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Yoousef wrote:How can condoms be haraam?
I don't want kids for at least the first 5 years of my marriage. That time is just for me and my wife
The purpose of marriage in Islam is to procreate..why would you get married and delay having kids for 5 years? 
That just doesn't make sense.grandpakhalif wrote:Yoousef wrote:How can condoms be haraam?
I don't want kids for at least the first 5 years of my marriage. That time is just for me and my wife
Ka darag wrote:Yoousef wrote:How can condoms be haraam?
I don't want kids for at least the first 5 years of my marriage. That time is just for me and my wife
Your willing to pop out 5 kids for me 
Dude our grandparents generation used to pop out like 12 kids consecutevely, my grandma is still doing fineHalfDzed wrote:I noticed its usually women who have subconciously accepted all the ignorant shit they've been told growing up and who live in constant fear of losing their husbands who are fervent opponents of birth control. To these women, its inconceivable to be a wife and actually have a say in when she gets pregnant. Not realizing what having a child, year in & year out does to her physical & psychological well-being, in addition to intimacy and sex life with her spouse. The human body was not created to undergo such strenous and often times exhausting under-taking. A minimum of two years (even according to the religion) is needed before conceiving again. Ignorance.
Because I want to get to know my wife first. I want to move further in my life first, I want to reach high places in my career and my wife should be working well too and in a good field of work.Ka darag wrote:Yoousef wrote:How can condoms be haraam?
I don't want kids for at least the first 5 years of my marriage. That time is just for me and my wife
Who is this beautiful women, she looks familiar? I need her namegrandpakhalif wrote:
I think as long as you're not breast feeding, you can conceive again.HalfDzed wrote:I noticed its usually women who have subconciously accepted all the ignorant shit they've been told growing up and who live in constant fear of losing their husbands who are fervent opponents of birth control. To these women, its inconceivable to be a wife and actually have a say in when she gets pregnant. Not realizing what having a child, year in & year out does to her physical & psychological well-being, in addition to intimacy and sex life with her spouse. The human body was not created to undergo such strenous and often times exhausting under-taking. A minimum of two years (even according to the religion) is needed before conceiving again. Ignorance.
You're supposed to get to know her beforehand.Yoousef wrote:Because I want to get to know my wife first. I want to move further in my life first, I want to reach high places in my career and my wife should be working well too and in a good field of work.Ka darag wrote:Yoousef wrote:How can condoms be haraam?
I don't want kids for at least the first 5 years of my marriage. That time is just for me and my wife
Then we will be financially and mentally ready to look after out kids. So she leaves her job and cares for the children and we can pay for private education, tutors and other things for them.
For sure I don't want children for a number of years
I think anything longer than a year, without a really good reason, is just ridiculous.Yoousef wrote:Who is this beautiful women, she looks familiar? I need her namegrandpakhalif wrote:
gina carano have fun jerking...Yoousef wrote:Who is she? I need to know...
We neither live in the environment for it, nor does it mean just because it was done that its the way to go.grandpakhalif wrote:Dude our grandparents generation used to pop out like 12 kids consecutevely, my grandma is still doing fineHalfDzed wrote:I noticed its usually women who have subconciously accepted all the ignorant shit they've been told growing up and who live in constant fear of losing their husbands who are fervent opponents of birth control. To these women, its inconceivable to be a wife and actually have a say in when she gets pregnant. Not realizing what having a child, year in & year out does to her physical & psychological well-being, in addition to intimacy and sex life with her spouse. The human body was not created to undergo such strenous and often times exhausting under-taking. A minimum of two years (even according to the religion) is needed before conceiving again. Ignorance.
I think anything longer than a year, without a really good reason, is just ridiculous.[/quote]
Yes I will know here beforehand 1-2 years. Then about 5 years as a married couple together, thats how you get to know someone.Yoousef wrote:[quote="Ka darag] You're supposed to get to know her beforehand.
[/quote][/quote] good luck with that I don't masturbate, or jerk, or wank. I think that is for the weak minded I have learnt to control my ages a long time ago. I look at the beauty of women like some people view a fine wine, fine food, fine car.grandpakhalif wrote:gina carano have fun jerking...Yoousef wrote:Who is she? I need to know...
