I don't feel sorry for Single Mothers

[EvolSyawla]

You're blaming the xalimo and not the men who lack ambition and drive. What a typical faarax.

How about his 10 kids needing a good and successful Aabo or is that nulified because hooyo is over weight.


Advo

[Sophisticate]

Evol,

I think where Somalis went wrong is the naago. The naago do not motivate the Somali men enough. All around the world men was motivated by naag to achieve the greatest. They conquered and soar above the moon because they were pursuing naago that inspired them but Somali xalimo just want 12 babies and become fat in their diraac and gogaraado. This demoralized the warya and they turned to AK47 and khat as a relief from at home.

Had they had better and more beautiful women that maintain themselves and their families----the Warya would be a lion to be reckon with.

Thus its necessary we re-engineer the society from social and family levels rather than try to revive dead state and blame politics.

Thus Somalis need women from the region not anymore Xalimos.

Even Einstein came up with the e=mc^2 because he was fantasising a naag with endless energy.

So, filling into a Dirac makes ladies undesirable and makes men complacent. This forces them into khat chambers, and creates defective soilders. The end product is lower grade children, that repeat this cycle. Duly noted, Hawadian.

[gegiroor]

^then go marry elite habashi women that openly urinate in the streets.


God bless the Somali woman, our sisters and mothers

And wives

[WaaliCas]

Evol,

I think where Somalis went wrong is the naago. The naago do not motivate the Somali men enough. All around the world men was motivated by naag to achieve the greatest. They conquered and soar above the moon because they were pursuing naago that inspired them but Somali xalimo just want 12 babies and become fat in their diraac and gogaraado. This demoralized the warya and they turned to AK47 and khat as a relief from at home.

Had they had better and more beautiful women that maintain themselves and their families----the Warya would be a lion to be reckon with.

Thus its necessary we re-engineer the society from social and family levels rather than try to revive dead state and blame politics.

Thus Somalis need women from the region not anymore Xalimos.

Even Einstein came up with the e=mc^2 because he was fantasising a naag with endless energy.

So, filling into a Dirac makes ladies undesirable and makes men complacent. This forces them into khat chambers, and creates defective soilders. The end product is lower grade children, that repeat this cycle. Duly noted, Hawadian.

I love and respect all women but that's my theory. I'm not just taking aim at the Xalimos for the sake of trolling

Arab culture and Xalimos are two fields that killed the Warya.

The Somali Warya has one issue and that is mouth. They talk a lot and try to shame the Xalimo. They should stop that. It's better for the Xalimo to nest elsewhere and for the Warya to court a new breed meaning new Xalimo is needed then Somali society perhaps can recover. I hate guys that try to shame Xalimo because she is dating or breeding for foreign men. We should encourage them to find love and family elsewhere and stop that behavior.

The Warya should import a new gene all while exporting Xalimo to where they are desired.

[Sophisticate]

Evol,

I think where Somalis went wrong is the naago. The naago do not motivate the Somali men enough. All around the world men was motivated by naag to achieve the greatest. They conquered and soar above the moon because they were pursuing naago that inspired them but Somali xalimo just want 12 babies and become fat in their diraac and gogaraado. This demoralized the warya and they turned to AK47 and khat as a relief from at home.

Had they had better and more beautiful women that maintain themselves and their families----the Warya would be a lion to be reckon with.

Thus its necessary we re-engineer the society from social and family levels rather than try to revive dead state and blame politics.

Thus Somalis need women from the region not anymore Xalimos.

Even Einstein came up with the e=mc^2 because he was fantasising a naag with endless energy.

So, filling into a Dirac makes ladies undesirable and makes men complacent. This forces them into khat chambers, and creates defective soilders. The end product is lower grade children, that repeat this cycle. Duly noted, Hawadian.

I love and respect all women but that's my theory. I'm not just taking aim at the Xalimos for the sake of trolling

Arab culture and Xalimos are two fields that killed the Warya.

The Somali Warya has one issue and that is mouth. They talk a lot and try to shame the Xalimo. They should stop that. It's better for the Xalimo to nest elsewhere and for the Warya to court a new breed meaning new Xalimo is needed then Somali society perhaps can recover. I hate guys that try to shame Xalimo because she is dating or breeding for foreign men. We should encourage them to find love and family elsewhere and stop that behavior.

The Warya should import a new gene all while exporting Xalimo to where they are desired.

