Housewife......?

xoogSADE14 · Post by **xoogSADE14** » Thu Sep 08, 2005 4:49 pm

^^

waraa they call boys 'fariid' chicks are FARIIDO

Quruxley · Post by **Quruxley** » Thu Sep 08, 2005 4:51 pm

XoogSade we is from the north you southerner....Aboowe nooh? Laughing

Anyways when I was in L.A we kept calling my niece fariid...Everyone did.

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Kamal thanks for the PM,thats a really great mindset you have there on the issue Smile

xoogSADE14 · Post by **xoogSADE14** » Thu Sep 08, 2005 4:56 pm

kamal sent you a pm Shocked

wait till i get my hands on that no good spanish piece of bread Evil or Very Mad

quruxleey abayo, you know you like the souther accent so stop frontin and come with hubby gurl Wink

couldublvd · Post by **couldublvd** » Thu Sep 08, 2005 5:01 pm

waryaa, that is what they say man!!! xamari waaxid Laughing

xoogSADE14 · Post by **xoogSADE14** » Thu Sep 08, 2005 5:03 pm

am not reer xamar Laughing

mise waxii aan " aryee dee naw, ar ka beeyr" dhihin baad 'xamari' dhahdaan Smile

kambuli · Post by **kambuli** » Thu Sep 08, 2005 5:05 pm

I believe if a family have children(babies). The mother should raise them till at least they are 5 yrs. Ofcourse if only they can afford.

Western world is different from were our parents raised their kids. There were always help at home. Relatives and maids in the house.

But here men need to understand that you can't eat your cake and have it.
Moms can't be the bread winners and at the same time the sole care takers of all the household activities. Common sense.

Some men demand from their wife to do both. That is very very difficult. But then again there are few women who abuse their gentlemen. I saw a women even though she does not work at all, even though she stays at home all day long, who asks her husband to clean the house when he comes from his work very late. This is abuse...

Mochatanya · Post by **Mochatanya** » Thu Sep 08, 2005 5:57 pm

What is Beards talking about? SubxanAllah.

My first priority, inshaAllah is looking after my home--after all, if my husband is the breadwinner, and it is enough to manage everything I don't see the need to work for 'financial' gain as such. However, as soon as my kids were old enough to go in to preschool (I think pre school is important for kids, since they'll get used to being in a 'school' environment) inshaAllah I'd want to go and work, to exercise my mind and take a break from 'home-life'. Or if that wasn't possible, I'd set out to work once they were all in elementary school. That may take a awhile, especially if they are born years apart, but you children are far more important than your career- I couldn't abandon them as infants to pursue a career.

However, the purpose of getting a higher education isn't soley so that you can get a job- many see it that way, but to others it is just important that they were formally educated, and inshaAllah they can pass on their knowledge to their children, even if they don't manage to have a career.

However, we plan and plan but Allah is the best of Planners..

SOULJAH · Post by **SOULJAH** » Thu Sep 08, 2005 9:22 pm

All muslim women in the western world should be taken back to where they originally came from, and if they were born there, to where their parents came from. They beleive and talk so much shidh. In the meantime they should listen to somalisis.

As for the men, the likes of the screw should be flashed down da toilet.
Absulute waste of sperm.

"However, the purpose of getting a higher education isn't soley so that you can get a job- many see it that way, but to others it is just important that they were formally educated, and inshaAllah they can pass on their knowledge to their children, even if they don't manage to have a career.

However, we plan and plan but Allah is the best of Planners.."

Makes a LOT of sense Exclamation

Maasha'Allah, malagu qabaa walaal??

Post by **The-Screw** » Thu Sep 08, 2005 9:25 pm

i'll flush YOU down the Toilet you piece of Sh*t. you're telling me you wont let your wife go out and get a job if she has a degree? what the Fuck man... walahi i will beat the Crap out of you...F.ucking wife beater!

SOULJAH · Post by **SOULJAH** » Thu Sep 08, 2005 9:29 pm

Qaaaaaaaaaaaaq... Alla qadhaaadhaaa!

Halla murmin dadka kaa cilmiga badan asluubtiisa waseyohow bilaa bisinka lagu dhalay. Maxaa kuu diiday diintaada iyo dhaqankaaga?

Post by **The-Screw** » Thu Sep 08, 2005 9:32 pm

listen here old timer, this isn't 1963 you hear. this is 2005, you can't and you will not keep your wife locked in the house, she will get a license, she will get a car, she will get a job, she will earn an income, she will hang out with her friends and their kids, and she will not ask you for permission, if you touch her, i will be there to beat the F.ucking crap out of you.. Evil or Very Mad

SOULJAH · Post by **SOULJAH** » Thu Sep 08, 2005 9:40 pm

Is it my wife or yours you are talking about Question

Annagaa belaayo aragnay!

Demure · Post by **Demure** » Thu Sep 08, 2005 9:54 pm

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Me and my Halimo competing for the bathroom in the morning?!! a-aa- No way......[/quote].....

That's why they have his and hers vanity sinks, showers, toilets...etc actually believe it or not there's his and hers home packages the couple pretty much live on two adjoining properties!! So Lug there's an idea for you, all the space you could possibly need Wink

Back to the topic I agree with dhaga It really depends on the family circumstances, both of my parents always woked, my mother actually travelled alot, Dad used to take us to school. Personally speaking, I can't see myself staying home, if for whatever reason I have to become a stay home mom, I would probably establish an online business or something, something to occupy myself with, can't stay idle for long I will go nuts Evil or Very Mad

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