What would you do ( guys Only thread)

[qoraxeey]

If my dad wanted to marry another woman, whether she is old or young, I don't have a problem as long as he can treat his wives equally according to islam. However I aint paying for sh1t seriously though I'm not marrying the girl so why should I pay. I remember when my uncle, dad's brother, from back home wanted to get married he asked my dad to pay for everything, and my dad's reply was: haye aan kaa wada bixiye, laakin waa in aan naagta kula qabo

lol qosol badanaa

[Hyperactive]

lolyour dad is mean.
hope his brother didnt cut him off after that.lol

[Cumar-Labasuul]

My dad said he doesn't mind helping him out but first my uncle should have at least some money to marry with otherwise he shouldn't marry.

[abdisamad3]

Dadkaa qaarkood have absolutely no respect for women, almost a hatred even, as though they were raised without mothers. Carabtaa is not a place to raise sons.

most of these niggas here were not raised in the arab countries

this is a somali mentality

Yeah, but some of the worst ones on this forum lived in Carabta for a while or still live there.

if she could noloshaba oma ogola odeyga

Does this mean 'if she says no I'll kill her'?

nayaa qashinleey orod raga meel ka fadhiiso..

[abdisamad3]

my dad had 2 wifes..may allah bless him..
anyway if my dad asked me to get him a wife I would help him with everything..

[sexy-kitten]

Hanadoow, women are too emotional and have no caqli, nimanka waa libaaxyo Wow. This question is based on logic, not sex dummy. Adeerow kaniinka bluuga ka yaree. They think the little blue pill is the hottest thing since sliced bread. War kani xaguu ku maqnaa markuu ilaahey caqliga kala qeybinaye?

What kinda question is that? A man can marry up to 4 wives in Islam, no? If the wife gives him consent that is! So he is basically committing a big sin by not informing his 1st wife of his thoughts. Since he has aabe rights to you, he wants you to help him out and do all his dirty work, right? The answer should be obvious. How is that difficult to understand?

[AbdiWahab252]

Hanadoow, women are too emotional and have no caqli, nimanka waa libaaxyo Wow. This question is based on logic, not sex dummy. Adeerow kaniinka bluuga ka yaree. They think the little blue pill is the hottest thing since sliced bread. War kani xaguu ku maqnaa markuu ilaahey caqliga kala qeybinaye?

What kinda question is that? A man can marry up to 4 wives in Islam, no? If the wife gives him consent that is! So he is basically committing a big sin by not informing his 1st wife of his thoughts. Since he has aabe rights to you, he wants you to help him out and do all his dirty work, right? The answer should be obvious. How is that difficult to understand?

Here here.

Men who hide their marriages from the starter wife are cowards.

[Ashwaaq90]

Subhanallah the men in here have issues walle, bunch of women haters.

[sexy-kitten]

Hanadoow, women are too emotional and have no caqli, nimanka waa libaaxyo Wow. This question is based on logic, not sex dummy. Adeerow kaniinka bluuga ka yaree. They think the little blue pill is the hottest thing since sliced bread. War kani xaguu ku maqnaa markuu ilaahey caqliga kala qeybinaye?

What kinda question is that? A man can marry up to 4 wives in Islam, no? If the wife gives him consent that is! So he is basically committing a big sin by not informing his 1st wife of his thoughts. Since he has aabe rights to you, he wants you to help him out and do all his dirty work, right? The answer should be obvious. How is that difficult to understand?

Here here.

Men who hide their marriages from the starter wife are cowards.

Exactly, my point. damn I'm guessing great minds think alike.

[AbdiWahab252]

SexyK,

I am very upfront about my intentions in any relationship. Why hide and complicate things ? My first wife will know that I may exercise my option to pick no. 2 later on. I of course will ensure they don't interact nor to pick a woman she is friends with.

[sexy-kitten]

SexyK,

I am very upfront about my intentions in any relationship. Why hide and complicate things ? My first wife will know that I may exercise my option to pick no. 2 later on. I of course will ensure they don't interact nor to pick a woman she is friends with.

You'd let them know from the beginning right? Abaayo naag kale ma kula guursan karaa hadaan rabo? If she says yes, she's a dime piece and wey samir badantahay cuz I know I wouldn't lol.

[AbdiWahab252]

Segsi,

Its only being fair and honest. I don't see myself as a 1 wife kind of fellow. In light with the demographic crisis in Somalia, where the number of men are dwindling, I am helping provide opportunities for marriage among females.

[*Nobleman*]

To be honest i wouldnt mind, but would have an issue paying for it. Do you know how much an aros and monthly remittance will set you back? Really unneccasary, if my mother was deceased (God forbid inshallah), then possibly.

[sexy-kitten]

Segsi,

Its only being fair and honest. I don't see myself as a 1 wife kind of fellow. In light with the demographic crisis in Somalia, where the number of men are dwindling, I am helping provide opportunities for marriage among females.

Nice way of looking at things. Marka, you're giving back to the female Somali community, rageedi!

Noble, so you'd hide the wedding from your mother?

[*Nobleman*]

No i wouldnt hide the wedding, i just wouldnt tell cause it will cause extra problems, she would probably find out sooner or later. Not sure exactley what i would do in that dilemma.