what's ur point of view?

[suga_n_spice]

ismahan, horta ilaahay baa bixiya nimanka fiican. ma aha wax anaka gacanteena ku jira. lakiin walaahay ninka naagtiisa ama isagaa nooleeya ama dila. nimanka sadax bee u kala baxaan.

1-midka reerkiisa kaa doorta
2-midka cidna dooran oo xaaskiisa dhaqa
3-mida xaaskiisa kaliya doorta

runti, ninka fiican uun baa intuu shaqada ka soo baxo kuu daryeela waana nimanka midka ugu fiican. ilaahay kaas oo kale ha na siiyo walle dhib wuu buuxaaye!

[AbdiWahab252]

Ismahan,

When i first laid eyes on her, I said this is the one I want to have my football team, Hobyo FC. She came from the gym after working out in her black sweat pants and sports bra, went upstairs showered, changed into a yellow diiraac, and brought me tea & xalwo while I conversated with her pops.

That was like 2 years ago.

[Warsan_Star_Muslimah]

Suga,

I don't know if it has. But I remember one of my brother trying to set up my older sister. But she refused, lol.

Well if they are introducing me to the person, they must be thinking he is good enough for my sister, non?

I don't what the big deal is.

Firefly, Goodness I love my brothers, they are ultra cool in that sense. One of them said to me don't bring a turkish home, I'm thinking WOW that leaves so many other options out there for me. But the other one ruined it for me, by saying what do you mean turkish? she must bring home a Somali from the same sub sub sub clan, he killed it for me. But they are a happy with a Somali.

Ismahan, I agree with that, but it is always safe to have your family around the corner, anything can happen.

[SummerRain]

Waxa walba wey ku ficaanyaheen in moderation. He does not have to choose between anyone here, prioritizing is key. in your list, the middle man is more appealing to me.


Amiin to your duco.

[Firefly]

SnS:- Yaa uu diiday inu xaskiisa daryeelo, ehelkiisane xooga saro? Why does it have to be either or? I think us women need to keep our families close, you never know what tomorrow has in store. Ninkaaga ku kalsoono lakiinse ehelkaagane ha hilmaamin hane ka fogaanin. I don't believe in this whole " us against the world" fairytale.

[suga_n_spice]

abdi was she reer xamar? and who serves xalwo N shaah together?

warsan, brother's are not what we think walle. ilaahay nagama qaado. walaalka fiican waa midka ka xanuunsada walaashiish iyo ninka ee shukansaneyso. xitaa haduusan diidin

i asked my bro if he knew this guy just out of curiosity, and he's like "maxaa ku baray"

ismahan, prioritizin itself is a gift. not many of them have it, but i agree the middle one is most appealin and that how they should all be. then again u have ur mama's boyz

ff, cidna abaa. lakiinse, waa wax jaa ninka ku qufilan. mid mid dhif ah baa xaqa ku dhaqma

[SummerRain]

@AW. Ina Qeyrdid maxaad ku dhacay?

Suga,

A man who knows how to treat his mom well, will only treat you well too abaayo.

[suga_n_spice]

laa ilaaha ilallaah. ismahan, that is the wrong mentality abaa. he will also choose his mama over u

[Firefly]

WSM:- lol@leaves so many other options. Too bad, your other brother narrowed it down. But Somali is best way to go, insha-Allah. If it was for my brothers I think I would die a spinster, but my parents will not have that.. Alhamdulillah..

SnS:- True sis, it's hard to change someone's mentality.. lol@mama'z boys.

[SummerRain]

Suga,

walidka xaaq bay nugu layaheen. I would hate to put my husband in such a situation where he feels like he needs to choose. I wouldn't want him not liking my mom or family around.

[suga_n_spice]

Ismahan, the man is not the problem. his mama is. they can pick on u for the slightest things, and when that happens who's gonna get the boot?!

ff, that's exactly how i feel

[Warsan_Star_Muslimah]

Suga,

Sheeko, af-carabi my brothers maa fiicaan miya? It is not their job to think that fa. I don't think my brothers will be bothered by me getting chat-up, I have to marry at some point. nooh

loool @ your brother. Nah, mine are safe. All hell comes loose when they see me doing something bad, but before that were cool.

SnS:- Yaa uu diiday inu xaskiisa daryeelo, ehelkiisane xooga saro? Why does it have to be either or? I think us women need to keep our families close, you never know what tomorrow has in store. Ninkaaga ku kalsoono lakiinse ehelkaagane ha hilmaamin hane ka fogaanin. I don't believe in this whole " us against the world" fairytale.

My Girl!

Alhamulilah to your parents.

[SummerRain]

Whose gonna get the boot?...Surely not his mom lakin a woman will know the right things to do not to get the boot.

[suga_n_spice]

warsan, a brotha is a brotha. so get ur own man yaree!!

good luck ismahan. cuz a mama's boy will alwayz be a mama's boy!!

[SummerRain]

Suga

Thanks Suga, I love my mom too.