fat. Either way, he has her in his hands.



PS Sadly, such relations never survive. The ONLY relation that survives is when a man is a slave to a woman. That he cannot see himself without her, death or alive.

Zulaika is sexier than you can ever wish to be and more really. A woman of class, family oriented, very civil and didn't notice her loose her cool. She has admirable traits and personality based on her inputs in here. And those observable attributes in the forum of hers alone make her really a beautiful woman.


Compare that to you. If I didn't despise men who insult women, and didn't think it is not befitting for a man to insult a woman, would have mentioned what I think you need to work on as improvements.

In any case, tone down the judgment of others you have as a religion on the forums. Moderation is the key.

[Basra-]

Reacher

It is my psychology studies experience to notice a desperate woman. zulaika is one who is certainly desperate. Her need or dependence of a man is so strong that she is willing to risk every, including getting Aids for him. I say, Good for her. But --sadly it tells me the height of her character, and that is--she has low self esteem. She runs after a man when it should be the other way round. My assumptions is--she may be less good looking than him or fat. Either way, he has her in his hands.



PS Sadly, such relations never survive. The ONLY relation that survives is when a man is a slave to a woman. That he cannot see himself without her, death or alive.

Zulaika is sexier than you can ever wish to be and more really. A woman of class, family oriented, very civil and didn't notice her loose her cool. She has admirable traits and personality based on her inputs in here. And those observable attributes in the forum of hers alone make her really a beautiful woman.


Compare that to you. If I didn't despise men who insult women, and didn't think it is not befitting for a man to insult a woman, would have mentioned what I think you need to work on as improvements.

In any case, tone down the judgment of others you have as a religion on the forums. Moderation is the key.

[BigBreak]

http://www.al-islam.org/muta-temporary- ... imacy-muta

good read