Is Married Life Boring??

[Umm-salma]

walaaley some men in this world claim to have s.e.x 14 times a day, and i think i might be one of them and why cant i be happy with 2,3 wifes, i see myself traveling a lot and it would be convenient to have a lovely family by my side where ever i am

there are not enough men in this world to give each women one husband for herself, now somalia men:women ration is much more in favour of women due to the 20 years of civil war, the ethiopian vs somali war prior and the number of good men seem to be under low low....so if you smart you will pre-book for a wife number two before is too late

lol..... what a excuse to o have 2 wives, so ur saying that u care about those women who won't find a husband.

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

Munafaq, the topic was not even about tribe yet u had the nerve to guess her tribe( ) don't deny it ur tribelist to the fullest. U have some much time in ur fat hands to reply to every body post.Why are u questioning about my English? For ur FYI I am done with my English classes, I may not be geek like u but I know what I am writing and what I exactly mean.
Fat loser all u do is go on to the internet chat gribish, eat, and sleep yuck Now be a good old geek and look for ur first girlfriend on oline, old fat loser
Get out of this section foggot

[BaasAbuur]

engagement is only a means of the man letting the woman know he is interested in her, and wishes to marry her. They're not lawful to each other, because the engagement happens before the marriage contract takes place.

Wallahi I have never heard of such thing and now you got me curious. So if a couple are engaged, they are not allowed to be together unless they have a marriage contract? And what exactly is a marriage contract and how does it different from engagement? I have on more than once attended engagement(nikaax) ceremonies of family members and after that event was over, the man and the woman were husband and wife. I read the link but I did not get a clear answer from it.

[abdi342]

Munafaq, the topic was not even about tribe yet u had the nerve to guess her tribe( ) don't deny it ur tribelist to the fullest. U have some much time in ur fat hands to reply to every body post.Why are u questioning about my English? For ur FYI I am done with my English classes, I may not be geek like u but I know what I am writing and what I exactly mean.
Fat loser all u do is go on to the internet chat gribish, eat, and sleep yuck Now be a good old geek and look for ur first girlfriend on oline, old fat loser
Get out of this section foggot

Such a DIMWIT! kkk I bet you would not have been speaking to me like that if you were in Africa! It is to be blamed Europ which compared nomad to urbans. I can easily distinguish from your ignorance how far you are in education. You came from BAADIYE took extensive English course and you are practising right here. Kkk Look back your writtings they are much oversimplified to be understandable. Iam not here to look for a somebody but to admonish girls like you who eagerly want to bed anybody with slight engagement. Kkk If suppose I was about to look for some one I would have encountered such nitwit person like you!!
Donot tell me Iam nice and married and blah blah!

Moreover I swear to Allah Iam married and have 4 kids Alhamdulilaah what shall I gain from you courting here nothing but idling! I need to teach you to behave because Reer Baadiye baad tahay who donot utilize internet for its goodness. Go and help mom in the KITCHEN.

I wish you good luck!

[snoop12]

lol..... what a excuse to o have 2 wives, so ur saying that u care about those women who won't find a husband.

im not saying im helping im just going with nature, a lion needs his pride

Islam allowed this and God knows best, just like God prohibited Alcohol which was later scientifically proved to not only put one under the influence but it also destroys the Kidney.
Pork and many other things are also now understood to be unhealthy for the human being


now it takes one to only look at Western countries, or unislamic countries to realise the population of prostitutes, and the most recent human trafficking taking place in large scale around Europe.

now have you heard about the story of the prophet who did things that seemed wrong but then proved to be a blessing?? one of these things were he slightly ruined the ships of poor citizens, later pirates came to the port and stole everything but those ships as they seemed unworthy and the poor citizens did not lose their ships and could easily repair them.

Dont question God, but remember this is optional and does come with high requirements for the man who want to peruse.

[Firefly]

engagement is only a means of the man letting the woman know he is interested in her, and wishes to marry her. They're not lawful to each other, because the engagement happens before the marriage contract takes place.

