divorcing my wife SERIOUS TOPIC

[quark]

for the sake of the kid work things out with her sxb

[HELWAA]

Hyper

Xaqiiqado waligeed ma so baxdo markey labo qof is qabsadan, wax kale uun bay ku dul warwareegan xita marku tolko so dhex galo.Arintu is bigger then lacag iyo musqul maydhis, cala kuli xaal haday calafkooda kala dhamaado way kala tagiy oo wixi ilaahy qoray cidna joojin kari mayso hadii kalena ilaahy faraj bu oo furi.Divorce wax lago degdego maaha siiba markaad caruur haysatid.Ilaahy ha oo sahlo, furitaanki somalidi wu ka batay.

[Mondey]

look my man, a woman ur married to has no right to demand managing your money -which you work day and night to earn- under no circumstances. you are the MALE and the one who works and pays for everything and you're not 9 year old so that someone asks u to manage your money for u..thats so absurd with all due respect !

she can only ask u for some money to spend whether on her, on the child or on the house.. but never to save/manage anything for you, thats not her job thats the banks job does she think she is a bank or what ?!!

i think your wife doesn't trust you and maybe she thinks that u earn/spend extra money and hide it from her. she is the one with trust issues not u.

as for the chores she wants u to do, well the moment a woman ur married to dares to ask u to do cleaning bathrooms, washing dishes and changing kids diapers (her job basically) thats when u should know that ur not doing well as a MALE and a husband and ur getting soft and weak and being disrespected in ur own home.

remember u work for about 9 hours/day, 6 days a week and provided everything in that house.

divorcing is a solution but its not the best one, try talking to her straight and make a border line between her duties and yours, things got little bit mixed up at ur house i see.

[djibsomali]

knowing your salary ==> she is rigth

Cleaning ==> tell her to fuck off

Divorce ==> tell her to piss off

And why are you spending all the time with your wife, get out of the house, go on holiday
get a new girlfriend.
Do something ...

but never divorce the old women (or your baby will get raped by the like of djibsomali)

[FAH1223]

Cleaning a bathroom once a week takes less than a half hour. Are you really that lazy?

Childish reasons for divorce

[XaliimoFarax]

All my male co-workers their stay home wifes manage their money and give their husbands pocket money. Its the new trend so no worries. Walle cadaan guys are so soft I think I should marry one.

No joke few weeks ago one of my co-workers didn't get paid properly and his stay home wife calls the office screaming and yelling why he did not get paid. The poor dude had to apologies to the accountant cos of his wife's action lol

[Colonel]

Saxiib don't listen to these kids telling you to divorce, you have a baby boy what kind of man would abondon his wife and 6 month old kid for such petty issues? What's the matter if she's asking you to help out around the house every now and then...even Rasulullah (saw) would help out his wives at home while having much more responsibilities than us as a prophet and leader.
As for managing your salary that sounds a bit odd, give her some money here and there and she won't complain anymore Inshallah.

And remember 1 of the things Shaytan loves the most is the breaking of families.
Finally you shouldn't ask advice from people on a forum, especially this 1 where most people aren't married or are 16 yr olds which are more Qabiliist than their parents already.

[ahmedbrant]

Ur wife wants to be the alpha male and thats a big no no
A marriage where ur not in command won't last anyways
The cleaning part is a minor but DO NOT give her control of ur salary.
Otherwise u'll end up begging her for £10 to fill up ur car with petrol in order to visit ur friend jimcala
My advice would be to try ur to make the marriage continue for the sake of the child. Try ur most to reason with her but like i said don't give her control of all ur money. If she's adamant and won't budge i'm afraid divorce is the only way. U'll be saving yourself a lot of future headaches.

[ultratribalism]

Why do you need to divulge Your personal life to these cyber predators? war nin weyn baa tahay ee xishoo,dulli fooqal sh!t.what is next marka,my wife likes red panties miyaad soo wadaa??

[BlackVelvet]

You have a 6 month yr old, she needs help with house chores, you won't help her.

She wants to know how much you earn and to use this money to manage your house and raise your child and you refuse to allow her to do it.

Somehow I think this woman might be better off without you. If you refuse to make life easier for her, adiga ha is cadabin, ayadana nafta ha ku caririnin, call it quits and walk away. Otherwise take into consideration her needs, why she is asking for your help and sort it out. This fake alpha male, I will never clean and she has no business dealing with my money bullshit will only make both your lives miserable.

[AbdiWahab252]

U need to know how to lay the pipe right. A satisfied woman will clean, cook and even get a job.

[Xamud.]

U need to know how to lay the pipe right. A satisfied woman will clean, cook and even get a job.

you got the same view on women as one of my adeers.

Seems like this women is trying to take coolpoisen out for a ride, if she is this difficult to deal with now, imagine when she gives birth to more kids coolpoisen my man you need to act fast, and make a move, your kid is better of having divorced parents than a punk softy as his dad.

[HELWAA]

Xamud

Ilaaha ka baq, adigaba maalin bey taas oo kale ku qabsan.Never advice anyone to divorce because yoma al aakhira wa lagu waydiin.We dont know the whole story so just pray for them

[Xamud.]

Xamud

Ilaaha ka baq, adigaba maalin bey taas oo kale ku qabsan.Never advice anyone to divorce because yoma al aakhira wa lagu waydiin.We dont know the whole story so just pray for them

Helwaa waa ruunta, balse labo qof haday is qaban ma fiicno in mid la liido, beside dadkan oo dhan(with the exception of some females) waxay ula taliyen ha fuurin wayo ilmo ayaa idin joogo, balse labada qof haadi ilmo haystan maha micnahedo in mid la liido. Hore lo yirii "Raarti raarti wado iyo nin naag wado midna kama leexdo"

[afisoone]

Rer somalinet

things getting serious



xaaskeyga and me have different opinions

she wants to know all my salary shiid and she wants to manage it

i said i dont anyone to manage my salary. its my responsibility but she said how can there be trust if Ur cant manage Ur salary. i pay for everythign and she saves the money for emergency stuff like moving house or something.

she wants me to do more house chores like cleaning the bathroom and shiid and 1 thing i really hate is cleaning the bathroom

hada qaati ayee taagantahay and she wants divorce

what shall i do PLEASE BE SERIOUS. THIS IS SERIOUS COOLPOISON NOT THE COMEDIAN COOLPOISON

First of all. You need to calm down. Be easy on your wife. Cleaning the bathroom takes only 5 minute. It is healthy to clean your bathroom my friend. You treat her like a strange person. Why you treating a strange person to you. As you said you never tell about your salary. You are not man enough to trust your wife.

My advice to you. Divorce her if you are not responsible enough to tell her everything. I hate when a man treats woman strange. How low I can be.
She is not dumb. She find out that she is not getting fair share treatment from you.

You need to change that ego and be man my friend. That is my advice to you.