I find myself attracted to someone from this forum, what should I do?
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Re: I find myself attracted to someone from this forum, what should I do?
Ala xasisanidiina for all you know this could be fate at work. Two random people who never would have met. Then one day the stars aligned, they signed up on a random forum, bam a connection
Turning away may be slapping fate's hand. Then you both end up with other people but you'll never know, what could have been. What if? What if you'd put yourself out there? What if you hadn't been too chicken? What if? But you will never know because he was brave enough to hope it was him but too scared to ask her if it was
She was brave enough to start a thread but other than the hope the answer she found was yahu
Ala today fate and romance xaal qaado
I am Black "don't be so chicken waryaa" Velvet
Turning away may be slapping fate's hand. Then you both end up with other people but you'll never know, what could have been. What if? What if you'd put yourself out there? What if you hadn't been too chicken? What if? But you will never know because he was brave enough to hope it was him but too scared to ask her if it was
She was brave enough to start a thread but other than the hope the answer she found was yahu
Ala today fate and romance xaal qaado
I am Black "don't be so chicken waryaa" Velvet
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Re: I find myself attracted to someone from this forum, what should I do?
The Steve Harvey showAdali wrote:What show is that gif from ?
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Re: I find myself attracted to someone from this forum, what should I do?


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Re: I find myself attracted to someone from this forum, what should I do?
Once, I had a cyber crush on this Xalima who told me she was a sophomore student near me, but she turned out to be a mother of 4 few years younger than my mother. What I went through as a love seeking teenager was torture. Never again.
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Re: I find myself attracted to someone from this forum, what should I do?
Bv how long has this been going on? I will email PO now. I will also remind him to abandon the whol abo siyad thing so worry not.
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Re: I find myself attracted to someone from this forum, what should I do?
Machiavelli2 wrote:Once, I had a cyber crush on this Xalima who told me she was a sophomore student near me, but she turned out to be a mother of 4 few years younger than my mother. What I went through as a love seeking teenager was torture. Never again.


My bad. Maskiin, that must have been traumatic

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Re: I find myself attracted to someone from this forum, what should I do?
metamorphosis wrote:Bv how long has this been going on? I will email PO now. I will also remind him to abandon the whol abo siyad thing so worry not.

Re: I find myself attracted to someone from this forum, what should I do?
BlackVelvet wrote:Ala xasisanidiina for all you know this could be fate at work. Two random people who never would have met. Then one day the stars aligned, they signed up on a random forum, bam a connection
Turning away may be slapping fate's hand. Then you both end up with other people but you'll never know, what could have been. What if? What if you'd put yourself out there? What if you hadn't been too chicken? What if? But you will never know because he was brave enough to hope it was him but too scared to ask her if it was
She was brave enough to start a thread but other than the hope the answer she found was yahu
Ala today fate and romance xaal qaado
I am Black "don't be so chicken waryaa" Velvet

Wala ka yaaba ninkad ka heeshe inu mooryan jeeb maran yehe marka mid adi laamid eeh, wa ku qalmo.
Cala ayi xaal, carawelo raaga xinyaha ka jareeyso mu doonaya?

Re: I find myself attracted to someone from this forum, what should I do?
On a serious note BV, that is why it is all about delayed gratification (Akhira), I get the sense that you are type to plan for every contingency and have perfectionist tendencies. Whoever you end up with, even if that spark is not there like it might be with another suitor, all that matters is that they have Sabr, Akhlaaq, Imaan and are fiscally responsible when the time comes that you choose not to work anymore. The dreamer loses his/her spark with age as choices become limited.
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Re: I find myself attracted to someone from this forum, what should I do?
Only Abdiwahab252 should you turn to for such advice.
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Re: I find myself attracted to someone from this forum, what should I do?

BV
I sent you my digits. It's ok, I feel the same way too.
Re: I find myself attracted to someone from this forum, what should I do?
TheblueNwhite wrote:![]()
BV
I sent you my digits. It's ok, I feel the same way too.
What will you do if you are not the one she had in mind? Despite being led on to believ that u are....

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Re: I find myself attracted to someone from this forum, what should I do?
Abo Siyaadmetamorphosis wrote:Bv how long has this been going on? I will email PO now. I will also remind him to abandon the whol abo siyad thing so worry not.


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