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[quote="kambuli"]Hannah,

Marriage is like some putting his hand in a dark hole, a snake can bite you and you can find a diamond...

It is true that girls mature earlier than men...But also it depends what you mean by older men.... I think up to six yrs is reasonable...

A man who has not been married before is always better than the man who was married... Because you never know what his ex taught him

Some people also believe a mature experienced( married before) is better than the Khabar Maafish one.....

But only Allaah knows which one will be better....

Also some people look old even though they are not old.... I would rather marry a 36 yrs old who looks very young, healthy and strong than a 25 yrs old who looks already old and kala daatay.....

But for me I will never marry a man who is younger than me even for 4 yrs.....[/quote]


Tolaay oo Tolaay

Does this mean I dont stand a chance with you, you should have told me in
PM

[quote="kambuli"]Hannah,

Marriage is like some putting his hand in a dark hole, a snake can bite you and you can find a diamond...

It is true that girls mature earlier than men...But also it depends what you mean by older men.... I think up to six yrs is reasonable...

A man who has not been married before is always better than the man who was married... Because you never know what his ex taught him

Some people also believe a mature experienced( married before) is better than the Khabar Maafish one.....

But only Allaah knows which one will be better....

Also some people look old even though they are not old.... I would rather marry a 36 yrs old who looks very young, healthy and strong than a 25 yrs old who looks already old and kala daatay.....

But for me I will never marry a man who is younger than me even for 4 yrs.....[/quote]


Tolaay oo Tolaay

Does this mean I dont stand a chance with you, you should have told me in
PM

Hi HannaH, how are you sis? nice PR for the older guys They couldn't have asked for a better opinion.


CAWAR doesn't have to worry anymore and me as well.

Wallahi Hanaah, you've been missed. What an explosive topic. I love ya for it!

Brother Lion

PLEEEEASE don't make the mistake of putting ME in that demo of men who "throw their back out" moving the couch. Usually I wouldn't discuss something so personal, but TRUSS, sxb. NOTHIN wrong with MY sex life. And i'm no couch potato.

[quote="LionHeart-112"]Sheesh. We get it, you need a man who's saved up some money. Women are all after one thing-Financial security. And Ms. HannaH is no different. She wants to sit on her ass and shop when she is bored. When did Somalinet become The Sally Jesse Raphael Show?

In about 10 years, i will not like what i'm about to say but older guys :

-are usually out of shape, though most girls these days want "buff" guy who attends the gym often

I STILL work out, and look FAB!!!


-they are old school. They have the mentality that the woman's place is in the kitchen. You will be changing diapers while he sips espresso at Starbucks or Towfiiq Halaal.

Not a CHANCE! But, she said SOMALI men, so it doesn't apply to me. But you threw my name in there, sooo...


-They will expiereince impotence (something every man experience at least once) much quicker. While you, the woman, are at your sexual peak, he will be tired of sex. Younger guys are still at their peak.

Not me, bro. And if family genes are any indication, it AINT about to happen anytime soon, Insha'Allah.


-When it comes to bed, younger men are likely to try new things, while oldies don't even believe in kissing or holding hands in public.

Again, not me. But I believe you MAY be referring to the farax's.


-They die waaaaaay before you. Even the young guys will die before you. Why go for an oldie who will die quarter of century before you do?

Again, if my family genetics are an indication, don't count on it.

-If your dream is to be a housewife with no sex life and failed marriage-go for the oldies i.e, Galol, Sir Luggoyo, Cawar and Michael-ital

I humbly request you remove my name from that list

-If you, on the other hand, want a explosive sex life, fun marriage, dining out, walks on the beach, chocolate and flowers as gifts and divorce with a pre-nup (incase you make more money than him), then go for the young guys..on this site, i'm the only young guy. The rest are immature or still ma baaluqin.

Then she should marry me, minus the pre nup, cuz I wouldn't be givin up Hannah anytime soon.

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sounding deserate are we?

If by that you mean me, then no. I just enjoy setting young bucks straight on the fact that all people over 30 aren't dinosaurs.

[quote="*HannaH*"]Recently, I've noticed a trend. Two of my friends have gotten married this past year, they're both around my age, one is 23 and the other 26. Another one is getting married soon.

