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i prefer not to marry outside my qabiil
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30%
i dont care about qabiil but i would like to marry within my region/country
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i dont really care as long as he/she is a somali muslim
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i dont care about qabiil, region/country or religion.
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Re: Marrying from another qabiil.

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^ of course that's fine with me. That's why I said for me to marry from my qabiil was just a destiny. Waligey kuma fikirin in aan beesha ku soo noqdo.
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Re: Marrying from another qabiil.

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You known regurgitating the same bull shyt is actually what keeps people stupid.
Ka baxa doqonimada , sheeko nacsinimo haddi la dhigto , nacas bu dadku wada noqda. I am not addressing anyone in particular , "environment " ka iska bedela , wax isu biiriya oo wax kala waydaarsada .
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Re: Marrying from another qabiil.

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Vivacious wrote:^ of course that's fine with me. That's why I said for me to marry from my qabiil was just a destiny. Waligey kuma fikirin in aan beesha ku soo noqdo.
wan gartay, waa muhiim caruurtada inaad reer abti u yeeshid, atleast another sub clan inaad ka guursatid lakiin waa iska waa calaf.
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Re: Marrying from another qabiil.

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Re: Marrying from another qabiil.

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Generally I draw the line at SOMALI - irrespective of region. If I like him and I want him and then I'm down for it.
Vivacious wrote:Let's just say that it was qadr that I married from my sub sub sub clan :lol:
Ohhh. So your hubby is abgaal?
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isnt about saving the marriage sis, lets say, mid xamarawi ah ayaad guursatay hadii uu calafkiina kala dhamaado, isagu waxa uu raba in uu caruurta xamar gaysto adna hargeisa ayad rabtaa? ma ragta? xitaa hadii aydan kala tagin waxa laga yaaba inoo rabo inoo wadankii aad ku noqotaan dabcan xamar ayuu doorbidi doonaa adigu hargeisa, waa caqabadaha kuwaan ka hadlaayo.
Wallahi soomalida jahilnimada aa ku nacay...2016 and we can't bloody live amongst each other. Anywho, Xamar wa magaalo weyen kow dheh...ain't nobody up in your face like that. And many different people of different qabiils live there. Tan kale, why can't a female not take her kids to her city? Who says no?
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CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC wrote:
Inaayah wrote:Cigaal- It's our dhaqan inay gabadhu degto ninka deegaankiisa (hadaanay wax kale ku heshiinin) so if I marry a man who his deegan is Xamar then I better be ready to live there aakhirka unless we both agree on otherwise.

Everything is about is fahanka. If you have that then everything else is workable. Waad heshiin doontaan.

And if worst comes to worst and a divorce takes place, then he can call his people and I'll call my people and we'll sit down and discuss it like grown folks.
then what happens if there's no agreement?

BV banu hashim :blessed: :stylin:
If 2 grown people who once use to share a bed can't reach an amicable decision, based on the children's best interest then inkaaro kale aya haya.

G'night fuley. :P
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Re: Marrying from another qabiil.

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VeiledGarbasar wrote:Generally I draw the line at SOMALI - irrespective of region. If I like him and I want him and then I'm down for it.
Vivacious wrote:Let's just say that it was qadr that I married from my sub sub sub clan :lol:
Ohhh. So your hubby is abgaal?
Haa abaay. Afartoo laf kale aan sii wadaagnaa :lol:
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VeiledGarbasar wrote:Generally I draw the line at SOMALI - irrespective of region. If I like him and I want him and then I'm down for it.
Vivacious wrote:Let's just say that it was qadr that I married from my sub sub sub clan :lol:
Ohhh. So your hubby is abgaal?
CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC wrote:
isnt about saving the marriage sis, lets say, mid xamarawi ah ayaad guursatay hadii uu calafkiina kala dhamaado, isagu waxa uu raba in uu caruurta xamar gaysto adna hargeisa ayad rabtaa? ma ragta? xitaa hadii aydan kala tagin waxa laga yaaba inoo rabo inoo wadankii aad ku noqotaan dabcan xamar ayuu doorbidi doonaa adigu hargeisa, waa caqabadaha kuwaan ka hadlaayo.
Wallahi soomalida jahilnimada aa ku nacay...2016 and we can't bloody live amongst each other. Anywho, Xamar wa magaalo weyen kow dheh...ain't nobody up in your face like that. And many different people of different qabiils live there. Tan kale, why can't a female not take her kids to her city? Who says no?
lol calm down sis, when did i say a woman cant take her kids to her home town? of course she can, what i said there's preference and the wife may not want to live there, specially when she isnt married to the father of the kids, she would want to be closer to her family and relatives. this isnt about xamar you can say a reer xamar girl wouldnt want to live in hargeisa too.

inaaya, habar huruda lag'din wax uga fudud :lol: night.
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Re: Marrying from another qabiil.

