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Re: Somali Educated Women having trouble finding a match
Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 7:09 pm
by FAH1223
High Maintenance? I don't get it.
Re: Somali Educated Women having trouble finding a match
Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 7:15 pm
by smooth
You should have advised the girl to go interracial and say it with conviction. I despise the likes of you that rationalize and even worse in your case sympathize with them. Its the likes of you that put these women on such a high pedestal in the first place, if you treat them like human-beings maybe they'll start to act like one.
Re: Somali Educated Women having trouble finding a match
Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 7:59 pm
by CUSHITE KINGDOM
its only the states, canada, europe where you will find more bum than
an educated brother. in the land down under you will alot of brother
are educated.
Re: Somali Educated Women having trouble finding a match
Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 12:13 am
by Wadaniyad_mami
Re: Somali Educated Women having trouble finding a match
Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 1:02 am
by Lexmark
smooth wrote:You should have advised the girl to go interracial and say it with conviction. I despise the likes of you that rationalize and even worse in your case sympathize with them. Its the likes of you that put these women on such a high pedestal in the first place, if you treat them like human-beings maybe they'll start to act like one.
Too true

Re: Somali Educated Women having trouble finding a match
Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 1:29 am
by King-of-Awdal
Some of you people are just ignorant. I have observed the more a somali women is educated the more religious they are. Almost all somali girl who are university students are covered up and are modest. For me personally i wouldnt mind marrying someone who is smarter than iam or makes more money than iam. One must be content with their Imaan and i sure as hell am. Inshallah i will marry a Nuclear Physcist or something like that.

Re: Somali Educated Women having trouble finding a match
Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 1:30 am
by FAH1223
King-of-Awdal wrote:Some of you people are just ignorant. I have observed the more a somali women is educated the more religious they are. Almost all somali girl who are university students are covered up and are modest. For me personally i wouldnt mind marrying someone who is smarter than iam or makes more money than iam. One must be content with their Imaan and i sure as hell am. Inshallah i will marry a Nuclear Physcist or something like that.

You're right actually.
Re: Somali Educated Women having trouble finding a match
Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 2:10 am
by QansaGabeyle
Inshallah i will marry a Nuclear Physcist or something like that.
You should marry Mad Scientista.

Re: Somali Educated Women having trouble finding a match
Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 3:51 am
by WasteMan
less then 5% of somali women is really educated--so this shouldnt be a problem
Re: Somali Educated Women having trouble finding a match
Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 7:36 am
by Tuba
There are men who are intimidated by successful sisters as they are insecure about their position as "the man" being undermined & then there are those sisters who think they are superior due the success they've achieved through Allah (swt) & thus will not settle for less. Its a double-edged sword here unfortunately, may Allah take ignorance & arrogance out of our hearts.

Re: Somali Educated Women having trouble finding a match
Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 7:46 am
by Buhodle-Gurl
My marriage has been set already
. I know am gettin' married before I get to finish school. So, Lucky u. I don't have to worry about u bein' intimidated by my Edu.
Re: Somali Educated Women having trouble finding a match
Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 7:48 am
by Xamud.
WasteMan wrote:less then 5% of somali women is really educated--so this shouldnt be a problem
Thats not true? the majority of Somalis in University/college/higher Education, are infact females

well done girls. Only a uneducated,dumb farax would feel intimidated.
Re: Somali Educated Women having trouble finding a match
Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 7:54 am
by surrender
hello Mzbeautifull.
whats with the
? lol
Re: Somali Educated Women having trouble finding a match
Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 7:56 am
by surrender
Tuba wrote:There are men who are intimidated by successful sisters as they are insecure about their position as "the man" being undermined & then there are those sisters who think they are superior due the success they've achieved through Allah (swt) & thus will not settle for less. Its a double-edged sword here unfortunately,
may Allah take ignorance & arrogance out of our hearts. 
aamiin tuba. 
Re: Somali Educated Women having trouble finding a match
Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 9:35 am
by Ladane21
Captain,
I have to say this is my only second posting as i am new to this site. I disagree with your analogy 100%. I think the Somali man that you're reffering to are suffering some type inferiority complex and they need to see a Docs ASAP.....Do me a fovor and send that girl to me......I have MBA in Finance and make very good living. Would love to meet Somali sister that's Independent, Educated, and Open minded. I guess we don't have that many Sis in Cali...Any man with rational thinking would wanna to have the girl you mentioned unless she's pipolar or suffering some types of ADD.