Getting involved w/ a married man.

[lander24]

yoo forget that married nigga and come get this single pipe

[Bari14]

Not sure but I'm sorry if this will ruin anyones Ramadan/fasting etc...if so delete pls

I know we should keep are sins to ourselves but this is like premeditated sin.

So, I've begun talking to this fella and he told me a couple days after we met that he is married with a 6 month old. He asked if I was fine w/it..(wtf) I of course said I don't mind but I wasn't sure if I didn't. He wants to do "things" now & I'm sorta down. Being a virgin is so dumb anyway especially if you're not in your teens anymore. I know nothing will come out of this besides a friendship if that. I don't think what I'm intending to do is wrong because he doesn't seem to care so why should I. Am I at the point of my life where I've become so desperate that I'm willing to lose my virginity to a man that's already taken. I have no morals anymore I guess. I doubt I'll ever get married so why keep waiting for a fob to give it too. Some days I feel bad for even texting him but his wife is not giving him any attention & he says they are not intimate. He could be feeding me lies I thought at first but he's genuine. I can't back out now anyway. I'm already living with major anxiety but I won't let it hold me back from this like its been holding me back from everything else in life...that's how I feel some days...I'm living life the way I want right now...well not really but I want to. Also, I don't want to get attached to this person. No one in my life stays its always temporarily. At the end of the day this fella goes home to his wife & kid so I lose. Life sucks & I hate myself so much, I'm so mean, angry & alone which is probably the worse. Now I'm already regretting doing it even before its done. Why can't I just stick to living my life for the Almighty why must I stray so easily. Is it even worth it sleeping w/a married person...maybe I'm just over thinking all of this & it's not a big deal I dunno but it's going to happen soon & I'm not 100% sure if I should. I don't know why I'm sharing this but I am...& maybe some of y'all have been in a similar situation. I'm sorta just ranting this out to the universe anyway I guess. My stomach is turning & my hands are shaking bad...I'm seriously going to barf after I post this. Hardly anyone goes in the women section...which should make me feel less nervous but it ain't. It is what it is. Fml


FIrst of all, what kind of female say's "fella" and rocks a Bull's Avatar?


Oh wait, a male snetter getting off on hearing Somalis do what they do best during Ramadan

give sound religious advice



P.s Excuse my run on sentences..etc

[Lillaahiya]

So, I've begun talking to this fella and he told me a couple days after we met that he is married with a 6 month old. He asked if I was fine w/it..(wtf)

Couldn't read anymore


What a spineless, pathetic excuse of a man. If he doesn't respect his wife enough to support her during this difficult phase instead of going off flirting with girls he most certainly has no respect for you.

And she's not spineless/pathetic for speaking to a married man? Takes 2 to tango.

[BlackVelvet]

So, I've begun talking to this fella and he told me a couple days after we met that he is married with a 6 month old. He asked if I was fine w/it..(wtf)

Couldn't read anymore


What a spineless, pathetic excuse of a man. If he doesn't respect his wife enough to support her during this difficult phase instead of going off flirting with girls he most certainly has no respect for you.

And she's not spineless/pathetic for speaking to a married man? Takes 2 to tango.

That would depend on what happens after the "...(wtf)"

Since I didn't want to read any further you decide

[ZubeirAwal]

A cheating woman for a cheating man, a faithful woman for a faithful man.