If A Woman Told You

[AhlulbaytSoldier]

I would tell her to fock off, I aint pornstar.

[Garaad_LQ]

Garaad,

A woman will not reveal her true self until she has your child. She will then use that against you. When things go south, your kids will be the only ace in the hole she has and brother, she will use it. I hate manipulative bitches who turn children against their fathers I'd love to take her arse to Somalia

AW
you right bro ,but that's why i'm gonna wait at least 2 or 3 years for the halimo to reveal her true colors ,it will be hard to impossible to hold to that fakeness that long

here in the west it's Women's world ,they got us all by the balls and we know it bro .

[AbdiWahab252]

Garaad,

Beware of the woman you have children with. Doesn't matter if you have known her for years or months, if she is born of a bad seed, she will become a thorn in your side.

[Alchemist]

Garaad,

Beware of the woman you have children with. Doesn't matter if you have known her for years or months, if she is born of a bad seed, she will become a thorn in your side.

Looool man, those are wise words ...

[AbdiWahab252]

Alchemist,

Every woman ends up becoming like her mother.

Choose wisely adeer choose wisely.

[zulaika]

it is something that should be discussed before getting married..no need to flip out if she says i wanna wait..or vice versa.... and of course Allah knows best when kids will come.

[Basra-]

No--divorce her if she doesnt want to have kids. Maybe she doesnt want to be a mother, thats obvious.

[Murax]

I'm wondering all the ladies in the thread who are saying "Only Allah knows when kids come" how about stories I hear about some girls going on birth control pills without telling their Husband? Poor Man is depressed thinks He's shooting blanks, whe in reality His sperm is getting shot down by some powerful inkaar birth control pill ...Either way I definitely see this is a popular opinion for You Guys as You are unaminous.


To the fellas I think we have a split. Still though I don't quite understand the logic behind "See if she acts up before bringing kids". She may have kids and then change after the kids, then what are u gonna do? I think You pick the best girl You could and then Ilaahay tallo saar, I don't think You can have this "probation period". Also with the Guys saying they wanna a nice easy period after they get married, I mean don't You get married when You're aleady in the ready to settle down, do the Husband/Father/Family etc. thing the whole way? Otherwise why not stay single or just keep the relationship where its at without getting married?

[Mondey]

no problem with that, having fun before having kids is best part of marriage.. but if ur a guy over 30 married and still no kids then u become a loser.

[Alphanumeric]

I've actually had this in mind for quite a while. But it seems hard to come by. If marriage does come up for me, I'd be the one to open this can of worms.

[HELWAA]

I'm wondering all the ladies in the thread who are saying "Only Allah knows when kids come" how about stories I hear about some girls going on birth control pills without telling their Husband? Poor Man is depressed thinks He's shooting blanks, whe in reality His sperm is getting shot down by some powerful inkaar birth control pill ...Either way I definitely see this is a popular opinion for You Guys as You are unaminous.

Waxaas wa khiyaamo, if the girl doesnt want have any kids at all she should be honest from start and tell the guy.Lugooydu ma fiicna.

[DisplacedDiraac]

I dont see anything wrong with this..
Islamically you hardly know your spouse to begin with.. therefore a getting to know your partner proper well stage is needed, but I think 2 years is a little long.. A year is fine..

[XaliimoFarax]

Kids help solve a lot of problems in a marriage. I think you are more likely to divorce a person you have no kids with than with kids. Knowing that person is carrying your child or you have a child with its just mashallah.

Besides getting to know each other will happen you have nine months of adventure everything in a marriage you need ups and downs.

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

Caadi waaye..iska raaxaysta and get to know each other. Kids age you fast..and its hard for a working woman to raise kids anyway.

[samadoon-waaxid]

I'm wondering all the ladies in the thread who are saying "Only Allah knows when kids come" how about stories I hear about some girls going on birth control pills without telling their Husband? Poor Man is depressed thinks He's shooting blanks, whe in reality His sperm is getting shot down by some powerful inkaar birth control pill ...Either way I definitely see this is a popular opinion for You Guys as You are unaminous.


To the fellas I think we have a split. Still though I don't quite understand the logic behind "See if she acts up before bringing kids". She may have kids and then change after the kids, then what are u gonna do? I think You pick the best girl You could and then Ilaahay tallo saar, I don't think You can have this "probation period". Also with the Guys saying they wanna a nice easy period after they get married, I mean don't You get married when You're aleady in the ready to settle down, do the Husband/Father/Family etc. thing the whole way? Otherwise why not stay single or just keep the relationship where its at without getting married?

Murax,the first two years is like the ciritical point and if u survive and dont divorce the girl,then u r goo.thus,its not really wise to impregnate a girl during test drive/piloting out phase and if u do and end up leaving her she will have u by ur nuts for the rest of ur freagin life.i see so many niggaz who ended up their marriages prematurely and end up begging to have the kid for once every two weeks.its not even funny.Me,personally I have already signed my 2 years no kids agreement and if everything goes as planned it shoudlent be that bad