Allah guys, I think my cousin is is is is is INTERESTED in

[ManD333q]

eventhoght it's halal I wouldn't recommend it..they'll break the family apart if they ever divorce or have serious problems.

[Alphanumeric]

I think you're overreacting. If you grew up together being friendly, this should have been in mind and kept your distance as to avoid unwanted tension down the road. If you haven't grown up together and have only met a few times or haven't met at all, then you're obviously taking it harder than you should.

Be an adult about it.

[nomadicwarlord]

Kissing cousins

[Colonel]

I have hot cousins too (2nd/3rd) if I wasn't a young sheik I would have hit that on the regular.

[hipsterrunoff]

I have hot cousins too (2nd/3rd) if I wasn't a young sheik I would have hit that on the regular.

You're a sheik?

[mcali]

eventhoght it's halal I wouldn't recommend it..they'll break the family apart if they ever divorce or have serious problems.

thats a common excuse people.
bad marriages ruin strangers relations not family.

[Methylamine]

[mody21]

I remember my cousin had a little crush on me...but I shut that shit down cuz she was my first cousin and her family and mine were super close...if she was my 4rth of 5th cousin I dont know if I would have been soo strict.

[The_Patriot]

Tryone is ok for xalimos.
fornication is a good experience for xalimos.
Marrying is a big commitment and cousins are out of question.

Anigu the reason why I will not marry my cousin is nothing more than just to open a future opportunity for polygamy.

Just imagine you marry a second wife and your cousin wife says Hell no and wants a divorce?

If you divorce her its a 3 world war with your uncles.

So thats the only reason.

But to TBH my cousins are soo hot that I just wished they were never my cousins in the 1st place.

[Colonel]

I have hot cousins too (2nd/3rd) if I wasn't a young sheik I would have hit that on the regular.

You're a sheik?

couldn't you tell?

[hipsterrunoff]

I have hot cousins too (2nd/3rd) if I wasn't a young sheik I would have hit that on the regular.

You're a sheik?

couldn't you tell?

No

[hipsterrunoff]

Tryone is ok for xalimos.
fornication is a good experience for xalimos.
Marrying is a big commitment and cousins are out of question.
Anigu the reason why I will not marry my cousin is nothing more than just to open a future opportunity for polygamy.

Just imagine you marry a second wife and your cousin wife says Hell no and wants a divorce?

If you divorce her its a 3 world war with your uncles.

So thats the only reason.

But to TBH my cousins are soo hot that I just wished they were never my cousins in the 1st place.

You're obsessed with Somali women.

[Adali]

What culture are you talking about? Somali's marry first cousins all the time, it's quite common in Somalia.

maybe the Somalia your from, but not where I am from, it is acceptable but definitely not a normal occurrence, in fact in my grandfathers generation, you couldn't marry your 4-5th cousin, you just couldn't it was arin foolxun. but I know Somalia is diverse, Rer Xamars marry not only their first cousins for generations, but they marry the ones they grew up with in the same household and if you have ever gone Rer xamar house you see greatgrandfather living their and his descendants marrying each other like mad, we just don't consider that normal, I don't know if that is unique to Marehan, surely not.

idk maybe Mareehaan are different or something

But majority of Somali's no one blinks an eye if a person is marrying their cousin. It's considered normal and fine.

Reer xamar keep it strictly in the family lol

Actually its a norm in every qabil. I don't know where this Adali kid is from..but its caadi in Cabutwaaq.

horta inantaan xooba inee waalantahay baan moodey, I am from Caabudwaaq(btw: spell it correctly) and I am speaking on behalf of Reer Caabudwaaq when I say where I am from i'm referring to Caabudwaaq(unless I am talking about Kismaayo), In Caabudwaaq we do not marry first cousins it is looked down on, today is different because people just accept it but my grandfathers generation it was looked down on.

[ManD333q]

eventhoght it's halal I wouldn't recommend it..they'll break the family apart if they ever divorce or have serious problems.

thats a common excuse people.
bad marriages ruin strangers relations not family.

It's not an excuse I've seen it happen several times.

btw wlc back

[RovingMadness]

Its Xalaal but there is a taboo because it isn't really our culture to marry cousins or even same subclan, but it is permissible and people feel less constrained by culture as the religion takes prevalence, specially in the cities where there are many learned folk.

i have aunties like 2 3 years older than me and i get thoughts, bad thoughts

this is not Xalaal, and it is also not culture, OMFG its not even funny. its f-king disturbing shit. I have a young aunt(Habiyar) too and she is extremely attractive, but I could never think of her that way, she is like my mother subxanallah. This is so Xaram and wrong, Quraan halagu saaro shaydaan yahow .

Looooooooooooooool

ROFL