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Shirib wrote:

Crazy Cat Lady wrote:What if you never want to have kids? I don't want to have my own kids, maybe adopt an Ethiopian kid when I'm like 40...

Really? Do u plan on getting married?

Yeah, I just don't like the idea of popping out one of my own, its just the case of finding a bloke who feels the same way

AbdiWahab252 wrote:Zulaika,

What was the purpose of getting married if not to have children ? I give the man the benefit of the doubt until he is unable to conceive with wife # 2

who said anything about excluding children from the equation? the timing is the point of discussion huuno...so let's not get it twisted.

marriage is not a single purpose institution to legally procreate as you're making it out to be.....to some its not ONLY about the children but the people who are responsible for bringing those children into the world. laying out a timetable to plan for children is not only essential, but a darn smart move on anyone's part.

zulaika wrote:

AbdiWahab252 wrote:Zulaika,

What was the purpose of getting married if not to have children ? I give the man the benefit of the doubt until he is unable to conceive with wife # 2

who said anything about excluding children from the equation? the timing is the point of discussion huuno...so let's not get it twisted.

marriage is not a single purpose institution to legally procreate as you're making it out to be.....to some its not ONLY about the children but the people who are responsible for bringing those children into the world. laying out a timetable to plan for children is not only essential, but a darn smart move on anyone's part.

Crazy Cat Lady wrote:

Shirib wrote:

Crazy Cat Lady wrote:What if you never want to have kids? I don't want to have my own kids, maybe adopt an Ethiopian kid when I'm like 40...

Really? Do u plan on getting married?

Yeah, I just don't like the idea of popping out one of my own, its just the case of finding a bloke who feels the same way

LOOOL, I was gonna say that next, how many guys do u know who don't want kids of their own?

Ka darag wrote:

Abdi_westldn wrote:I don't want any kids to much needless responsibility besides I don't think I ever want to get married.

looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool
kids are so cute

I'm sure they are but kids grow, anyway F' it ill marry a woman that can further my goals like a Really rich bosses daughter. lol

Abdi_westldn wrote:

Ka darag wrote:

Abdi_westldn wrote:I don't want any kids to much needless responsibility besides I don't think I ever want to get married.

looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool
kids are so cute

I'm sure they are but kids grow, anyway F' it ill marry a woman that can further my goals like a Really rich bosses daughter. lol

OH WELL

LOOOL, I was gonna say that next, how many guys do u know who don't want kids of their own?

Somali guys?, not much
I guess its a life of spinsterhood for me, at least my Ethiopian baby will keep me company...

Crazy Cat Lady wrote:

LOOOL, I was gonna say that next, how many guys do u know who don't want kids of their own?

Somali guys?, not much
I guess its a life of spinsterhood for me, at least my Ethiopian baby will keep me company...

why do u want an Ethiopian baby? Are u planning on marrying a Somali guy or ajnabi?

Shirib wrote:

Crazy Cat Lady wrote:

LOOOL, I was gonna say that next, how many guys do u know who don't want kids of their own?

Somali guys?, not much
I guess its a life of spinsterhood for me, at least my Ethiopian baby will keep me company...

why do u want an Ethiopian baby? Are u planning on marrying a Somali guy or ajnabi?

Somali guy I guess, but you cant plan this kind of thing. I love the idea of adopting an Ethiopian baby, they're really cute and it would make me sound all caring and stuff.

Ka darag wrote: OH WELL

I really wish Oprah had a daughter, curse her for being selfish I would've hollared..

CRAZY, CU AINT SERIOUS...ANIGA I WUDNT MIND FOSTERING

Crazy Cat Lady wrote:Somali guy I guess, but you cant plan this kind of thing. I love the idea of adopting an Ethiopian baby, they're really cute and it would make me sound all caring and stuff.

Good luck, but just wondering why not a Somali child?

Shirib wrote:

Crazy Cat Lady wrote:Somali guy I guess, but you cant plan this kind of thing. I love the idea of adopting an Ethiopian baby, they're really cute and it would make me sound all caring and stuff.

Good luck, but just wondering why not a Somali child?

According to my mother, Somali's would never put their kids up for adoption, it a big taboo. Thats not the case in Ethiopia and they make the process easier for foreigners

Crazy Cat Lady wrote:

Shirib wrote:

Crazy Cat Lady wrote:Somali guy I guess, but you cant plan this kind of thing. I love the idea of adopting an Ethiopian baby, they're really cute and it would make me sound all caring and stuff.

Good luck, but just wondering why not a Somali child?

According to my mother, Somali's would never put their kids up for adoption, it a big taboo. Thats not the case in Ethiopia and they make the process easier for foreigners

There are a lot of kids who are left orphans by the war, and addopting them would be very beneficial to them.

or they end up becoming Al Shabaab, and you've already established u hate those guys so...

I'm sure if u put ur heart into it, u could set something up in Somalia that would adress that

I should adopt both, a Somali and an Ethiopian, wouldn't that be cool?