Love Vs. Lust

[HELWAA]

Bv

And when the lust is gun..maxaa xal ah...the battry man

[Executive]

I don't know about lust, but love does exists, and you know it's love and not lust, when your spouse spits xaaqo in your mouth and you smile without feeling disgusted.

naag walaan

And when the lust is gun..maxaa xal ah...the battry man

[BlackVelvet]

Bv

And when the lust is gun..maxaa xal ah...the battry man

Good back up plan. Maxaa kale aa la sameyn? You can't get a second husband

[qardasay]

Quran: And among His signs is this, that He has created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquillity with them; and He has put love and mercy between you. Verily in that are signs for those who reflect. (30:21)

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" Sex Addiction, Lust, and Pornography ---Dr. Doug Welpton

Our society promotes the false idea that lust leads to good sex. Pornography is a big business as are magazines like Playboy and Hustler. They lead young people to believe that pursuing lust will lead them to having a good sex life.
Young men are particularly susceptible to pornography and lust. Men are very visual. We are attracted by sexual images that stimulate lust. We imprint on our early sexual experiences, and we become bonded to those images. This process is like the bonding of birds and animals to their mothers or primary caretakers. A baby zebra, for example, becomes bonded to the pattern of stripes in front of its eyes during the first minute of life. Following her instincts the zebra’s mother circles her newborn constantly during the first minute of its life so the baby will bond to her and come to her to nurse.
Having bonded to these images adolescent boys and adult men try to re-create them in their sexual experiences. I have counseled men who prefer to masturbate using pornographic images than to have sex with their wives. I have counseled men who try to re-create their early sexual experiences with their wives like the ones they had when going to a bar and a motel for a one night stand. I have counseled people with sexual problems who have been told by their counselors or therapists to watch porn together to stimulate their sexual lives. They reported that they did become aroused but did not end up more committed to one another.

Our society contributes to sexual addiction by supporting the idea that lust leads to good sex. Sexual addiction can be an unintended consequence of promoting lust and pornography. People, especially young men and women, need to be told the truth: lust does not produce good sex. Lust leads to more lust.

Good sex is about more than an orgasm and a temporary high. Good sex is about a relationship with your partner, whereas lust is focused solely on yourself. Our focus in lust is what our partner can do for us to provide excitement and a high. Lust does not lead you to care for your partner. Lust is the antithesis of caring for your partner. Lust does not lead to love. Love is focused on your partner and your relationship. Love arises out of caring for your partner. Love is to want for your partner what you want for yourself.
The time has come to speak the truth to young men and women before they get hooked by lust and develop sex addictions. They end up using sex to get high and relief from shame and feeling unworthy only to experience more shame. They do not learn how to be intimate, how to share themselves, and how to build a relationship with their sexual partner.'''''''''

[HELWAA]

Bv

And when the lust is gun..maxaa xal ah...the battry man

Good back up plan. Maxaa kale aa la sameyn? You can't get a second husband

You dont need a second husband, kii hore shaabuug la dhac and tell him you're sick and tired of the same meal everyday.....how about we try mexican tonight or italian

Seriously what makes pple stick around is not lust or love...after 10yrs they're used with eachothers company and share to much.Leaving and starting from 0 again is not so easy.

[BlackVelvet]

Helwaa

Seriously what makes pple stick around is not lust or love...after 10yrs they're used with eachothers company and share to much.Leaving and starting from 0 again is not so easy.

So you're saying people stick together out of laziness? That's sad man. A couple who don't want to be together but stay together anyway would be depressing, they'd suck the life out of each other. That's why you should marry your friend, when the honeymoon period ends, you have the friendship and companionship to fall back on.

[CoolPoisons]

Bv

And when the lust is gun..maxaa xal ah...the battry man

Kuwa Wadaad wadaad iska dhigaya are the most kinkest one

[abdalla11]

Love is whatever you make of it. And any marriage that lacks love lacks a solid foundation.