Wallahi I have never heard of such thing and now you got me curious. So if a couple are engaged, they are not allowed to be together unless they have a marriage contract? And what exactly is a marriage contract and how does it different from engagement? I have on more than once attended engagement(nikaax) ceremonies of family members and after that event was over, the man and the woman were husband and wife. I read the link but I did not get a clear answer from it.

Okay, I see where the misunderstanding is coming from now. I'll try to explain it again, so bear with me ..lol

Nikaah = Wedding - it's the actual wedding ceremony in Islam.

Aqd = Marriage contract - which takes place at the Nikaah.

Engagement = Promise of marriage.

Now, the engagement takes place before both of these (Nikaah & Aqd). So the engagement is just a promise of marriage. Neither is entitled to any rights, as they would have been if they were husband and wife. During the engagement they should act as they would with any Non-Mahram, so they shouldn't be alone together etc...

I think you've attended a Nikaah (the actual wedding ceremony) you didn't attend an engagement, because if it was an engagement they wouldn't be husband and wife at the end of the event. So at the Nikaah the marriage contract must have been drawn & the bride was given her Mahr because there's no other way they can be declared husband and wife at the end of it.

So if there's no marriage contract, then, according to Shariah, that marriage has not been fulfilled.

Do you understand now?

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

I am far from ignorance. Nomad?..Is'nt that what ur f-king goat herder yuck! I married with 4 kids kulaah I knew u were f-king old bastard. U supposed to be a hands on dad, take care of ur kids instead of writing of blas blas on somnet and arguing with girls that are older enough to be ur daughters yuck( )
Ur still taunting me cause of my opinion, well u aint gonna change my mind with ur fake wadanmo. If ur serious take religious preaching to somewere where its useful, like at the Mosque or teach kids koran. I am sure u will get more ajar and appreciation for it. Ur wife must be so submissive for putting up with ur arguments and ur useless ignorant ass. If I was her would've divorce ur ass. What a f-king a tool U should be worrying about ur own daughters, stop criticizing other girls , u don't know what ur daughters will bring u tommorrow. Don't invest too much time on writing blah blah, ur wife needs ur f-king attantion sucker: go screw her and help her with cooking. Wallah I am dispointed in these married men with kids that chat blah blah on somnet
I feel sorry for ur daughters u will give their hands to old ignorant men and they will be miserable for the rest of their lives. Thank God I have a liberal dad
Be a f-king man and stop arguing with girls back and forth Jees

[abdi342]

I am far from ignorance. Nomad?..Is'nt that what ur f-king goat herder yuck! I married with 4 kids kulaah I knew u were f-king old bastard. U supposed to be a hands on dad, take care of ur kids instead of writing of blas blas on somnet and arguing with girls that are older enough to be ur daughters yuck( )
Ur still taunting me cause of my opinion, well u aint gonna change my mind with ur fake wadanmo. If ur serious take religious preaching to somewere where its useful, like at the Mosque or teach kids koran. I am sure u will get more ajar and appreciation for it. Ur wife must be so submissive for putting up with ur arguments and ur useless ignorant ass. If I was her would've divorce ur ass. What a f-king a tool U should be worrying about ur own daughters, stop criticizing other girls , u don't know what ur daughters will bring u tommorrow. Don't invest too much time on writing blah blah, ur wife needs ur f-king attantion sucker: go screw her and help her with cooking. Wallah I am dispointed in these married men with kids that chat blah blah on somnet
I feel sorry for ur daughters u will give their hands to old ignorant men and they will be miserable for the rest of their lives. Thank God I have a liberal dad
Be a f-king man and stop arguing with girls back and forth Jees

What is this all about! Go to hell with your abusive words. Is this a girl shit what a misfortune to see you around here. Nice dad you have!

You must be dying for sex or let me say you are sexaul farustrated!

Learn how to write English I counted 7 mistakes in your writtings.

I will give you full answer Iam working!

[abdi342]

To: Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE

Kkkk Again your abysmal brain teaches you to insult a man who could be like your uncle. It is great misfortune to see such girl like you talking about ASS and f-king in public. You are imitating like Westerns I know. Count your mistakes. 1- you encourage others that it is normal to bed your friend before marriage. (that is what white people do and you seem to be proudful to adopt) 2- You use abusive words (you are trying to show off that you can defend yourself by offending others with sarcasm while you are forgetting the respect). 3- You disclose yourself how bad you are in Islam religion. ( go and learn more about you Allah than keeping yourself bussy on internet)

Walaahi I counted more than 7 mistakes in your wrinttings. I am so disappointed in you how you write English. I swear I am perplexed why you donot learn how to write English in gods name! Shame on you! SHAME ON YOU!

