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Re: Broke dudes and marriage
Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 4:32 am
by abdisamad3
HELWAA wrote:loooooool Bv..i had no idea Nobleman finally found the one..mashallah ilaahy khayr ha uga dhigo.Whoever it's she's lucky.
But why did they delete ur thread?
Wow Nabeela is the new admin,, thats great..hada nimanki qoorta lagaga istaageya dumarka isku xariifin jiray.
ciyaal warta and l2s are married to eachother..ta ma ogid bv? they love to play hide and seek in SN.
loooooooool@ Qoroxeey is finally hot..i want see the pic too.
As for the new section, i cant wait...i have many stories to share.


Re: Broke dudes and marriage
Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 4:37 am
by HELWAA
Abdi
Hej!Bor du fortfarande i Danmark?..Du borde flytta därifrån inan de bränner dit hus eller skadar din family..meshas meel maaha walle.Jag hörde hemska historier.De hatar invandrare esp muslimer, det är ingen bra plats att uppfostra sina barn.
Re: Broke dudes and marriage
Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 5:01 am
by waryaa
BlackVelvet wrote:If you're too broke to rent your own place or buy furniture you shouldn't get married.
I disagree.
The best time to get married is when you are broke. A second lifeline can help you make ends meet easier. Make sure she can carry her weight when the going gets tough.
Re: Broke dudes and marriage
Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 5:25 am
by Hyperactive
waryaa wrote:BlackVelvet wrote:If you're too broke to rent your own place or buy furniture you shouldn't get married.
I disagree.
The best time to get married is when you are broke. A second lifeline can help you make ends meet easier. Make sure she can carry her weight when the going gets tough.
waryaa wa mafia illen

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i agree with bv, if you cannot take care of self you shouldnt marry and be responsible for others.
Re: Broke dudes and marriage
Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 5:39 am
by waryaa
hyperactive wrote:
waryaa wa mafia illen

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i agree with bv, if you cannot take care of self you shouldnt marry and be responsible for others.
lool
- bro hyper, it depends on the society. In the Muslim world, the man is expected to provide for the family when the wife is to be around the kitchen/cleanin/kids/etc. It is a totally different ball game in the west. Girls go to school like the boys, they go on and complete higher education, again like their male counterparts. They end up in the workforce eventually and make as much money as guys can. If you marry this type of woman are you expecting her to cook and clean for you and stay home? Besides double income families are whining about hardship.
Re: Broke dudes and marriage
Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 5:42 am
by Cirwaaq
Broke is a relative term.
Wether i can save up 20k in a year or Manage 5K when the dreaded hour comes she will not be satisfied unless she finds a way to push the envelope of financial reasoning.
If you tell a girl you have 100k she will make plans that will exhaust every penny.
Some sort of weird unbeknown to men survival femanine mechanism drives them to Ensure you become Broke before she becomes your wife. So is it not the case then that Men are made Broke
It is a wise woman that goes for the Broke dude

at east she won't live with the guilt of all that wasted funds.

Re: Broke dudes and marriage
Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 6:12 am
by 1nemansquad
its isn't so much of them having low standards but regardless of your high hopes and standard, your just going to have to settle for your calaf when it arrives; there isn't so much you can do BV
btw, i hate females that don't contribute or don't work

Re: Broke dudes and marriage
Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 6:16 am
by HELWAA
1nemansquad wrote:its isn't so much of them having low standards but regardless of your high hopes and standard, your just going to have to settle for your calaf when it arrives; there isn't so much you can do BV
btw, i hate females that don't contribute or don't work

contribute?....even if she works the mony she earns it's hers only.It's ur job to provide for her.
Re: Broke dudes and marriage
Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 6:18 am
by BlackVelvet
Cirwaaq think of it as motivation to make more. I think I remember some saying if it wasn't for women, men would be living in cardboard boxes? It all works out in the end
1nemansquad wrote:its isn't so much of them having low standards but regardless of your high hopes and standard, your just going to have to settle for your calaf when it arrives; there isn't so much you can do BV
btw, i hate females that don't contribute or don't work

