So is it allowed for me to marry more than one man if I can afford it financially?
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Re: So is it allowed for me to marry more than one man if I can afford it financially?
Men have more sexual needs than women
4 dudes that have strong sexual desires will each demand to bust atleast twice a day
4x2=8
2 weeks into the marrage ur suga walls will collapse on their own.
4 dudes that have strong sexual desires will each demand to bust atleast twice a day
4x2=8
2 weeks into the marrage ur suga walls will collapse on their own.
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Re: So is it allowed for me to marry more than one man if I can afford it financially?
Just don't end up on the Maury show.xamarLady wrote:I believe in equality of men and women. I hope it is ok for me to marry more than one man if I can afford it financially. For your information I will treat all my men equally and fairly.

Re: So is it allowed for me to marry more than one man if I can afford it financially?
Trust me it 'll when they make sh!t like this "The norm".Hyperactive wrote:Cali looool as long we are not one of her husbands, won't effect us
Re: So is it allowed for me to marry more than one man if I can afford it financially?
Advo wrote:Men have more sexual needs than women
4 dudes that have strong sexual desires will each demand to bust atleast twice a day
4x2=8
2 weeks into the marrage ur suga walls will collapse on their own.
Re: So is it allowed for me to marry more than one man if I can afford it financially?
it seems you have never had sex with a woman. women can handle more men at once while men usually can't even satisfy one women with their 2 minutes performanceAdvo wrote:Men have more sexual needs than women
4 dudes that have strong sexual desires will each demand to bust atleast twice a day
4x2=8
2 weeks into the marrage ur suga walls will collapse on their own.
Re: So is it allowed for me to marry more than one man if I can afford it financially?
somali men doing labour? what labour? khat?BVSNet wrote: Marriage is not about equality. More often than not it's about resources and reproduction, it serves a purpose.
So yes, you could in actual fact marry more than one man. It has happened and continuous to happen in certain cultures where resources are limited and increased labour (via increasing the number of children) is seen to add less value.
We however live in a context where labour does add value therefore men have more wives and have more children.
Logic aside, are you talking about the emotional and physical aspects of the marriage itself? Then the question is would you want to have one husband let alone 2 or 4? Would each of your husbands then also have the opportunity to have 2 or 4 wives? Then if the 4 of your husbands did that and the 16 wives the husbands have in total married 3 other men each, are you in a marriage or is it an intricate swingers club?
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Re: So is it allowed for me to marry more than one man if I can afford it financially?
Oh god not another one of these "omg Islam is so sexist" #Intersectionalfemenist #Independentwoman #Femenistforlifewhoneedsmen?
The religion is already straightforward on this matter, if you are not a muslim then why should it matter to you?
The religion is already straightforward on this matter, if you are not a muslim then why should it matter to you?
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Re: So is it allowed for me to marry more than one man if I can afford it financially?
so your theory above is wrong. female prostitutes have sex with 50 men daily and they do it for many yrs.Advo wrote:Men have more sexual needs than women
4 dudes that have strong sexual desires will each demand to bust atleast twice a day
4x2=8
2 weeks into the marrage ur suga walls will collapse on their own.
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Re: So is it allowed for me to marry more than one man if I can afford it financially?
If you aren't muslim, then look at it from an evolutionary biology point of view. Men are biologically programmed to fck as many women as possible to procreate and pass on their genes. Women are biologically programmed to fck the most dominant male who can provide security for her and his babies.
This thread is a facetious attempt at being funny and controversial you have succeeded in neither. What you have done, however, is make yourself look like a thirsty harlot who isn't very bright.
This thread is a facetious attempt at being funny and controversial you have succeeded in neither. What you have done, however, is make yourself look like a thirsty harlot who isn't very bright.
Re: So is it allowed for me to marry more than one man if I can afford it financially?
lol so you are angry and that's where this is coming from. Read what I said again at some point when you're more relaxed about the topic.xamarLady wrote:somali men doing labour? what labour? khat?BVSNet wrote: Marriage is not about equality. More often than not it's about resources and reproduction, it serves a purpose.
So yes, you could in actual fact marry more than one man. It has happened and continuous to happen in certain cultures where resources are limited and increased labour (via increasing the number of children) is seen to add less value.
We however live in a context where labour does add value therefore men have more wives and have more children.
Logic aside, are you talking about the emotional and physical aspects of the marriage itself? Then the question is would you want to have one husband let alone 2 or 4? Would each of your husbands then also have the opportunity to have 2 or 4 wives? Then if the 4 of your husbands did that and the 16 wives the husbands have in total married 3 other men each, are you in a marriage or is it an intricate swingers club?most somali men are lazy doing sh!t. so the labour thing makes no sense. people tell me that the reason why men are allowed to marry more than one woman is because of finances and resources. So i am asking: can i marry more than one man if i have the finances and resources? why is a man allowed to sleep with more than one women but the women not? straight and fair question in my view.
But I'd humour you in the angry stage as well: if a woman wants to sleep with more than 1 man while keeping it halal then just keep getting married and divorced. You can then fit in 4 men in a year, in 5 years that gets to 20. Not as quickly as a man who can have 4 wives and no waiting period after divorce but he'd have to pay mehr every time so less expensive.
You can work around it.
Re: So is it allowed for me to marry more than one man if I can afford it financially?
xamarLady wrote:it seems you have never had sex with a woman. women can handle more men at once while men usually can't even satisfy one women with their 2 minutes performanceAdvo wrote:Men have more sexual needs than women
4 dudes that have strong sexual desires will each demand to bust atleast twice a day
4x2=8
2 weeks into the marrage ur suga walls will collapse on their own.
2 minutes??? What are they teenagers?
If u can handle four men, tossing and turning u 8 times a day every day more power to u.
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Re: So is it allowed for me to marry more than one man if I can afford it financially?
The crucial word in my question is "allowed". Whether I want a dominant male or just want to fck as many men as I like, I should be the one making the decision - not the culture or the religion. And if the culture/religion gives lame excuses like financial capability, just to cover up men's sexual lust then it should also be fair and allow women with the needed finances to have halal sex with many men.LiquidHYDROGEN wrote:If you aren't muslim, then look at it from an evolutionary biology point of view. Men are biologically programmed to fck as many women as possible to procreate and pass on their genes. Women are biologically programmed to fck the most dominant male who can provide security for her and his babies.
This thread is a facetious attempt at being funny and controversial you have succeeded in neither. What you have done, however, is make yourself look like a thirsty harlot who isn't very bright.
Re: So is it allowed for me to marry more than one man if I can afford it financially?
Do you identify yourself as a Muslim?xamarLady wrote:The crucial word in my question is "allowed". Whether I want a dominant male or just want to fck as many men as I like, I should be the one making the decision - not the culture or the religion. And if the culture/religion gives lame excuses like financial capability, just to cover up men's sexual lust then it should also be fair and allow women with the needed finances to have halal sex with many men.LiquidHYDROGEN wrote:If you aren't muslim, then look at it from an evolutionary biology point of view. Men are biologically programmed to fck as many women as possible to procreate and pass on their genes. Women are biologically programmed to fck the most dominant male who can provide security for her and his babies.
This thread is a facetious attempt at being funny and controversial you have succeeded in neither. What you have done, however, is make yourself look like a thirsty harlot who isn't very bright.
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