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Newhargeisagirl wrote:Marriage is such an outdated institution in my view and I am telling you why . Women used to get married, because they couldn't support themselves financially. There were not many career opportunities for us and we had to settle down and breed babies. Now, we can become anything and everything we want to become. In some cases we have the opportunity to be much more successful than somali men . Now the tables are turning in a marriage. you guys are becoming househusbands while we are bringing home the hard cash. Soon, that number will grow and we will become the stronger, more successful, prominent and dominant gender. In return, we'll have the opportunity to be more selective and men will be the one begging us to marry them. I don't think women need to worry so much about getting married, rather than getting an education. It's important to live our lives, doing what we want, rather than staying home, popping out babies and depending on a man to take care of us financially. No man will love you as much as you can love yourself... The way to love yourself is to become the best you can career wise, education wise and financially. I love my freedom, my independence and my life in general. I don't see myself cooking, cleaning and babysitting a grown man with lugo yar yar iyo weji balaadhan oo weliba af xun oo nayaa dee cunto soo kari igu yidhaahda. A man's company is never and will never be a necessity for my happiness
Stop lying to yourself, you cannot live without a man
Newhargeisagirl wrote:Marriage is such an outdated institution in my view and I am telling you why . Women used to get married, because they couldn't support themselves financially. There were not many career opportunities for us and we had to settle down and breed babies. Now, we can become anything and everything we want to become. In some cases we have the opportunity to be much more successful than somali men . Now the tables are turning in a marriage. you guys are becoming househusbands while we are bringing home the hard cash. Soon, that number will grow and we will become the stronger, more successful, prominent and dominant gender. In return, we'll have the opportunity to be more selective and men will be the one begging us to marry them. I don't think women need to worry so much about getting married, rather than getting an education. It's important to live our lives, doing what we want, rather than staying home, popping out babies and depending on a man to take care of us financially. No man will love you as much as you can love yourself... The way to love yourself is to become the best you can career wise, education wise and financially. I love my freedom, my independence and my life in general. I don't see myself cooking, cleaning and babysitting a grown man with lugo yar yar iyo weji balaadhan oo weliba af xun oo nayaa dee cunto soo kari igu yidhaahda. A man's company is never and will never be a necessity for my happiness
Newhargeisagirl wrote:Marriage is such an outdated institution in my view and I am telling you why . Women used to get married, because they couldn't support themselves financially. There were not many career opportunities for us and we had to settle down and breed babies. Now, we can become anything and everything we want to become. In some cases we have the opportunity to be much more successful than somali men . Now the tables are turning in a marriage. you guys are becoming househusbands while we are bringing home the hard cash. Soon, that number will grow and we will become the stronger, more successful, prominent and dominant gender. In return, we'll have the opportunity to be more selective and men will be the one begging us to marry them. I don't think women need to worry so much about getting married, rather than getting an education. It's important to live our lives, doing what we want, rather than staying home, popping out babies and depending on a man to take care of us financially. No man will love you as much as you can love yourself... The way to love yourself is to become the best you can career wise, education wise and financially. I love my freedom, my independence and my life in general. I don't see myself cooking, cleaning and babysitting a grown man with lugo yar yar iyo weji balaadhan oo weliba af xun oo nayaa dee cunto soo kari igu yidhaahda. A man's company is never and will never be a necessity for my happiness
Newhargeisagirl wrote:Marriage is such an outdated institution in my view and I am telling you why . Women used to get married, because they couldn't support themselves financially. There were not many career opportunities for us and we had to settle down and breed babies. Now, we can become anything and everything we want to become. In some cases we have the opportunity to be much more successful than somali men . Now the tables are turning in a marriage. you guys are becoming househusbands while we are bringing home the hard cash. Soon, that number will grow and we will become the stronger, more successful, prominent and dominant gender. In return, we'll have the opportunity to be more selective and men will be the one begging us to marry them. I don't think women need to worry so much about getting married, rather than getting an education. It's important to live our lives, doing what we want, rather than staying home, popping out babies and depending on a man to take care of us financially. No man will love you as much as you can love yourself... The way to love yourself is to become the best you can career wise, education wise and financially. I love my freedom, my independence and my life in general. I don't see myself cooking, cleaning and babysitting a grown man with lugo yar yar iyo weji balaadhan oo weliba af xun oo nayaa dee cunto soo kari igu yidhaahda. A man's company is never and will never be a necessity for my happiness
I think she is one the somalineter who will have a successful live, happily married to farah ilkaa dheere.
Some of here will be "gumeys" they are unloved, they will live their live unloved and will die alone and unloved in a small flat
gedo_gurl wrote:^^ nabz...thats how he chats people up...he kills their self esteem and SWOOPS in...I've been told that its a common trick for unattractive older men
take it from someone who has been there and done that...marriage when young to any idiot is a very stupid idea...I'd rather have stayed single But alxamduliAllahi there are some great catches out there so say yes if you like them!
Dr Gedo Gabar
Ph.D. and writer of best selling relationship guide for Somali women 'Garoob iyo Gumeysinimo Ma Labo La'is Garab Dhigaa'
just becouse your marriage didnt work out doesnt mean the girls shouldnt marry..
me and my wife got married when we were like 19 and half..now iam 25 and we are still happily married alxamdu-lillah.
anyway quick question was your broke marriage with ajnabi or was it a Somali?
Firefly, meeshan dad wada jiran oo si si kale ah ayaa ku buuxo...waa xeero majnuun e weldone for your response cos I wanted to clim through the PC and throttle him for mentioning Allah with private parts and disrespecting someone, aqas caleyk
abdisamad..I didnt say dont get married, re-read it...and maxaa kaa galey qoloduu ahaa
. Women used to get married, because they couldn't support themselves financially. There were not many career opportunities for us and we had to settle down and breed babies. Now, we can become anything and everything we want to become. In some cases we have the opportunity to be much more successful than somali men
. Now the tables are turning in a marriage. you guys are becoming househusbands while we are bringing home the hard cash. Soon, that number will grow and we will become the stronger, more successful, prominent and dominant gender. In return, we'll have the opportunity to be more selective and men will be the one begging us to marry them. I don't think women need to worry so much about getting married, rather than getting an education. It's important to live our lives, doing what we want, rather than staying home, popping out babies and depending on a man to take care of us financially. No man will love you as much as you can love yourself... The way to love yourself is to become the best you can career wise, education wise and financially. I love my freedom, my independence and my life in general. I don't see myself cooking, cleaning and babysitting a grown man with lugo yar yar iyo weji balaadhan oo weliba af xun oo nayaa dee cunto soo kari igu yidhaahda. A man's company is never and will never be a necessity for my happiness
But alxamduliAllahi there are some great catches out there so say yes if you like them!
