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Cool,

Average maxaad uga jeeddaa? 1-10 scale?

Jaamacad haka soo baxee, ma yahay nin xoogsada oo shaqaysta? Inleyn waxa makhaayadaha wada fadhiya ee qadadii laga cuni la'yahay waxay yidhaahdeen "Jaamici baan ahaye"

Murax wrote:Have Him email Her


Besides Her xishood, and not 24/7 being on the scene, every Guy knowing Her name is a good thing.

Murax,

Crap idea Firstly, she will wonder, where did he get my email ? Secondly, she assumes he is a stalker ? Thirdly, how would she know who he is ?

Another lame tactic, sending Diplomatic Shukaansi: Sending Envoys to butter her up and promote you.

AbdiWahab252 wrote:

Murax wrote:Have Him email Her


Besides Her xishood, and not 24/7 being on the scene, every Guy knowing Her name is a good thing.

Murax,

Crap idea Firstly, she will wonder, where did he get my email ? Secondly, she assumes he is a stalker ? Thirdly, how would she know who he is ?

Another lame tactic, sending Diplomatic Shukaansi: Sending Envoys to butter her up and promote you.

Well if the girl is the way Cool describes, doesn't come out of the house He will not see Her outside. One of the best ways to drop the ice is through cyber world. But ofcourse if He can see Her someplace like Her work/school etc. and He could go to work it would be better

Unless she is a loose girl, I doubt any girl would want her name just out there for dudes to know.

Murax,

She will come out, she ain't in Gitmo

I suggest he find out where she frequents and camp out there prepping to bust a move. I used to go to a Masjid back in the day which was way out of my way, just to chat up a certain Xalimo after Tarawiih Getting my diin & shukaansi in the same evening.

AbdiWahab252 wrote:Murax,

She will come out, she ain't in Gitmo

I suggest he find out where she frequents and camp out there prepping to bust a move. I used to go to a Masjid back in the day which was way out of my way, just to chat up a certain Xalimo after Tarawiih Getting my diin & shukaansi in the same evening.

Abdi you know if your intention was to shukansi that ibadah was nullified

kambuli wrote:
Inan baa reer hebel u joogta is not enough..She maybe from a wellknown family and QUMAYO at the same time..and visa versa...

looooooool

Kambuli . that is so true

Some of these kids from "wellknown families" . mise "children of wadaado" can be real freaks .. And sometimes are NOT AT ALL what U have expected when U get to know then in person

lomo joogsado he or she is from wellknown family .. wa inii qofka la barto . koow

Qorraxey,

I am not sure what Cool means by a well known family..But I have noticed that Somalis define well-known in different ways:

1. A War-lord who killed tons of people is called a Well-known in other words he is "Gacan-ku-Dhiigle"...

2. A Somali man who held high positions in a Somali government who then looted the wealth that is trusted to him and hear people saying "Waa ina hebel hebel, wasiirkii so and so" in other words waa "Hal tuug ah"

3. Some so called business man in Somalia who sold expired goods to the unsuspecting poor Somalis even Medicine, corrupted the system by bribing the tax people left and right.and we hear people call him "Waa nin maalqaben ah oo ganacasato ah oo aan dowlad shaqo ku lahayn" in other words he is " Khaa'in Alle ka furtey oo bilaa damiir ah".

You name it

But at the same time there were some respected families who were well known for their honesty and hard work...Very small group though

CoolPoisons wrote:
ninyaho taas waa dhaqanka qowmiyada kale. Somalida dont appreciate that and it looks weird

qoraxeey won't she call him a weirdo if he text msgs here without knowing her. Dee aniga yarka waan duuli kara to the family but if he makes a fool of himself i dont want them trace it back to me ma garatay

Paddington good advice laakin hal arin ninyaho. gabadhan la ma sheekasato ragga ka hor ayaan sheegey.

lool ... well that explains alot

your friend needs to at least say "Hi" , "Hey" or ka fiican "Asalamo Aleykum" to this girl when she is walking in campus or the streets of whatever place.

about this "she doesnt talk to ragga/ninmanka" ... Nobody can just ignore when somebody is saying Hi to you

If she gives him the cold shoulder .. markas he can bounce to the next girl

kambuli wrote:Qorraxey,

I am not sure what Cool means by a well known family..But I have noticed that Somalis define well-known in different ways:

