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[30:21] Among His proofs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves, in order to have tranquility and contentment with each other, and He placed in your hearts love and care towards your spouses. In this, there are sufficient proofs for people who think.

i don't think the existence of love in marriage is disputable

the problem is not about the possible avails of marriage, but people's approach to marriage itself.....there's a continued irreverence toward marriage as institution....some(i'm talking muslim women in particular) even questioning its validity..

How can love come after marriage? Somali phrases like 'love comes after marriage' and 'naagta been kusoo xaree run ku dhaq' are baseless. Ask any married man if he loved his wife more before they got married or after, he'll say before marriage. When she was still beautiful and slim. The fightings and quarrels that comes with the marriage indicates that loves decreases. The love is more intense before the marriage than after

Executive wrote:Helwa

Your husband will cheat on you marka Love is a deterrent for that, if you don't love him and he doesn't love you waxa la mid tahaay habalaha kaale oo suuqa joogo. If he's imaan is low wax ka celina ma jirto. Love maintenance a marriage and if there is no love in your marriage you have got a problem.

Cheating has nothing to do with love, how many men cheat on their wives and yet claim they still love them.Even if Love do exist it never last huuno, it fades with time and you become roommates after 10yrs.Share responisiblitis, kids and bills.If you're lucky you become friends by then, other then that waa just uun laxooxda iska wada cuna oo caruurtina korsada.

HELWAA wrote:

Executive wrote:Helwa

Your husband will cheat on you marka Love is a deterrent for that, if you don't love him and he doesn't love you waxa la mid tahaay habalaha kaale oo suuqa joogo. If he's imaan is low wax ka celina ma jirto. Love maintenance a marriage and if there is no love in your marriage you have got a problem.

Cheating has nothing to do with love, how many men cheat on their wives and yet claim they still love them.Even if Love do exist it never last huuno, it fades with time and you become roommates after 10yrs.Share responisiblitis, kids and bills.If you're lucky you become friends by then, other then that waa just uun laxooxda iska wada cuna oo caruurtina korsada.

Helwa, what love for you? if no that rahmah and patient when things go down or wrong and raising kids together, what will be? are you into holywood romance kind that doesnt even exist?

what you just discribed is a love and very deep one.

love & marriage = hyper

mi amore

qoraxeey eeb , ka hishoo papa hyper.

oki my under aged papa'

give me a hug

before Basra kills me for flirting with U

Hyper

Back in the day markey ilkaha sare wali igu yaalen waxaan isugu sheeken jiray sheeko hindi iyo fairytales.This is how i pictured marriage will be: xalimo finds her farax and they have beautiful wedding.From that day on they will be together forever, no arguments, no disppointment, no qaylo, no buuq.The husband will always put her needs and interest before his own.He spends quality time with his family no matter how busy he is.Always be patient and understanding and put his FAMILY first above everyone els.And no matter how tough life is always remember that they've eachother and be thankful for that.

HELWAA wrote:Hyper

Back in the day markey ilkaha sare wali igu yaalen waxaan isugu sheeken jiray sheeko hindi iyo fairytales.This is how i pictured marriage will be: xalimo finds her farax and they have beautiful wedding.From that day on they will be together forever, no arguments, no disppointment, no qaylo, no buuq.The husband will always put her needs and interest before his own.He spends quality time with his family no matter how busy he is.Always be patient and understanding and put his FAMILY first above everyone els.And no matter how tough life is always remember that they've eachother and be thankful for that.

dont most farah do this?

koley aniku even even hadan islanta na'o , my kids will be first and above all.

Ok this is the guursi season, all of you who are single, make sure you get married soon. Maasha'Allaah we need to keep the Somali gene going.

hyperactive wrote:

HELWAA wrote:Hyper

Back in the day markey ilkaha sare wali igu yaalen waxaan isugu sheeken jiray sheeko hindi iyo fairytales.This is how i pictured marriage will be: xalimo finds her farax and they have beautiful wedding.From that day on they will be together forever, no arguments, no disppointment, no qaylo, no buuq.The husband will always put her needs and interest before his own.He spends quality time with his family no matter how busy he is.Always be patient and understanding and put his FAMILY first above everyone els.And no matter how tough life is always remember that they've eachother and be thankful for that.

dont most farah do this?

koley aniku even even hadan islanta na'o , my kids will be first and above all.

Sadly not many do.Most of them are selfish, ignorant who doesn't even know how to be a father.Their friends and everything in life comes before their wife and kids.
What ruins most marriages is the absence of fathers.

Shirib, do you believe in love, you seem lost and confused when it comes to love.

Yes Love does exist..before marriage... it just takes time and patience..oh and the right person of course. Love comes with hardship but its absolutely worth it






Never give up on love.

its called spring kacsi syndrome not love.

a marriage without love is complete doomed. Love is real.