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Re: Divorce....
Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 7:28 am
by Alchemist
Murax wrote:I think the biggest reasons for divorce is ppl are delusional in thinking the girl or guy will change. Personally I've seen a lot of really pretty girls that I'm attracted to physically but I know after 2 days being married to them, I'd hate them. Having 100 'Guy friends' blowing up her phone, wearing tight t shirts and jeans outside, etc. wtf I'm a conservative Guy thats why I always wanted a conservative, shy type who I think can be a good Wife/Mother.
If I was gaal though, I wouldn't even get married.
Lol well said.
Re: Divorce....
Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 10:07 am
by Hyperactive
i agree with murax.
the problem, when they want marry they dont thing about mother/father of their kids, their kids future. they dont think when they are their 30s,40s,50s. if this person will fit my life style that i want to head or it's just lust that im thinking of!!
Re: Divorce....
Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 1:31 pm
by MujahidAishah
Does matter how much planning u do calaf will bring to the person and ur calaf will separate both of u
So illah ka duco innu calaf neega daaman
Re: Divorce....
Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 1:38 pm
by Murax
hyperactive wrote:i agree with murax.
the problem, when they want marry they dont thing about mother/father of their kids, their kids future. they dont think when they are their 30s,40s,50s. if this person will fit my life style that i want to head or it's just lust that im thinking of!!
One of My fav Ayahs "Wa Qarna Fee Buyuutikun Wala Tabarajna Tabarujal Jaahiliyatul-Ulaa"
Re: Divorce....
Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 1:42 pm
by AbdiWahab252
Divorce like khat is an acquired taste. The first marriage is the starter marriage, gets easier with practice.
Re: Divorce....
Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 1:43 pm
by Murax
Abdiwahab252,
As a OG in the game, who's seen it all I have a serious question for You brother. I want You to set the record straight on something.
Re: Divorce....
Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 1:44 pm
by Hyperactive
inader, hade haweenki ba la yiri, so shaqeeya. adeer hebel iyo hooyo heblaayo, wa in bill lo dira, aqal weyn, car, expensive life etc.
if qof walba imaanka ko qabo wihi o so shaqeeyo, haweeneydana ay joojiso expending much. oy aqlkeeda iska joogto, wahba ba ma halaawi lahen.
Re: Divorce....
Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 1:45 pm
by Alchemist
Murax wrote:hyperactive wrote:i agree with murax.
the problem, when they want marry they dont thing about mother/father of their kids, their kids future. they dont think when they are their 30s,40s,50s. if this person will fit my life style that i want to head or it's just lust that im thinking of!!
One of My fav Ayahs "Wa Qarna Fee Buyuutikun Wala Tabarajna Tabarujal Jaahiliyatul-Ulaa"
Deadly ayah for feminists. Lol
Re: Divorce....
Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 1:46 pm
by AbdiWahab252
Murax,
OG = Original Garoobinator ? Warya, say it ain;t so, NAH kidding, whats good saxiib ? Ask away.
Re: Divorce....
Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 1:48 pm
by Murax
hyperactive wrote:inader, hade haweenki ba la yiri, so shaqeeya. adeer hebel iyo hooyo heblaayo, wa in bill lo dira, aqal weyn, car, expensive life etc.
if qof walba imaanka ko qabo wihi o so shaqeeyo, haweeneydana ay joojiso expending much. oy aqlkeeda iska joogto, wahba ba ma halaawi lahen.
Wallahi Sh Hyper gob waaye
Ninyaho if I Had a daughter I'd give her to You, or heck even My own Sis laakin she's getting married in a couple of months.
Re: Divorce....
Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 1:48 pm
by Murax
Abdiwahab252,
The question I have is can a guy and a girl "Be Friends"?
Re: Divorce....
Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 1:50 pm
by AbdiWahab252
Murax wrote:Abdiwahab252,
The question I have is can a guy and a girl "Be Friends"?
If you are lucky, you become FRIENDS+ (friends with benefits).
Re: Divorce....
Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 1:50 pm
by Hyperactive
lol murax. ee du3ey mif imaan leh in Allah e sahlo.
Re: Divorce....
Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 1:54 pm
by Murax
AbdiWahab252 wrote:Murax wrote:Abdiwahab252,
The question I have is can a guy and a girl "Be Friends"?
If you are lucky, you become FRIENDS+ (friends with benefits).
I'm not talking about a guy who has chicks on the side, with no strings attatched relationships. I'm talking about the 'buddy buddy, bff' type shid
Hyperactive,
Do You think You'll marry Somali, or Arab?
Re: Divorce....
Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 1:57 pm
by AbdiWahab252
Murax,
Of course NOT.
Think of it, an understanding, caring woman who gives good advice, who could resist UNLESS she is so freaking ugly, it keeps Junior in check.