And if a marriage lacks lust it lacks the whole foundation

[milk_maan]

مرّ قيس بزوج ليلى ، وهو يتشمس في يوم شات ، فوقف أزاءه منشدا

بربك هل ضممت اليك ليلى
قبيل الصبح أو قبلت فاها
وهل رفت عليك قرون ليلى
رفيف الاقحوانة في نداها

Wuxuu ka soo hor baxay ninkii guursaday naagtuu jeclaa(layla) markaa suu su'aasha weydiiyey.
kaasi ma jacayl baa mise waa Qooq, Kacsi??

[HELWAA]

Helwaa

Seriously what makes pple stick around is not lust or love...after 10yrs they're used with eachothers company and share to much.Leaving and starting from 0 again is not so easy.

So you're saying people stick together out of laziness? That's sad man. A couple who don't want to be together but stay together anyway would be depressing, they'd suck the life out of each other. That's why you should marry your friend, when the honeymoon period ends, you have the friendship and companionship to fall back on.

Not out of laziness but out of convenience.I reallly think its important for parents to stay together if there are children involved and resolve ur problems.Obviously you married the guy for a reason why run when you fell out of love.Why leave when you invested so much.But but hadi labada qof calafkooda kala dhamaado way kala socon i guess.

[Nabeela]

Helwaa, nin aad jecelin yaa la joogo karo, even for the sake of the kids, eventually you will resent the kids because it's their fault you are trapped and stuck in a loveless marriage.

[HELWAA]

Nabeela

Let say she leaves him..haye yaa la korinaya waxaas oo ciyaal ah and what man wants to raise onther mans children, and if she stays single maxay faaiday bal?

Dadka badankooga xiiso ayaa isku geeya iyo dan..you can ask any somali lady if she loves her husband.

[qoraxeey]

I don't know about lust, but love does exists, and you know it's love and not lust, when your spouse spits xaaqo in your mouth and you smile without feeling disgusted.

i belive there is someone for everyone

[Dhaga Bacayl]

Lust comes before love. SO yes, lust trumps love. There is NO love if lust has not happened. I have actually done an experiment on myself. I met this guy at work--very cute. Luckily he was checking me out, so that really gave me a green light to my project. He was physically my type, upto to the blonde--wished it was blue eyed, but i settled with his green eyes, which turn out to be even better.So here i was thinking wow---this guy is soooooooooo cute-- and attractive. Before i know it-- he was checking me out more-- and suddenly i started imagining him in his boxers--and on and on and on....

Eventually i reached a point where i was deeply in love---that it hard to come to work.Now is that lust? Of course yes. I would blush--all rosey and red, very disgusting behavior when i meet him in the hallway. At full disclosure-- i have to admit---i went into this crush adventure with full experiment mode. I remember exactly the day i decided to fall in love with him. Also i was curious what it will feel to fall in love with an cadaan--as opposed to my obsession with cadaan celebrities. Anyway, to cut a long story short, we both ended up falling for each other.(he practically stalked me aggressively) However, he was serious and i was not.I just wanted to know how it feels like falling inlove with an cadaan cute guy. Yes, i beg your pardon, i was bored. I mean, i was physically and heartily in lust for him?---in love? I really didnt want to take it beyond a crush---u know---- due to my poor marehaan husband and all.

Anyway--Chris --ended up quiting the job when he realized i was playing a game. But i was not-- i was doing an experiment on what is love or lust.or how does it feel to fall for an cadaan. I discovered --lust--takes u over initially. Basically, a part of your brain is locked into permanent fixture. Love then develops-where u care for the person, unconditional care and well being. When u put the other person before yourself--then is when u know u r in love. But without lust---love is empty or unimportant.



Have i confessed too much? do u think i am a mad scientist?

No. You just told us you fucked a white. How is that an experiment?

[Nomand]

there is a difference between a naag and a nin. for a nin its all about lust and for a naag it is a mixture between love and lust.