Hawadian, bro you can talk to me. Is this new xalimo you're courting xabeshi by any chance? I mean you don't have to promote inter-ethnic marriage just because your tastes have changed. Some of us still like the mawaiis. It's OK if you're into the kemis.

[WaaliCas]

Sophisticate,

Not really dear sister. I do not base my views on my own preferences or experiences in life. Those things are emotions and I have long figured how to separate ego, pride and emotions from issues or subjects at hand.

I respect Amhara and Oromo sisters the most no doubt because they are very loyal to fellow country and country men and are not as naive as Somali, Tigrai and Eritrean women.

For example you will hardly find any Amhara or Oromo breeding with whites even when they live together in a Christian state. Somali xalimo will cheat the welfare office in order to save ticket to see Arab jihadist half way around the world.

Eritreans are similar to Somali women and many of them maintain secret Arab and white lovers. They hide when they see their own and play virgins like Somali girls.

Somali, Eritrean and Tigrai naago share many characteristics in common.

The Amhara woman conducts her business very transparent and if she is classy or cheap she will handle herself without secret life.

The options are many for the Farah including Hausa, Fulani, Nubians, Darfurians, Oromo, Afar, Beja, and Muslim Amhara.

Of course if it was up to me I do create a pilot project in one of the remote Somali villages and study the marriage and family success or failures.

[Sophisticate]

Sophisticate,

Not really dear sister. I do not base my views on my own preferences or experiences in life. Those things are emotions and I have long figured how to separate ego, pride and emotions from issues or subjects at hand.

I respect Amhara and Oromo sisters the most no doubt because they are very loyal to fellow country and country men and are not as naive as Somali, Tigrai and Eritrean women.

For example you will hardly find any Amhara or Oromo breeding with whites even when they live together in a Christian state. Somali xalimo will cheat the welfare office in order to save ticket to see Arab jihadist half way around the world.

Eritreans are similar to Somali women and many of them maintain secret Arab and white lovers. They hide when they see their own and play virgins like Somali girls.

The Amhara woman conducts her business very transparent and if she is classy or cheap she will handle herself without secret life.

You will see more Ethiopian boys bringing home Somali hijaban than cross wearing Amhara. Why?

Will you deny that?

Naag Somali is cheap waxa kale wa been laydin sheegay and they are not even the hottest in the region either.

Real talk. Sorry girls but idinka mesha isdhiigay and I can't lie for you.

You realize the marriage economy as you know it among Somalis has experienced a radical change. Somalis were once among the most beautiful the region had to offer. Girls were costly back in the day, and they were priced according to beauty. However, the stock has fallen after the war. The cost of marriage back home is priced very low now (compared to yesteryear), meaning a man without (financial wherewithal) can marry without much fuss. These low quality men can marry whomever and produce low quality children, adversely impacting the children with their low quality diet. Perhaps this has had a ricocheting effect on the diaspora, given an increased number of those with bad teeth "thankfully cured because of braces." Also, not spacing children apart (at least 3 years) like they used to (in the past) is contributing to a spike in misshapen heads and other facial asymmetries that contribute to unattractiveness. Make no mistake sxb, the bad food is making the genes sour too. Then they are producing even more gmo children overseas now that they are taking strange fruit from low quality foreigners (which also need the assistance of braces).

[WaaliCas]

^^^Good points. I fully agree with you. Somali society was disrupted by the war. Culture went out off the window. Elders went with it. Norms and status, laws and values went with it too. We are left with society that demands less and settles for the lowest. Every day nggaz wed a new naag and divorce her only months later because Somali naago are so cheap and take anything. They so over supplied and so cheap.

The guys marrying them also marry them for pleasure not other reasons and once they are faced with a challenge, Somalis always take the easy way out. That is the case in every aspect of life not just marriage. Look they take taxi, daycare and similar jobs because they can't put the hard work through it. Those things are the easiest way to make quick cash and the marriage is also easy in and easy out.

So many single mothers carry kids with many different fathers. Somalis are one step behind the African Americans.

[PrinceDaadi]

it is beyond my understanding how we can blame our women the failure of our society! if there was no break down of society we wouldn't have been in the west in big numbers where culture and environment were against us.

If we had a strong culture like Kurds, Arabs and Indians then maybe we wouldn't have this problem.

[Rambie]

I would say it's 80% mens fault and 20 on women.
Cos seriously, if you're not up for it, why marry?

You have arrogant men who don't know """" about family
and other maskiin who let their moms interfere in their mirage and sometimes decide when and how to divorce!

