And now my husband just mentioned he hasn't heard me talking to her for a few days and said that's "very odd"BVSNet wrote:Decide if she's like a sister and bear your cross as you would with anyone you've decide to take and keep in your life. We are all annoying to the people who love us the most because we're all assholes to them at least once in a while if not moreSusu000 wrote:she is a fantastic friend and have been there for me during my worst times and vice versa.. I just got specifically disappointed with this particular incident.BVSNet wrote:You need to decide how much trouble and effort she's worth.
The only problem is that every once in a while, she does mistakes and asks for forgiveness.
I've forgiven her many times, but I'm now starting to wonder, maybe she subconsciously things she can just spit out what she wants because she knows she'd be forgiven in the end anyway...
If that's a cross you would rather not bear (and I wouldn't for anyone who wasn't blood) then save your energy for the forever people in your life. Either way make a choice and stop beating yourself about it, there is no wrong answer
I really don't want him to know.
You really hit the nail on the head! Thank you Bv!