1. A War-lord who killed tons of people is called a Well-known in other words he is "Gacan-ku-Dhiigle"...

2. A Somali man who held high positions in a Somali government who then looted the wealth that is trusted to him and hear people saying "Waa ina hebel hebel, wasiirkii so and so" in other words waa "Hal tuug ah"

3. Some so called business man in Somalia who sold expired goods to the unsuspecting poor Somalis even Medicine.and corrupted the system by paying the tax people left and right.and people call him "Waa nin maalqaben ah oo ganacasato ah oo aan dowlad shaqo ku lahayn" in other words he is " Khaain Alle ka furtey oo bilaa damiir ah".

You name it

But at the same same time there were some respected families who were well known for their honesty and hard work...Very small group though

yeah Abaayo .. I know .. somalis are very backward ...

Qof qolododa/reerkod ka dhashay . no matter how much of a Tuug/Dambilee he is , the are gonna respect him . only because of money reasons

kambuli wrote:Cool,

Average maxaad uga jeeddaa? 1-10 scale?

Jaamacad haka soo baxee, ma yahay nin xoogsada oo shaqaysta? Inleyn waxa makhaayadaha wada fadhiya ee qadadii laga cuni la'yahay waxay yidhaahdeen "Jaamici baan ahaye"

i say 5 out of 10 laakin kambuli hal wax, rag baan ahay so fadlan ha igu qasbin waxaan oo kale inaan sheego walaale.

yarka wuu shaqeeya jaamacadna wuu ka so baxay.

laakin xalayto ayuu ii so wacay. i told him, waxa sameeysa hooyada la hadal sidee gabadha iyo adiga isku xirto then gabadha si cad u sheeg inaad doonaysid isbarasho iyo mustaqbal dhis and see what she says.

do U think that was a good advice?

Cool,

I see ninkaasi ma qurxoona waa kow.

Haddii uusan ninku qurux badnayn, waa inuu muujiyaa his other qualities Aakhirtu ma hadli yaqaan?

I am just kidding...CALAF is the most important factor in here...But let us see what comes out of the situation...Nowdays it is not a good idea to involve the parents immediately before one talks to the girl...Let us pray for him that things go smoothly for both of them if that is the best for them At least he is a guy who wants XALAL..

kambuli wrote:Cool,

I see ninkaasi ma qurxoona waa kow.

Haddii uusan ninku qurux badnayn, waa inuu muujiyaa his other qualities Aakhirtu ma hadli yaqaan?

I am just kidding...CALAF is the most important factor in here...But let us see what comes out of the situation...Nowdays it is not a good idea to involve the parents immediately before one talks to the girl...Let us pray for him that things go smoothly for both of them if that is the best for them At least he is a guy who wants XALAL..

kambuli hal arin ayaa diidanahay. aniga i'm 100% sure he can get the girl madaame (1) u yahay jaamici (2) shaqo fiican haysto (3) hawlihisa diyaarsaday (house etc)

Cabirka ragganimada waa waxaas, ma aha quruxnimada. Quruxinamada waa waa lagu cabiro dumarka. Waliga ma maqashay ragga foolxumo ma leh doqonimo mooyan?

Sidaas daraadeed ninka ragga ah waxaa qurux ugu filan ragannimadiisa. So yarka can get the most beautiful girl laakin problemka haysta is not his confidence ama looks. its how to approach her ma garatay

Cool Cool

No one wants "hal dhafuuja ah"..

As I said before, I am kidding...But the reality is the bad look turns off people..Unless the person knows what is behind the not good looking features... I am telling you and it is my honest belief or my experience when someone is good you don't even see his/her features...I personally see the ugliness of the person that has a bad or evil personality...I don't care if you lool like Nebi Yuusuf..CSWS..If you are evil all I see is the satan himself in you..

But when I meet a decent person, Wallahay his/her shortcomings in the looks department is hidden from me, all I see is a decent human being and I love that..

kambuli, xaaladu weyba ka daran tahay.

ileen waxaan ogaaday in gabadha already was engaged 3 times laakin cancelled last minute. Waxana la yiri, hooyadeed ayaa ka dambeysey.

i think i should tell him to forget her and look for another.