Smacking children!!...Your views??

[MaliLady]

[quote="LaDy-Qac"]Growing up in a household where verbal and physical voilence rarely occured I decided to raise the issue of correcting a child' s bad behaviour by smacking them which in my eyes is plain wrong .

Smacking a kid I believe will only get rid off the tension and anger you as an adult hold in reaction to the particular behaviour that your kid has portrayed but it doesn' t help the child understand why you disapprove of it' s behaviour and it certainly won' t help him or her behave otherwise. The only thing smacking a child will do is install fear in them which is unecessary because at the end of the day your kid should not be scared of you should it? . Here in the west children are warned about voilence and physical abuse at home. They are advised to contact certain organisations for help. I have personally seen families who were torn apart because their children have reported them .

I say with talkingand punishments( ie: taking away any privileges) you can get a child to get rid off bad habits without slapping them around. it' s efficient definately on the long term. I have seen this work [/quote]

hit hit smack smack too show the life is not easy

[BLUE RUSH]

[quote="LaDy-Qac"]<=== I'm planning to be like Supernanny when I discipline my kids

quote]



Super nanny lool I love that woman.
I wish I was cool as a cucumber like that woman
I wonder how she does it

[michael_ital]

LOOOOOOOL @ "we"

Son, I ran with Jamaicans. wasn't no froot loops like those depicted aroun' me.

But what I DO find funny, is your intent to have me believe you ran with the Crips. So, from Watts, to being a PC Warrior ??

BTW, the pen is the pen.

[Mataan_Ciideed]

You two, cut it out!.

I know a ex dealer Somali dude who murdered several people, but he never talked about it. Actually he finds it uncomfortable to talk about his criminal past. That's how I know you two are fronting!.

Back to the topic

My father only beat me twice in my lifetime, but my mother used to beat me alot!. I had so many ass whoopings on hooyo's hands, that it was crazy!.

I think I'll beat the living daylights out of my sons, but I'll be very delicate with my daughters, heck, I'll even talk to them about boys, parties, etc. I want to establish trust with them, and I want to teach them to respect themselves out of respect for me, not out of fear!.

[michael_ital]

Zam, EXACTLY !!! But I never killed nobody. (cam close. but it aint the same thing) So it aint a prob for me to talk about it. In fact, i'm proud of the fact I was one of the few able to change.

[Mataan_Ciideed]

Mike

All my killer uncles and cousins never talk about it too. Actually, they might hit you with the nearest thing they could get their hands on, if you asked them about how many people they've killed!.

So tell us about your Pimp/Dealer days?. Any fun experiences?!.

[BLUE RUSH]

[quote="Mataan_Ciideed"]=My father only beat me twice in my lifetime, but my mother used to beat me alot!. I had so many ass whoopings on hooyo's hands, that it was crazy!.

I think I'll beat the living daylights out of my sons, but I'll be very delicate with my daughters, heck, I'll even talk to them about boys, parties, etc. I want to establish trust with them, and I want to teach them to respect themselves out of respect for me, not out of fear!.[/quote]

Wwwooow your like my granddad......or was was
.. or you will be…
be used to beat my uncles but never his daughters.
Its good to talk to your daughter about this like dat

[michael_ital]

Too many to mention!!!! It was GREAT, till crack came along. Turned everone into f'uckin zombies. That was the beginning of the end. Politicians, cops, everyone got pissed, and the clampdown began. As for pimpin, I never engaged in it, but there was a pimp club in Downtown T.O that I used to frequent as a shorty, and I learned a lot about it from them. That's also how I got wise to how a whore's mind works. See, in Canada, there's a misconception "our" Blacks are all West Indian. Uh uh. Nova Scotians are original, ( the Rock, of WWE fame, is Scotian)and have been here since slavery days. Now THEM Negroes have made pimping into an artform!!! All T.O pimps (REAL pimps, I mean. a la Iceberg Slim) are Scotians, and I learned LOTTSA shyte from them cats. My best friend was Scotian, and he's the one schooled me.

[BLUE RUSH]

Omg Michael you were such a bad boy

[ERITREAN_MOB_BOSS]

Mataan_Ciideed ---Go learn how to read, no one said a damn thing about what crimes they did....




Mickey--I swear to god, u make me laugh....again, I never said i was a crip--I said i was a drug dealer and did pimp women from 2001-2003....Ppl in gangs take orders, what the fock i look like taking orders? I was too cocky for that...plus many gang members have low self esteem....they need the "family" to do anything....i was a lone warrior...




I have gotten more bullets in me than u have kids...


I done sold crack whiter than your skin...


I seen three of my good friends get murdered


I've done things that are colder than ur canadian weather....I can sit here and talk about them, but I don't like talkin bout my past---I'll leave the stories for you to share and book writers write...

I'm not sayin u a sucka, but it is what it is....no way in hell can u walk down in my neighborhood at night.....I can be in the hardest part of canada (sorry for laughin but canada is "cute" ) and still own the biitch...don't mention jamaicans again, just come to New York City, these little ganja somkers run at the first sight of trouble, no wonder they're so good at track...


At the end of the day, you're canadian, and no way in hell can u compare that to an inner city as big as LA--


So continue to tell more stories to a sexual deprived brat named Blue Rush and fufill her sexually deprived fantasys...I'm still keeping my mouth shut and smiling...good day to u...hope the sun is shining up in North Pole aka Canada...say hello to Santa for me...

btw, ur street name was SHORTY? thats what we call girls in LA...


like i said, what u find hard in Canada, I find cute....

[Advocator]

I believe once your kid reaches one years old, you have the right to hit them in the throat or ribs.....


EMB...............your lucky you never came to my nieghborhood or else you will get murked along with your (E.A.P) if you know what that means.

http://gangsta411.com/Bloods.htm ..........thats where I lived back in the days...they never fucked wid somali people..cus they know about (HBG)