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MujahidAishah wrote:Huuno Air B the Quran and sunah says that mother is recommend to breast feed for 2 years. Because it takes two years for your body to recover from pregnancy illhay has told you thousand years ago what cadaan ppl are telling us.

Islam is not against using birth control you can use it if you wish to space your children out so that you can give your full attention to that child. Children have xaq over parents aswell you have a toddler newborn and are pregnant again that is not a life for you or your children..

Caa'isha, I am okay with family planning, in fact I preach it... from an angle of health issues! Not from the poverty rhetoric.

MujahidAishah wrote:Help your cousin out susu ppl do stupid stuff over things we take for granted. I think men should also be taught family planning they think child birth and pregnancy is easy and expect women to pop out kids every yr till they hit menopause. When they don't know how detrimental it is to a women's health.

There are natural methods too... apparently a woman can't get pregnant as long as she is breastfeeding, which is a natural birth control by God's design

Good boy!!!

I'm off to bed before ppl realise I'm actually normal

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I'm sorry I just had to post that gif

Just make sure your reasoning for not wanting more kids, people.

TheFuturist wrote:

MujahidAishah wrote:Help your cousin out susu ppl do stupid stuff over things we take for granted. I think men should also be taught family planning they think child birth and pregnancy is easy and expect women to pop out kids every yr till they hit menopause. When they don't know how detrimental it is to a women's health.

There are natural methods too... apparently a woman can't get pregnant as long as she is breastfeeding, which is a natural birth control by God's design

That only works if you breastfed your child 24/7 once you start introducing caano niido and food that goes out the window

AirBitaale wrote:

Hyperactive wrote:Air, it's not only bariis. kids need education, good nutiration, activity, some luxery life dee. ma bariis $100 lo so diray ba rizq ah?

Hyper, bariis = bill. Garo dee

horta hadan somali nahay, hadan been la isku shegeyn, most os us come from nothing. God is the provider but God also said take your "asbaab" break rocks if you have to to provide for your self and your family. qofki dadala Allahey ma qadiyo.

i am just with just hit and run after 5+ kids for poor women.

Hyperactive wrote:

AirBitaale wrote:

Hyperactive wrote:Air, it's not only bariis. kids need education, good nutiration, activity, some luxery life dee. ma bariis $100 lo so diray ba rizq ah?

Hyper, bariis = bill. Garo dee

horta hadan somali nahay, hadan been la isku shegeyn, most os us come from nothing. God is the provider but God also said take your "asbaab" break rocks if you have to to provide for your self and your family. qofki dadala Allahey ma qadiyo.

i am just with just hit and run after 5+ kids for poor women.

Hence Xaglo laaban xoolo kuma yimaadaan. You have to work for it!

Anyway, I disagree with the limit at all. Saying people should have that X amount of kids. Who are you to decide that.

they have to decide for themselves. we just need to educate them and show them all cos and bros.

Hyperactive wrote:they have to decide for themselves. we just need to educate them and show them all cos and bros.

And more importantly the Islamic stance on the matter.

Marraige, kids, divorce...whatever you're "plans" are in this matter, theres another prevailing one. Completely out of your hands. If its agreeable to your plans, hopes etc..say Alhamdulilah, if not, pray to God to help smooth the bump or imaan to accept it.

A lot of you guys have proper GAAL mentalities, every child has his Riziq written, the struggles are just part of the character building and expiation of sins, our own family has gone through it, today everyone is wealthy and the parents along with extended familiy are enjoying the fruits in ways that would have been impossible if they had these GAALO mentalities of family planning

Most of us wouldn't have even been born, it's a win/win, the kid dies straight to Jannah bypassing the difficulties in this world, otherwise he will become a source of great income not just to his family but also tolka and his country, things are not always as you perceive, I have seen many of these people back home in abject poverty, they are a lot more happy then the fast majority of you guys that live in comfort in this worldly life and Akhira wise they are even more ahead!

smooth wrote:A lot of you guys have proper GAAL mentalities, every child has his Riziq written, the struggles are just part of the character building and expiation of sins, our own family has gone through it, today everyone is wealthy and the parents along with extended familiy are enjoying the fruits in ways that would have been impossible if they had these GAALO mentalities of family planning

Most of us wouldn't have even been born, it's a win/win, the kid dies straight to Jannah bypassing the difficulties in this world, otherwise he will become a source of great income not just to his family but also tolka and his country, things are not always as you perceive, I have seen many of these people back home in abject poverty, they are a lot more happy then the fast majority of you guys that live in comfort in this worldly life and Akhira wise they are even more ahead!

First and only time I agree with Smooth.

It's haraam not to have kids for the fear of poverty. Allah the mighty has everyone risq written down. Just because someone is born into a poor family does not mean they would not become successful.

Hyperactive wrote:if was just legal to spay and nuuter human!!!

just spit out my shah

No one has the power to limit children.Imsa naagood oo is xidhay ba uur yeeshay.Wixi ilaahy qoray cidna ma celin karto.

Ilaahy waxa laga barya uun caruur caafimad qabta oo saalaxiin ah.

smooth wrote:A lot of you guys have proper GAAL mentalities, every child has his Riziq written, the struggles are just part of the character building and expiation of sins, our own family has gone through it, today everyone is wealthy and the parents along with extended familiy are enjoying the fruits in ways that would have been impossible if they had these GAALO mentalities of family planning

Most of us wouldn't have even been born, it's a win/win, the kid dies straight to Jannah bypassing the difficulties in this world, otherwise he will become a source of great income not just to his family but also tolka and his country, things are not always as you perceive, I have seen many of these people back home in abject poverty, they are a lot more happy then the fast majority of you guys that live in comfort in this worldly life and Akhira wise they are even more ahead!

Wonderfully put.