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eliteSomali wrote:Wax kasta maxaad wasmo oga dhigtaan horta? Sidan si ma'aha, dadka nabad siiya.
DANGIRL wrote:Fact#123 you can be married and still get your edumacation.
My guess is, people are pointing out that education and marriage are not contradictory. You can do both at the same time. If one chooses to opt out of one, that is their prerogative. They can not claim one devalues the other. That is the issue people are debunking. Westerners have similar habit of pitting religion against science even though the two have different but important roles in man's life. How does knowing about gravity contradict God's manifest power? If a woman wants to get educated, she has the right to do so and should get educated, but to suggest marriage/companionship will be counter productive to one's education is baseless. It is tired cliché and only muslim women talk about that nonsense.eliteSomali wrote:Wax kasta maxaad wasmo oga dhigtaan horta? Sidan si ma'aha, dadka nabad siiya.
Awowgaa used to eat once a day or maybe none sometimes. This kids eat cheese burger 24/7 and are on fire with kacsi sxb. They have to relieve themselves. The xalaal the better.Hyperactive wrote:eliteSomali wrote:Wax kasta maxaad wasmo oga dhigtaan horta? Sidan si ma'aha, dadka nabad siiya.
tell them inadeero. awoowyaden 50 years bey ko gaari jireen "7er" iyo kitaab raa3id. waligoodna zina oma ey dawaanin.
they made sex so important that is all they think off. helthy blance is fine but afer you ready for responsibility. sex is responsibility isnt thing taken lightly.
I agree with you. Marriage doesn't hinder education thought at times it does if she gets pregnant. I was more shocked at how people were attacking the girl and making some disgusting assumptions about her life.QuantumSatis wrote:My guess is, people are pointing out that education and marriage are not contradictory. You can do both at the same time. If one chooses to opt out of one, that is their prerogative. They can not claim one devalues the other. That is the issue people are debunking. Westerners have similar habit of pitting religion against science even though the two have different but important roles in man's life. How does knowing about gravity contradict God's manifest power? If a woman wants to get educated, she has the right to do so and should get educated, but to suggest marriage/companionship will be counter productive to one's education is baseless. It is tired cliché and only muslim women talk about that nonsense.eliteSomali wrote:Wax kasta maxaad wasmo oga dhigtaan horta? Sidan si ma'aha, dadka nabad siiya.
It is Somalis and minorities from other countries who are obsessed with this separation between education and one's interests in finding someone they are happy with.
Waste of time.
Good luck sxb. Let me know when you come.Hyperactive wrote:not yet bro. i am waiting my sister to finish highschool and get eccepted in university then i will move inshallah.
eliteSomali wrote: I agree with you. Marriage doesn't hinder education thought at times it does if she gets pregnant. I was more shocked at how people were attacking the girl and making some disgusting assumptions about her life.
Cosign! I'd recommend marriage as they pursue their career choices. There are plenty of time left for kids after school is done if married early.QuantumSatis wrote:eliteSomali wrote: I agree with you. Marriage doesn't hinder education thought at times it does if she gets pregnant. I was more shocked at how people were attacking the girl and making some disgusting assumptions about her life.
It is wrong to attack the young pretty girl who made a good choice for herself. And you are right to defend her. However, a woman can be smart and use birth control methods to have her cake and eat it if that is what she wants. Marrying only to have kids is stupid anyway. babe factories are just a burden on the world.
Nothing better than having both education and companionship that is helpful to your interests, that is the point. A couple can plan to avoid having babies when they are not ready. They can wait until both or one of them finish college. It is all about agreements and how can people get out of life what they are meant to have without denying themselves the opportunities.
Fact#456DANGIRL wrote:Fact#123 you can be married and still get your edumacation.
Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE wrote:Marriage is not gonna stop u from going to school..but make sure u marry the right person and stack up the contraception.
you reminded me my sister, when she said "i am not some one who finishes 4 years university and works... i want do my masters and ph d...bla bla " i told her... after 2 years in university, nin on ha e kenin . foodleydan cannot be trustedVivacious wrote:I didn't get married until I finished my education so I don't know why some of you are against such peronal choices people make.