You are dying for sex! or let me say you have sexual frustration Look how badly you overused sex words. You are absent-minded! Moan on the pillows it is very hard to get a boy I know!! Kkkk Hearing this will shudder you and remind you the truthfulness.


I all wanted nothing from you but to SHINE on all aspects of your behaviour not to be EMULATED. NO WONDER YOU HAVE A LIBERAL DAD BECAUSE WE SAW YOU!

I wish you good luck!

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

Oh poor old man, u learned English recently Dude, just because ur ESL teacher told u to watch ur writtings it don't mean u have to pass on to me This is somalinet no need to focus on how people write nigga. It aint like we getting grade for it u dig, U act like u've masterd the English language and u can't even spell the word "busy" Lonely and sexual frustrated? how ironey Ur the one who is old, lonely, and sexually frustrated yuck I am married kumalahow, married men don't come to the women section ( ) U never got holla got from a woman led alone touch yuck. U prolly married to ur right hand loner Stop quoting me u stupid pervert

[abdi342]

Kkk, you just woke up from the chair. Where have you been roaming around? Kkkk You make me laugh each time I encounter your tinny comments.

1- It is not necessary to control your English but I dislike to view your grammatical errors (spelling error is not so essential)
2- I told you if you are the last woman remained on earth I will not touch you. I donot talk to shameless missy. You are mistaking in me.
3- I didnot learn English in UK but I learned in Somalia I was studying at Sidam.
4- You exactly know who is frustrated. Talking ASS and f-king is not my habits and not suitable to my age. Wixi uudhka ku jiraa baa afka soo xadaa.
you are ignorant and ugly person that is why you are hidding behind Somalinet. None has intrest in you unlees unlawful sex so good luck untill you get old
Ayeyo.

Naagaha adigoo kale ah goor hore bey guudhsadeen waxa guudhka kuu diidey weeyaan sifaha aad ku guda jidho. Walaale barkimaha ku ooy arki meysid nin ku geeya Jumeykaan baa hoygaaga ah! Kkkk

I wish you good luck!

[A-rap money]

Man, there is a whole lot of hostility and aggression out here, lets try to tune it down a lil.

Let’s all hold hands and sing kumbaya my lord cumbaya lol

No need to catch feelings especially in front of computer screen…. let men act like men and women act like women

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

U learned English In Somalia, yuck no wonder why English is so big deal to u (refugee )..and no wonder why ur shoving marriage in people's trout. U don't even know the words ur using, u picked them straight out of the dictionary, ugh.
What is ur obsesation with sex dude...u mentioned it in every single post, go get laid loser.
Ur ugly inside out, better yet a hypocrite.
"Talking ASS and f-king"..... are called cuss words bitch, u f-king nasty minded, flight
Bismilahiyoow, this oday is so sensitve!!

U stupid flight, Ur dimissed


Next.

[BaasAbuur]

So the engagement is just a promise of marriage. Neither is entitled to any rights, as they would have been if they were husband and wife. During the engagement they should act as they would with any Non-Mahram, so they shouldn't be alone together etc.

That is all I wanted to know. All this time, I thought you were talking about something else (like temporary shiica marriages) and not just a promise of marriage. What is the Somali name of this promise of marriage? Who do you make this promise of marriage to? The girl or her family and what are the events where this takes place called in Somali? What are the necessary steps to take to get out of a promise of marriage if you change your mind? In Somalia, gabadha iyagoon la guursan ayaa nimanka soo doono la siiyaa and the men get married to the girl when they are ready and are financially able to establish a family.

ps. Someone once told me, I doubt it is true, that you can demand to see the person you want to marry naked and it is allowed in Islam.

[surrender]

ps. Someone once told me, I doubt it is true, that you can demand to see the person you want to marry naked and it is allowed in Islam.

is not allowed!!