WORST DATING MISTAKES MEN MAKE

[COSTA]

[quote="gedo_gurl"]Did I say 'in order to date, you must do other xaram things like wear perfume in public' I did not...I dont know if you know what dating entails in basic principle. I am talking about 'courting' someone, nothing haram if you do it halal right? Did you know that in our diin couples look into each other's eyes before they get married? The Prophet s.a.w ADVICED us to.

"one more thing i doubt you parents knows about ur plans which means sneaking around"

What do you know about my plans? lol may Allah help you. Salaam.[/quote]


NAAYA IF YOU DONT HAVE MUXRAM BESIDE YOU
ITS FORBIDDEN TO MEET ANOTHER MAN
IF YOU ARE REAL MUSLIM

[HELWAA]

[quote="gedo_gurl"]Did I say 'in order to date, you must do other xaram things like wear perfume in public' I did not...I dont know if you know what dating entails in basic principle. I am talking about 'courting' someone, nothing haram if you do it halal right? Did you know that in our diin couples look into each other's eyes before they get married? The Prophet s.a.w ADVICED us to.

"one more thing i doubt you parents knows about ur plans which means sneaking around"

What do you know about my plans? lol may Allah help you. Salaam.[/quote]


gedo

i was not accusing you that you are doing anything xaraam....sory sis if you thougt so, i was just making a point.Mony pple do what i described and think it's ok as long the purpose is marrige.


I agree with you and i know what you mean by courting as long it's in xalaal way.The prophet (csw) said that for the pple who is gonna get married not dating.JUST to see and get know eachother with mohram

Anyway allah knows best and if i said anything wrong may allah show me the right path....aamin.


good night sis and sory

[+chilli]

[quote="HELWAA"]DATING IS XARAM [/quote]

Oi yara don't lie sweetie, you said it wasn't before,

[quote="HELWAA"][quote="zulaika"]ba'aa, eeyaa helwaa dee maxaa ku helay. u fell for net character, miskiin. ain't no fun in that..go do a real one out there. [/quote]


lool zulaika........it's less FITNAH if you date online [/quote]

Or do you like contradicting yourself..:p

Western perspective of 'dating' can be said to be haram, however there is a process where 2 ppl have to get to know each other, 2yrs max in Islam...

Costa: i understand at your staring below the eyes problem, if a girl is showing or made it very clear that she has chest area to be noticed, then by all means look, otherwise she would be offended,
-- decent girls know how to draw the attention away from their chest.

[gedo_gurl]

Helwa sis, no hard feelings, we are saying the same thing, but misunderstood one another

Costa....

Chili, salaam sis

[HELWAA]

[quote="+chilli"][quote="HELWAA"]DATING IS XARAM [/quote]

Oi yara don't lie sweetie, you said it wasn't before,

[quote="HELWAA"][quote="zulaika"]ba'aa, eeyaa helwaa dee maxaa ku helay. u fell for net character, miskiin. ain't no fun in that..go do a real one out there. [/quote]


lool zulaika........it's less FITNAH if you date online [/quote]

Or do you like contradicting yourself..:p

Western perspective of 'dating' can be said to be haram, however there is a process where 2 ppl have to get to know each other, 2yrs max in Islam...

Costa: i understand at your staring below the eyes problem, if a girl is showing or made it very clear that she has chest area to be noticed, then by all means look, otherwise she would be offended,
-- decent girls know how to draw the attention away from their chest.[/quote]




nayaa..BASBAASO MAXAA IKA DABO DHIGAY


THE TOPIC IS ABOUT MEETING PPLE FACE TO FACE.OK

ONLINE DATING IT'S LESS FITNAH AND YOU DONT HAVE TO SEE THE PERSON. ...MARKA SHAQO YEELO

[COSTA]

[quote="+chilli"][quote="HELWAA"]DATING IS XARAM [/quote]

Oi yara don't lie sweetie, you said it wasn't before,

[quote="HELWAA"][quote="zulaika"]ba'aa, eeyaa helwaa dee maxaa ku helay. u fell for net character, miskiin. ain't no fun in that..go do a real one out there. [/quote]


lool zulaika........it's less FITNAH if you date online [/quote]

Or do you like contradicting yourself..:p

Western perspective of 'dating' can be said to be haram, however there is a process where 2 ppl have to get to know each other, 2yrs max in Islam...

Costa: i understand at your staring below the eyes problem, if a girl is showing or made it very clear that she has chest area to be noticed, then by all means look, otherwise she would be offended,
-- decent girls know how to draw the attention away from their chest.[/quote]


CHILLI SISTER DO YOU HAVE SMALL BREASTS

ONLY WOMEN WITH FLAT CHESTS TALK LIKE THAT

[kambuli]

You guys should ask the chicks/women what disgusts them about men...

....here is the list:

Diin la'aan waa inkaar....

1. Do not ever, brag about your salary... Do not tell me your salary...
2. Don't act that you are above every one.
3. No shiir... There is no excuse for shiir... UF..
4. Keep your hands to yourself...
5. Do not assume every girl is lose.....
6. Do not act as if you are westernized..
7. Do not act that you forgot the Somali language...
8. If you are not nice to your parents..do not come near me...
9. Have respect for other people..
10. I do not care what tribe you are, do not hate people because of their tribe... If you are a hater...hit the road.
11. Do not be Gaajo...ay diif ka muuqato.. I can't stand ragga diiftu ka muuqato...
12. No qaad...
13..Khamirina warkiisa daa...
14. If there is something I hate about some men..It is kuwa lacagta jecel ee caabuda....Meel daran ayey dadka ka riddaa lacag jacaylku..
15. Shaqayo and be a man... Not wax daran oo caajis ah...

[COSTA]

KAMBULI YOR LIST IS TOO LONG

BUT I LIKE NUMBER 3


NAAYA RAGA SOMALIYEED MABA SHIIRAAN

JAREER BAA SHIRTA HANA CAAYIN

..

[The-Screw]

the list isn't too long, it's actually too short, and i can't find anything that applies to me, so um...

[HELWAA]

3. No shiir... There is no excuse for shiir... UF..


loooooooooooool

[+chilli]

Lool @ Halw, don’t call me naaya!
You have paranoia problem macaanto, Goorman ku dhaabgaal?
Anyhow ma’ bad, bite of baac there init?
Ps-- its more Islamically inadvisable to ‘date’ online dear, just little advice

Gedo, w’saalamah babes, how’s cold and miserable London?


Costa Lol, keep your mind away from my chest dear...

[kambuli]

Costa,

Shiir has nothing to do with Jareer... It is personal hygiene walaal..

Screw,

Speaking of the short list I would like to add one that I remembered when I saw your nick.

16. He should not talk to other chicks...Who wants nin naagtu arkaba raba inuu ka taago...

[The-Screw]

lol

well that one doesn't apply to me either.

i'm just a good guy.

[kambuli]

Screw,

Ilaahay aya ku yaqaan...For sure you are not one of those vulgar guys in this forum...I hope I am not mistaken for thinking you were one time talking about two girls...something like that??? I do not know where I get the Idea that you are a womanizer I tried to pull out from your posts but that is too much trouble...

[The-Screw]

no, i'm not.


i've always been a one woman man.

if that makes any sense.