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[quote]but I just wasn’t ready to take care of a Family……[/quote]

Not only will you be taking care of the one you are about to start but the girls entire family back home. I don't think anybody is ever ready for that shit..........that is why girls living abroad are the best way to go.

If you say no to you folks and they bring the inkar mise duca thing up, u guyz think that inkar in'eikuqawani? I dont think so but correct me if am wrong.

[quote="MJ-Pride"]I am mystfied as to Why anybody would marry someone that they didn;t even see? this is Prime example why Somalis have the highest divorce rate in the world[/quote]

Salam alaikum, where did you get this facts from? , it's so difficult to believe, arranged marrigae is not a part of our cultures and traditions..somali badan koda arranged aroos iskuma gursadan

[quote="Ina Baxar"]Why , ma waxbaa soo kordhay? Are you parents not ready yet to reveal the identity of this new guy they've been telling you about?
Do you want me to become your knight in dhoodhoob tuute Helwaa and save you from this ordeal?[/quote]

Horta why every topic i post pple assume is about me...cajiib.




I was just curious about why parents get worried when the girl get over 20 and they start pushing her to get married....I have mony cousins that got marrried with guys their parents chosed to them and they are very happy mashallah

[quote="COSTA"]Hayaay tii caawa ma nin ba la siiyey oo ay diidey

walle caawa gurigooda buuq wa ka jiraa

aabo duco qaado iyo aabo duco ma rabo [/quote]



din lila ximaar det här handlar inte om mig

Arranged marriage? Yes please, i'll take two of those. I'd like fries with that too.

Arranged marriage? Yes please, i'll take two of those. I'd like fries with that too.

[quote="HELWAA"][quote="COSTA"]Hayaay tii caawa ma nin ba la siiyey oo ay diidey

walle caawa gurigooda buuq wa ka jiraa

aabo duco qaado iyo aabo duco ma rabo [/quote]



din lila ximaar det här handlar inte om mig [/quote]


din lilla tjocka det visste jag inte om

men vem vet kanske du sökte hjälp ifrån oss hej lyssna alltid på

dina föräldrer vem vet han kan bli skit snygg som jag

don't knock arranged marriages.....a lot of times they work b/c young guys/girls think of lust but a lot of times parents know what's more important after years of experience.

you don't have to agree, just consider it and think with your (right) head of the possibilities.

[quote="COSTA"][quote="HELWAA"][quote="COSTA"]Hayaay tii caawa ma nin ba la siiyey oo ay diidey

walle caawa gurigooda buuq wa ka jiraa

aabo duco qaado iyo aabo duco ma rabo [/quote]



din lila ximaar det här handlar inte om mig [/quote]


din lilla tjocka det visste jag inte om

men vem vet kanske du sökte hjälp ifrån oss hej lyssna alltid på

dina föräldrer vem vet han kan bli skit snygg som jag [/quote]




looooooooooooooooooool jag visste inte att du var full bara ugly pple skriter om hur snygga de är

[quote="Gedo_Boy"]It depends.......if they suggest and you're compatible then no problem.....

you don't HAVE to just b/c they say so........but don't automatically assume that you will not be attracted to him/her [/quote]

i agree wiv u.
its not good to diss arrange marriages even if u dnt agree wiv it cuz at da end of the it is permisable according to our deen.