Child Molestation - Why is this considered social taboo?

[S_lander-boy]

Basra I would not wish that on any kid childeren are innocent souls.

[Basra-]

Asli@loooooooooooooooooooooool



Ceeb! Ceeb! Asli walaal habaarka dhaf!


Anyway --Asli --lets talk serious hadaaba. As a psychologist i want you to help me understand WHY and HOW u found the molestation-- "pleasurable & 'Peaceful"??? LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOl That is the comment of the year walaale! Next to 'Muna's comment of 2000 where she wrote-- she loved taking pictures of dead friends. She claims she loved the peace in their faces. Taloow r u Munna? Is that WHY u became lesbian? U were molested? loooool

[Gacalisa]

I agree, runti child molestation is a huge taboo in the Somali community. Why? I dont think anyone can really say. Seriously I can say I met at six girls who have been molested somehow, at and home (by a a relative) and even at Dugsi. if you take your child to Dugsi, and then she suddenly says I dont want to go anymore and see can't tell you the details you better know she's being molested.

[AsliUK]

Heidi, I told my older sister on my 19th birthday, while we were living in UK, all this happen to me though in Somalia. He was my older cousin at the time in his 20's, he know lives in Dubai, married with kids. I don't talk to him but he sure keeps in touch with my family.

[Basra-]

Haye Hayee Hayee..I think Asli has began a fashion trend! Heidi, Gacalisa are all claiming to be molested indirectly now! uufff akhaas! loooool

[Basra-]

Asli


Do u fantasize about him? Just curious. lol

[Heidi_]

[quote="Basra-"]Asli@loooooooooooooooooooooool



Ceeb! Ceeb! Asli walaal habaarka dhaf!


Anyway --Asli --lets talk serious hadaaba. As a psychologist i want you to help me understand WHY and HOW u found the molestation-- "pleasurable & 'Peaceful"??? LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOl That is the comment of the year walaale! Next to 'Muna's comment of 2000 where she wrote-- she loved taking pictures of dead friends. She claims she loved the peace in their faces. Taloow r u Munna? Is that WHY u became lesbian? U were molested? loooool[/quote]

Basra, if you were truly a Psychologist ( or even took a single course in Psychology), you would understand why she made that statement. Some rape victims find the act pleasurable..Does that mean they enjoyed being raped?!? No, it just means they're human and their bodies responded like it's supposed to. Stimulation is pleasurable..Why is that so hard for you to understand?

[Heidi_]

[quote="AsliUK"]Heidi, I told my older sister on my 19th birthday, while we were living in UK, all this happen to me though in Somalia. He was my older cousin at the time in his 20's, he know lives in Dubai, married with kids. I don't talk to him but he sure keeps in touch with my family.[/quote]

Thanks for answering my questions. That's really sad. He now has kids of his own. Oh god.

[Basra-]

Heidi

I get your point.I know as a molestation victim, the feeling of pleasure is common--that is why in my initial post i said-- i understand.That is not in dispute here. And you are right, its human nature to respond to stimulation--especially one who is never exposed to such stimulation. That is why in the above post before u asked me this question- i asked asli if she is still attracted to the molester. But i was more curious-of the 'peaceful' part. That is a breakthrough complexity that i want to know more about. looool


PS: Of course i am mocking asli-- if i wanted to be a typical psychologist i would quote just what u said above, but hey i want to be different! looool

[Heidi_]

Maybe it was peaceful because he wasn't rough with her. Or maybe because she was a little child and had no idea what was happening to her.

Basra, I find it fascinating that you can find humor in the most odd places. I said before that you were a psycho/really disturbed, but now I'm starting to believe it.

[AsliUK]

Basra, runtii I think something is seriously wrong with you! How can you say
"lets talk serious hadaaba" and you continue to say "As a psychologist..." and afkaaga waxa ka soo baxayaa waa iska ciyaal ciyaal talk. A cuudu bilaahi, can you not be serious for once? And please don't refer yourself "As a psychologist" waligaa ma noqoneysid psychologist, you are not even capable to get your BA.
Anyway, all I gotta say is keep up the nonsense, you know there's nothing worse than aggressive stupidity.

[Basra-]

I am more fascinated by your naivete! loool U should know all psychologists are sick, disturbed psychoes! Helooooo--- duh? looooool



Heidi what is genuinely fascinating is your poignant, insightful questions. You are either asli herself or a victim of sexual molestation. I feel sad yet amused by all this ! loooooooooooool

[Heidi_]

So the thought of me getting molested makes you giggle in glee?! Wow, you really are disturbed. Thankfully, I was never violated and I pray that my children don't go through that either. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. But your laughter is very telling. Maybe this issue holds some deep significance to you and laughing is your way of trying to lighten up the mood?!

[AsliUK]

Heidi, let her LOL... her brain is just too puny!

[Basra-]

Asli loooooooooool

Abaay i am sorry, i am not being childish. I am just reacting, humorously at your disgust. U claim u were molested yet paint the experience-- like u had an orgasmic fest under a tuscan moon! I mean- what gives nayaa! I know-- i know- u r a victim of molestation- hence by default forever screwed up and messed up. But that does not excuse u today-- as a free adult woman to come to a forum and type these gibberish! What do u expect us to say??Do u want an Oprah moment? We cry and begin to look the camera/tv and curse the molester?? Why r u bringing this up now? I think this is whole entire post was a sick-- lover letter to your molester-- and that above all i think pisses me off! Its an outrage! Uffff looooool



Heidi

Maybe you r right. Maybe i am reacting adversely, because i cannot face my own molestation. Yes i remember distinctively the goat that molested me. I enjoyed of course-- it was peaceful and a bit pleasurable-- but i was traumatized nevertheless. Can we discuss??? looooooooooooool