Some pregnant women...

[BlackVelvet]

Salool me? Raaliyo? If I get a husband like this one, gladly



Aisha, it would be like daycare no? lol



It was nice trolling you ladies, I gotta run

[MujahidAishah]

Bloody hell and she wants more kids

[ManD333q]

@salol maybe the woman is ill, she might be depressed or something. Waxaas caadi maya.

[Enlightened~Sista]

BV you're way ahead of your time. I hope you get a nice husband who doesn't mind cooking and cleaning; otherwise God forbid bacda madoow ayaa banaanka laguu dhigayaa.

[PrinceDaadi]

ESista
We know we are not obligated to lift a finger, as muslimah we are to follow the mother of the believers and their adaab and cater to our husbands. No man wants a woman who isn't catering to his needs. If he gladly hires a maid for you, he will gladly eventually take her as a wife, because in his pysch the maid takes care of him. :lol:

This was lately happening in Kenya, most of the working women do hire a maid and after sometime it happens that husbands either marries the maid or sleeps with her around so a research was done and most of guys said a wife is 1 who cooks for you and irons you cloths so since the maid does the job she automatically becomes a wife.

[Enlightened~Sista]

They were stupid to even let a strange woman in their own homes.

[Marques]

@ this thread. Horta tan uurka leh maxay qabanee hadii wax kasta loo adeego,..calashaan qofka sariirtiis miyuu afar iyo labaatan saac joogi karaa waaba yaabb

[Hyperactive]

well, khadamad ba ka rakheesan, why bother marrying!!

[SummerRain]

well, khadamad ba ka rakheesan, why bother marrying!!

Why are your views on marriage so negative? And for starters, as a human being we have needs to fulfill that a khadamah can't help with.


E_S, if as you say we shouldn't let any woman let into our homes, and you also don't want to do any of your wifey chores (as they are not an abligation), what is the solution?

[SummerRain]

ESista
We know we are not obligated to lift a finger, as muslimah we are to follow the mother of the believers and their adaab and cater to our husbands. No man wants a woman who isn't catering to his needs. If he gladly hires a maid for you, he will gladly eventually take her as a wife, because in his pysch the maid takes care of him. :lol:

This was lately happening in Kenya, most of the working women do hire a maid and after sometime it happens that husbands either marries the maid or sleeps with her around so a research was done and most of guys said a wife is 1 who cooks for you and irons you cloths so since the maid does the job she automatically becomes a wife.

Mac sonkor to those lazy women. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out stuff like that is bound to happen.

[Hyperactive]

ismahan, sister life thought me .

marriage is not my thing lately from what i saw in courts and from people.

[Enlightened~Sista]

Ismahan I don't know how any woman can let a strange woman live under the same roof as her and her husband. I remember the hadith that says the 'brother in law' is death.Lol from what my Pakistani friend told me, it is certainly true. Shes told me of cases where it led to adulterous relations in Asian homes.

Btw I just get pissed when my sisters are not pulling their weight. I don't mind serving male relatives, I just don't clean up after them or clean their rooms and they know better than to leave dirty dishes and pots in the kitchen.

[BlackVelvet]

BV you're way ahead of your time. I hope you get a nice husband who doesn't mind cooking and cleaning; otherwise God forbid bacda madoow ayaa banaanka laguu dhigayaa.

Niceness is overrated. If he's a liability he'll receive the divorce papers by courier, no need for ghettoness

[zulaika]

Oh salol... unless u walk in those mismatched shoes...dont judge huuno

to the mothers in here who know what it's like to be dear mamma...u r appreciated

Or play some pac.."if dont no body else cares"