People can lose their wealth in a night, that's calaf. Marrying a man who can't afford a bed and a room in which to put one is, in my humble opinion, the woman's own fault, no point blaming calaf for poor decisions.
You're right about contributing but contributing and paying the way are different things.
Re: Broke dudes and marriage
Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 6:23 am
by BlackVelvet
HELWAA wrote:1nemansquad wrote:its isn't so much of them having low standards but regardless of your high hopes and standard, your just going to have to settle for your calaf when it arrives; there isn't so much you can do BV
btw, i hate females that don't contribute or don't work

contribute?....even if she works the mony she earns it's hers only.It's ur job to provide for her.
Theoretically haa, your money is your money lakin wouldn't you feel a little bit guilty? Ninkii oo rentka bixiyey and then biilaha biyahy iyo korontada bixiyey and then masaruufka iyo tv license-ka iyo shidaalka oo my God, lacagta bangiga ma iska fadhineeyso. You will end up paying something
Re: Broke dudes and marriage
Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 6:29 am
by HELWAA
Bangiga kuuma taaleyso walaal, waad ka haji , reerkina waad ka caawin.Somalida waxay isku qabsadaan kaliya waa lacag.Maxaa ku kalifay dadkan kala dagayo bey kula tahay..waa biilka wadanki lo dirayo.Kolay lacagta gurigaga wad ka caawin laakin ninka inu ku xisaabtamo maaha.Naagto waxay gurigeeda siiso ajar bey xita o noqoneysa.
Re: Broke dudes and marriage
Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 6:36 am
by Cirwaaq
BlackVelvet wrote:Cirwaaq think of it as motivation to make more. I think I remember some saying if it wasn't for women, men would be living in cardboard boxes? It all works out in the end
1nemansquad wrote:its isn't so much of them having low standards but regardless of your high hopes and standard, your just going to have to settle for your calaf when it arrives; there isn't so much you can do BV
btw, i hate females that don't contribute or don't work

People can lose their wealth in a night, that's calaf. Marrying a man who can't afford a bed and a room in which to put one is, in my humble opinion, the woman's own fault, no point blaming calaf for poor decisions.
You're right about contributing but contributing and paying the way are different things.
Motivation Vs Exploitation
Walah i am mentally and physically drained when i get home. Having endured an ego bashing on a daily basis from some senile director, having the taxman take half your money, having DDs and standing orders suck your accounts dry. By the end of the month you have to skip meals to save money.
What world is a woman living in if she can't show any pity to my conditon, hell in my book she is already disqualified as a possible partner.
Give me a cardboard box anyday at least there is nothing to tidyup and i can pickit up and relocate in a moments notice.

Re: Broke dudes and marriage
Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 6:45 am
by Hyperactive
cirwaaq inader, kuwa helwaa o kale on ka fagow, these are anemy of humanity.
helwaa wants to eat with both hands. helwa Allah ninkaagao sahlo.lol
Re: Broke dudes and marriage
Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 6:50 am
by BlackVelvet
HELWAA wrote:Bangiga kuuma taaleyso walaal, waad ka haji , reerkina waad ka caawin.Somalida waxay isku qabsadaan kaliya waa lacag.Maxaa ku kalifay dadkan kala dagayo bey kula tahay..waa biilka wadanki lo dirayo.Kolay lacagta gurigaga wad ka caawin laakin ninka inu ku xisaabtamo maaha.Naagto waxay gurigeeda siiso ajar bey xita o noqoneysa.
Ruuntaa, and the more you give the more ajar you get.
Cirwaaq wrote:
Motivation Vs Exploitation
Walah i am mentally and physically drained when i get home. Having endured an ego bashing on a daily basis from some senile director, having the taxman take half your money, having DDs and standing orders suck your accounts dry. By the end of the month you have to skip meals to save money.
What world is a woman living in if she can't show any pity to my conditon, hell in my book she is already disqualified as a possible partner.
Give me a cardboard box anyday at least there is nothing to tidyup and i can pickit up and relocate in a moments notice.


Re: Broke dudes and marriage
Posted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 6:53 am
by Cirwaaq
hyperactive wrote:cirwaaq inader, kuwa helwaa o kale on ka fagow, these are anemy of humanity.
helwaa wants to eat with both hands. helwa Allah ninkaagao sahlo.lol
I don't know much about Helwa i am more afraid of BV
BV is a slave maker. Some men were born to remain untamed i am more stubborn then a mule. HeeeYaaa