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Vivacious wrote:
VeiledGarbasar wrote:Generally I draw the line at SOMALI - irrespective of region. If I like him and I want him and then I'm down for it.
Vivacious wrote:Let's just say that it was qadr that I married from my sub sub sub clan :lol:
Ohhh. So your hubby is abgaal?
Haa abaay. Afartoo laf kale aan sii wadaagnaa :lol:
We call that Xigto Miis in my neck of the woods :lol:
:up: Bless thy family Vivacious
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Re: Marrying from another qabiil.

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kulmiye21 wrote:
DucaaleBoqor wrote:Somaliland woman from my own Isaaq tribe or Warsengali...

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abgall warsengeli coz that looks like my sister
Abgaal?? Might aswell marry Oromo woman...No Abgaal woman for me..
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Re: Marrying from another qabiil.

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Vivacious wrote:
VeiledGarbasar wrote:Generally I draw the line at SOMALI - irrespective of region. If I like him and I want him and then I'm down for it.
Vivacious wrote:Let's just say that it was qadr that I married from my sub sub sub clan :lol:
Ohhh. So your hubby is abgaal?
Haa abaay. Afartoo laf kale aan sii wadaagnaa :lol:
Yaaa! Haasha! Abgaal agoonyar aa katahay right?

I'm gonna have to look for mid warsangal-abgaal?
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Re: Marrying from another qabiil.

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Vivacious wrote:
VeiledGarbasar wrote:Generally I draw the line at SOMALI - irrespective of region. If I like him and I want him and then I'm down for it.
Vivacious wrote:Let's just say that it was qadr that I married from my sub sub sub clan :lol:
Ohhh. So your hubby is abgaal?
Haa abaay. Afartoo laf kale aan sii wadaagnaa :lol:
That's incest. It's not healthy having kids with your relatives as backed by medicine and science.

We should ban cousin marriage and sub-clan marriages.

I support marriage outside my tribe to build a new bridge, increase my kids horizon and area of operations. Indeed social structure is like mobile coverage, the more area the better.

We should not mix politics and family.

There are more rewards than downs marrying outside beesha.
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Re: Marrying from another qabiil.

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CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC wrote:
VeiledGarbasar wrote:Generally I draw the line at SOMALI - irrespective of region. If I like him and I want him and then I'm down for it.
Vivacious wrote:Let's just say that it was qadr that I married from my sub sub sub clan :lol:
Ohhh. So your hubby is abgaal?
CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC wrote:
isnt about saving the marriage sis, lets say, mid xamarawi ah ayaad guursatay hadii uu calafkiina kala dhamaado, isagu waxa uu raba in uu caruurta xamar gaysto adna hargeisa ayad rabtaa? ma ragta? xitaa hadii aydan kala tagin waxa laga yaaba inoo rabo inoo wadankii aad ku noqotaan dabcan xamar ayuu doorbidi doonaa adigu hargeisa, waa caqabadaha kuwaan ka hadlaayo.
Wallahi soomalida jahilnimada aa ku nacay...2016 and we can't bloody live amongst each other. Anywho, Xamar wa magaalo weyen kow dheh...ain't nobody up in your face like that. And many different people of different qabiils live there. Tan kale, why can't a female not take her kids to her city? Who says no?
lol calm down sis, when did i say a woman cant take her kids to her home town? of course she can, what i said there's preference and the wife may not want to live there, specially when she isnt married to the father of the kids, she would want to be closer to her family and relatives. this isnt about xamar you can say a reer xamar girl wouldnt want to live in hargeisa too.

Unless they agree to something else, she lives with her man? What's the problem, asaga dugaag ma dago meeshiisa mise dad. I see what you're are saying, but seriously where there is will there is a way. I have a family who moved north from South and vice versa that really shouldn't be a major issue. Anaka horteena aa waxaan la sameeyey.

Any who, if you find someone you really click with this shouldn't matter.
DucaaleBoqor wrote:
Abgaal?? Might aswell marry Oromo woman...No Abgaal woman for me..
Iska amuus.
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DucaaleBoqor wrote:Somaliland woman from my own Isaaq tribe or Warsengali...

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Too much photoshop

CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC wrote:
BV banu hashim :blessed: :stylin:
smh :down: :lol:


SahanGalbeed wrote:You known regurgitating the same bull shyt is actually what keeps people stupid.
Ka baxa doqonimada , sheeko nacsinimo haddi la dhigto , nacas bu dadku wada noqda. I am not addressing anyone in particular , "environment " ka iska bedela , wax isu biiriya oo wax kala waydaarsada .
After this many years how many topics are genuinely new? They're all the same stuff, stay young odeyga
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SahanGalbeed wrote:You known regurgitating the same bull shyt is actually what keeps people stupid.
Ka baxa doqonimada , sheeko nacsinimo haddi la dhigto , nacas bu dadku wada noqda. I am not addressing anyone in particular , "environment " ka iska bedela , wax isu biiriya oo wax kala waydaarsada .
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