Both take the easyway out in most cases.

[Sophisticate]

^^^Good points. I fully agree with you. Somali society was disrupted by the war. Culture went out off the window. Elders went with it. Norms and status, laws and values went with it too. We are left with society that demands less and settles for the lowest. Every day nggaz wed a new naag and divorce her only months later because Somali naago are so cheap and take anything. They so over supplied and so cheap.

The guys marrying them also marry them for pleasure not other reasons and once they are faced with a challenge, Somalis always take the easy way out. That is the case in every aspect of life not just marriage. Look they take taxi, daycare and similar jobs because they can't put the hard work through it. Those things are the easiest way to make quick cash and the marriage is also easy in and easy out.

So many single mothers carry kids with many different fathers. Somalis are one step behind the African Americans.

You realize, I was exaggerating. I will admit that the institution of marriage isn't as solid now as it was in the past. War has contributed to the changing of cultural practices/norms and so has urbanization and out-migration. Somalis are not alone in their divorce rate. This phenomenon is not unique to them, but is widespread. I haven't come across serially-married Somali people before. Sure I've heard of divorcees, but 3X married or more (not quite). In that regard, men and women are to blame for this. I also don't think its fair to put sole ownership of blame squarely on the womenfolk.

[Sumubaridi]

I live in an appartment which has so many Somali couples, habashi couples and Oromo Couples. In the morning, the Ethiopian women wear their jeans in the middle of the Ice and walk to the aiport to clean. The husband does the same. You will see them in the evening helping each other and dragging the kids and cunto back and forth. Basically, Ethiopian women are the left hand of their man and they work so hard and so loyal to their marriage. I only see Somali women in the morning putting their kids to school with their baati. They again come out at 3PM to collect the kids from the bus and go back home. The Somali husband goes to the grocery and carries gallons of milk, boxes of food, and all that after a long day of work and tiredness. She does not even bother to come out to help. I am talking about 7 years of living in this appartment. They always talk about how the husband is not helping in the putting the kids on the bus and taking them out of the bus so she does not have to come out at all. One thing somali women score record is talk, talk, talk and talk more while in the kitchen.

[gegiroor]

They always talk about how the husband is not helping in the putting the kids on the bus and taking them out of the bus so she does not have to come out at all. One thing somali women score record is talk, talk, talk and talk more while in the kitchen.

Sumubaridi bro, didn't you want them in the Kitchen? If I am not mistaken, one of your earlier comments stated the place of women is in the kitchen, so why do you have an issue with it now?

Another point, if the wife is taking care of things at home, preparing the kids to school, walking with the children until they get on the bus, and getting the kids off the school bus when they come back from school, in my view that is a full-time job.

Husband goes to work, comes back home and brings back the grocery, good. I see a division of labor right there where everyone is contributing to the family.

Do you know the difference between Habashi men and Somali guys? Habashi men are too jealous where the husband can't fathom him going to work while wifey stays home. In their culture, Habashis man thinks another man will sneak in the back door while the husband is at work. Acuudubillaah, you will only find Habashi men killing their wives out of jealousy. This is probably why you see both of them going to work together. Alhamdulillaah, we (Somali men) don't have that illness.

Another thing in other non-Muslim cultures is, they expect their women to bring money home and pay their fair share of the bills. However, in Muslim societies, including us, the financial responsibility is on the men. If the wives can help it, fine, but the financial responsibility is on the men. Khalif Omar Bin Al-Khattab (May Allah be pleased with him) was asked about the status of women. He has responded, "When I looked at my wife with all of the things she is going through, carrying children in her womb, labor, raising children, and educating children, I can only conclude that this woman is in Jihad." That is the wisdom in Islam. Women are already in Jihad in their life-time, so demanding them to face more hardships, like going to work, bring the grocery, and contributing to the household financially is really overburdening them. Of course, in the Somali diaspora, in many families, women are doing every thing. And it is happening because many men are not full-filling their obligations.

One advice I have for you is, go to the fadhikudirir places and see how many men sitting there. Do you know any fadhikudir centers where women gather to just kill time? I have never seen it in my over 20 years in the diaspora. So long story short bro Sumubaridi, calm down this rhetoric and Somali woman bashing. They are our moms, daughters, sisters, and wives. Good luck to in finding a wife!

[MujahidAishah]

cry me a river

[gegiroor]

cry me a river

But all I know Aisha is not a single mother

Ramadan Kareem to you Aisha.