Yet another topic about marraige....

[MujahidAishah]

Xamuud maybe they just got married

Im with twist why get married tho

[Tuushi]

Snet`s experts are crazy.Divorce her kulahaa.Why cant anyone advice him to seek help from his Imam,a marriage counsellor?

Let him get him from those experienced,together with her.

[BlackVelvet]

Aren't people supposed to wait until they graduate and get a job before they get married?

Why does that make her a gold digger?

[Xamud.]

advo if you're his real friend ninka naagta ka fur, I'm usually against in la dheex galo dadka is qabo, laakin this case waa emergency.

Bro I know if she doesnt budge soon, his own family baa qasab uga furaayo.

[GAMES]

Marriage is a contract, and if one of the party isn't fulfilling the terms and conditions of said contract, then u have legal grounds for divorce.

Don't saxiix the dotted lines if u can't agree to it.

[0sman]

Aren't people supposed to wait until they graduate and get a job before they get married?

Why does that make her a gold digger?

They had off and on relationship but after he suddenly got a good paying job, she agreed to his marraige proposal. SWIM had to cough up insane amount of money when it was said and done.

You don't miss the slightest bit of chance to put on your Judge Judy glasses in scenarios like this, do you?

[BlackVelvet]

Aren't people supposed to wait until they graduate and get a job before they get married?

Why does that make her a gold digger?

They had off and on relationship but after he suddenly got a good paying job, she agreed to his marraige proposal. SWIM had to cough up insane amount of money when it was said and done.

You don't miss the slightest bit of chance to put on your Judge Judy glasses in scenarios like this, do you?

a lot of that was slanted by Advos colourful language

Facts:

They were in a relationship
it was on and off
he finished uni and got a job
they were on again and decided to get married
she wanted a big wedding (or expensive mehr) which he agreed to

[0sman]

[salool]

It's to damn late.Intaanu guursan bay aheyd inay wax yaalaha ka hadlaan.Not every woman wants have children and pple should respect that.We already have to many unfit mothers as its.Imsa caruur ah ba balanbaleya aduunka oo aakhirka gaaladu qaadata.Naag kasta hooyonimaddu kuma haboona..respect their decision folks!

[Deeqaaa]

Theres prolly way more to this story than you're telling. What is her side of the story? Its quite scary how some here say 'ooh well just get a divorce' like its so easy. Divorce is no option now. No one has even talked this out through both famz, right?

[Basra-]

Theres prolly way more to this story than you're telling. What is her side of the story? Its quite scary how some here say 'ooh well just get a divorce' like its so easy. Divorce is no option now. No one has even talked this out through both famz, right?

is your breathing better now?

[TheblueNwhite]

It's to damn late.Intaanu guursan bay aheyd inay wax yaalaha ka hadlaan.Not every woman wants have children and pple should respect that.We already have to many unfit mothers as its.Imsa caruur ah ba balanbaleya aduunka oo aakhirka gaaladu qaadata.Naag kasta hooyonimaddu kuma haboona..respect their decision folks!

The kids discussion should have taken place before he coughed up $$$ for the Meher.

Cooking is not a big deal. Dude can't cook. Wtf! Typical fob.

The way I see it, they deserve each other. Best of luck.

[Deeqaaa]

Theres prolly way more to this story than you're telling. What is her side of the story? Its quite scary how some here say 'ooh well just get a divorce' like its so easy. Divorce is no option now. No one has even talked this out through both famz, right?

is your breathing better now?

Now it is. Thanks for your concern.

[BlackVelvet]

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It's to damn late.Intaanu guursan bay aheyd inay wax yaalaha ka hadlaan.Not every woman wants have children and pple should respect that.We already have to many unfit mothers as its.Imsa caruur ah ba balanbaleya aduunka oo aakhirka gaaladu qaadata.Naag kasta hooyonimaddu kuma haboona..respect their decision folks!

Sax. Waa conversation private ah, very serious decision waaye and they should speak openly about it. Xita if she said she wanted to originally but is now having doubt waa wax u baahan si dagan with respect in loo xaliyo. Maybe she's just afraid now that the fantasy of children is a reality she is going to have to push out of her body.

If he's reaction is "oh so you don't want kids, let's get a divorce" then maybe they are better off getting that divorce. This is just the first of many cases of doubt, fear and confusion they are going to have to work through. Nin leysku haleyn karin, who reacts emotionally and runs to his family when faced with a problem waa liability.

[Cherine]

If you don't disclose important information like 'not wanting caruur' to a potential spouse it is akin to khiyaano. Acuudubillah.