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this question TOTALLY depends on the value of each spouse, what are they bringing to the table. either way though, women should have already built a good foundation in cooking/cleaning from their younger days of serving their brothers and fathers/uncles. theres a thing called gender roles and although they have been changing in society somalis are definitely gonna be lagging behind in phenomona, so ladies don't be surprised when your husband is angry that you aren't cooking or cleaning.

@hipster i am 19 too

FAH1223 wrote: 19? i thought you were 23

Lol, nope. I think you have mistaken me with somebody else.

herndonhomer wrote:@hipster i am 19 too

Hern, you said you were 20 the other day.

I just wonder these girls who refuse to cook and clean for their husband, what they expect him to do for them...I'll bet they'll change their tune when he refuses to support their ass, fix their car, mow the lawn, shovel the driveway, etc.

hipsterrunoff wrote:

herndonhomer wrote:@hipster i am 19 too

Hern, you said you were 20 the other day.

you're good. you're really good. nice memory. but im actually turning 20 in a few months. i just wanted to sound older in that post i guess. 20 sounds a lot older than 19

Where's Sealion? Your "room-mate".

Sagaashan wrote:i guess i dont have to act young any more. im seeing people with ancient names, and writing gabayo and heeso i never witnessed, listened, or even heard about. the 'waxaan u soo joogay' is becoming more evident nowadays, maybe i am young afterall

This place is filled with liars. But, hey if it makes you feel better it's what age you think you're that counts.

hipsterrunoff wrote:
Aren't you an oday? How long are you waiting for this so called raaliyo, good girl? Take my advice, abti. Log off snet asap and go to Somalia. You will find your reer badiyo queen there.

I don't know why this chick keeps shooting @ me like i owe her childd support.

YouDontHaveToGo,

Wassup multinicker. Or should I say ___________ . Don't make me expose your dusty ass.

Are you blackmailing me? What is it you want? Sex? Shit, I didn't want to do you because you smell funny but if it means you will keep my big secret intact, then there is no choice. Is there?

This would not be an issue if parents actually taught both their boys and girls the importance of both genders. We are having this conversation for one reason and one reason alone. A large portion of men failed miserably to finish their higher education and find a job that supports their spouses and children. A good portion of men decided to rely on their mini-wages to maintain a family and at times completely neglect their religious, financial, and social duties as husbands and fathers, and instead force the government to support and provide for their children and wives.

Men who can not fulfill their Islamic responsibilities have no right to demand a woman that fulfills her "supposed" social roles. Let me make it clear to you men. In Islam it's the Islamic responsibility of a man to financially provide for his wife and children. As for the chores, it's not the religious obligation of women in Islam. Parents should focus on their sons a little bit more and drill in them the consequences of been a dead-beat husband and father.

So please worry about YOUR RELIGIOUS responsibilities, before arguing about the "SOCIAl" responsibility of women. Once you start fulfilling your religious obligations, women will gladly go into the kitchen and compete with each other, and maybe, JUST maybe even come up with something other than basto iyo barris.

Ma'Salaam

Maybe it's just me, but seems like there's quite a bit of bullshit in this thread. I unno.

ElfRuler wrote:In Islam it's the Islamic responsibility of a man to financially provide for his wife and children. As for the chores, it's not the religious obligation of women in Islam.

Come on, you can't expect your husband to financially provide for you and your kids and then cook for you?

FAH1223 wrote:

hipsterrunoff wrote:
Zulaika, I'm sorry that you're a middle aged housewives but you don't have to try and convince ever young, girl online to do the same as you.

she's probably like 5 years older than you

fah,

but being twice their age is a good thing don'tcha think?

hipster is a youngin, she's got plenty of growing to do....another work in progress

faraaxoos1 wrote:

YouDontHaveToGo wrote:

faraaxoos1 wrote: for someone who joined somalinet a week you know alot

Sxb didn't you get the information package when you joined? It has all the information you need.

Since Australia are sending refugees to Narau. When will New Zealand start doing it too?

ok this has to be fighter