All of their husbands are atleast 6 yrs + older. Come to think of it, this is not a new thing, most Somali women go for older men. You'd think it'd be different since we're in the diaspora, but nowadays it's even more prominent.

Not only can't I say that I blame them but, I agree and would/will do the same, Inshallah.
Why, because a majority of younger guys are airheads. I think guys need a full range of experience to fully appreciate you as a woman. Then, and only then would they know how to treat you.

To be honest, it's not so much about the treatment as it is about their mental being and stage of their life. Because, most Somali guys are good to their lady friends. Altho it's said that women mature alot faster then men it's still interesting.

In gengeral, I've found that younger men calaacal too much. Oh but I want to go out with my friends, Oh how come we cant do something, Oh you forgot to call me. Chisas.


Anyway, my point is...when it comes to Somali men, what they say about wine is true...the older the better. Ofcourse not freakishly old.


Just food for thought.[/quote]

I PERFER OLDER WOMEN~ LIKE IN THEIR 40'S MAYBE 50'S
I AM ONLY 21 YEARS OLD

LH,




When will you and Basra reach 25? It seems that you can only count to 24.

Hannah,

Oo maxaad mar hore iigu sheegi weyday inaad odayada dig-garaysid? Tola'ay bartaa waxbaa igu seegay. Somali baa horay hadal u dhamaysay oo waxay tidhi "Naag nin dhali kara ayaa dhaqi kara" you just proved that wisdom is not wasted, but I wonder why did it took you this long to come out of the closet and admit you have the hots for me?



Come to papa babes

Luggoyyo, I guess maad arkin meesha ku qoray, not ridiculously old... Come to pappa kulaha, kaalay ileen waa run wixii aan maqley....inaad London ka qaraabatid ayaa la ii sheegay ayamahan waxay babes?......Waw, odayga dhainchar! Ha laga beydho dhe....he's out and on the prawl.....


Anigu, I found me my oday......In other words Im off the shelf...
Lakiin adiga iyo Kambuli tension-ka idin dhex yaala xagaasaan kala socda...


Labadiinuba ruwayada iga daayo, hee dhe send me an invitation uun pls.


Gama, Lol anytime old timer!



Mike, it's okay the youngsters just dont get it, and think marriage is all about sex, and dining out...and blah blah......and thanks for the wlc back, my cadan nigga!

If u are into Old Guys, boy do I have a doozy of an old man for u looooool

An 88-year-old Indian farmer, who has never heard of viagra, became the father of a baby boy and has sex daily and wants more kids, The Times of India reported on Tuesday.

"I don't want to live to 100 but, as long as I live, I should be able to enjoy sex," Virmaram Jat, who lives in a village in the Barmer district in the western desert sate of Rajasthan, was quoted in the newspaper as saying.

The prosperous farmer, with a flowing white beard and a weather-beaten face, says he takes long walks everyday and has been drinking fresh camel milk since childhood.

The paper reported his latest wife -- his third -- is 45 years younger than him and delivered male twins last month, but only one boy survived.

But Jat celebrated the birth of the surviving son with a feast for villagers and said he will try for more children.

The octogenarian, who is a vegetarian and has never smoked cigarettes or drunk alcohol, is ready to share his knowledge with others.

"I do it daily and the best time for intercourse is between 2:00 a.m. and 4:00 a.m.," Jat, whose first wife, 85, still lives with him and his new wife, told the newspaper.

Lol@"doozy".....I didn't know Somalidu used that word. Anywho, the old indian khasiis doesn't shock me, after all they are inventors of the Kama Sutra.........

Arab and Indian men, make me sick.

[quote="*HannaH*"]

Mike, it's okay the youngsters just dont get it, and think marriage is all about sex, and dining out...and blah blah......and thanks for the wlc back, my cadan nigga!

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Alas, they never will. And it was my pleasure, my boqorad.

I would marry a man older than me but by only 4 years tops.
I would never marry a man younger than me, even if he was younger than me by a day.

Hannah,

Intaad iska dayso kiis iska waalka, iisoo dir invitation-ks..... I promise inaan imaaddo meesha aad garanayso..... By the way PM kaygii waxbaaba dhexda u fadhiya.... Oo la boodaya


88yrs old Alla muxuu shushubmay

Definately older men.....A perfect combination.