Non Somali, wanting to Marry a Somali Girl

[Magnusomalius]

Seriously ?

[X.Playa]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pederasty

[Magnusomalius]

, okay thanks , waxaan u jeeday ma waxan baad maanta na sheeko inooga dhigteen .

Hey mr YLibiya , I have once tried to approach a mulatto looking lybian girl on facebook who I thought was very charming , she fuc,kin ignored me , can you believe that ? life still goes on man up !

[DANGIRL]

Racists shouldn't be reasoned with zamindawari.

I am not for generally disobeying your father's wishes but you have to do what is right sometimes. It's against Islam. Plain and simple. If your parents become non-Muslims and force you to follow their ways, will you follow them? No. So why should you follow them when they engage in non-Islamic nonsense? If you give in to his demands, you are basically accepting racism. Racism is not allowed in Islam. It has more to do with standing up for the religion and less to do with disobeying the father.

zamindawari, here is one quality you should know about Somalis. Many like to pick and choose parts of the religion, for example exhibited here on this thread. People against interracial marriages. But 5 minutes later, you will see them supporting or rejecting something that islam also supports or rejects. Whatever suits them.

Once again, burn in hell you piece of shit.

[TheAspiringMufti]

zamin,

Assalamu alaikum wa rahmutallahi wa barakat,

Brother I noticed you are an advocate of Hanafi madhab? As you know most Somalis follow Imaam Shaafi (ra) and of course the father's permission is a prerequisite to marriage. Did you know Imam Hanifah (ra) said to follow the sunnah if anything he said is to be contradictory to Islam? Anyways, I enjoy your posts and hope your immigration to Afghanistan is full of ajr verily hijrah is the sunnah of the blessed Rasuul (SAW)

[zamindawari]

Lay off this extremist drivel no wonder in your country you have the Dancing Hairless Boys, with this "flower guarding Arab obsession" no wonder your hairy sister cant find a man unless her daddy find for for her. There is no shame in a woman going out in the world finding here mate, or a man. This Salafi craze of yours doesn't work in the real world. In Afghanistan its obvious this women-watching-guarding culture impeded the progress of your womenfolk , so its obvious its n't working.

So what if you take a woman to lunch , 99% of human relations begins with secrets , no man goes to the father without seen the daughter and says i want your daughter , unless you are living in 5th century Arabia, even in Arabia what you read in these Salafi books is further from the truth, most men and women meet somehow and after lengthy relationship decide to marry or go apart. Not seen the woman , not talking to her , and not even hearing her voice is not a healthy culture, and thats why in Afghanistan and Saudi Arabia bacha bazi is almost cultural.

It seems you have a rather Western leaning perspective so perhaps you will appreciate this English expression more than my quoting of Quran or hadith. It says, "it is better to remain silent and be thought of as a fool than to open one's mouth and remove all doubt." Beyond this, Rasulullah (SAW) has advised us against idle talk and this is all that your post consists of so I don't feel at liberty to respond. Anyone with even minimal degree of cultural knowledge of Afghanistan knows that bacha bazi is almost entirely confined to the northern regions inhabited by Uzbeks and Tajiks, this was completely alien to Pashtuns until imported to Kandahar by Tajiks in the past 100 years. Beyond this, it is apparent that you have absolutely no realistic knowledge of what defines a Salafi or of Islam in general. I am a Hanafi talib upon the Deobandi manhaj and Maturidi aqeedah. You need 1-2 years of comparative analysis of Islam, the differences in aqeedah, manhaj, basic comparative knowledge of fiqh - then you will understand what this means and how my views contrast with the Salafiyyah. In brief, it means that I couldn't be ideologically farther from a Salafi but thanks for playing.

[zamindawari]

zamin,

Assalamu alaikum wa rahmutallahi wa barakat,

Brother I noticed you are an advocate of Hanafi madhab? As you know most Somalis follow Imaam Shaafi (ra) and of course the father's permission is a prerequisite to marriage. Did you know Imam Hanifah (ra) said to follow the sunnah if anything he said is to be contradictory to Islam? Anyways, I enjoy your posts and hope your immigration to Afghanistan is full of ajr verily hijrah is the sunnah of the blessed Rasuul (SAW)

Jazakallahu khairun for your kind words and I had forgotten the command of Imam Hanifah (RA) on this issue, thank you for bringing it up. It certainly poses an issue to much of the ulema who, in spite of what you quoted, still maintain rulings that are in technical contravention of the Sunnah. I will bring this up to my ustadh tomorrow.

[X.Playa]

Lay off this extremist drivel no wonder in your country you have the Dancing Hairless Boys, with this "flower guarding Arab obsession" no wonder your hairy sister cant find a man unless her daddy find for for her. There is no shame in a woman going out in the world finding here mate, or a man. This Salafi craze of yours doesn't work in the real world. In Afghanistan its obvious this women-watching-guarding culture impeded the progress of your womenfolk , so its obvious its n't working.

So what if you take a woman to lunch , 99% of human relations begins with secrets , no man goes to the father without seen the daughter and says i want your daughter , unless you are living in 5th century Arabia, even in Arabia what you read in these Salafi books is further from the truth, most men and women meet somehow and after lengthy relationship decide to marry or go apart. Not seen the woman , not talking to her , and not even hearing her voice is not a healthy culture, and thats why in Afghanistan and Saudi Arabia bacha bazi is almost cultural.

It seems you have a rather Western leaning perspective so perhaps you will appreciate this English expression more than my quoting of Quran or hadith. It says, "it is better to remain silent and be thought of as a fool than to open one's mouth and remove all doubt." Beyond this, Rasulullah (SAW) has advised us against idle talk and this is all that your post consists of so I don't feel at liberty to respond. Anyone with even minimal degree of cultural knowledge of Afghanistan knows that bacha bazi is almost entirely confined to the northern regions inhabited by Uzbeks and Tajiks, this was completely alien to Pashtuns until imported to Kandahar by Tajiks in the past 100 years. Beyond this, it is apparent that you have absolutely no realistic knowledge of what defines a Salafi or of Islam in general. I am a Hanafi talib upon the Deobandi manhaj and Maturidi aqeedah. You need 1-2 years of comparative analysis of Islam, the differences in aqeedah, manhaj, basic comparative knowledge of fiqh - then you will understand what this means and how my views contrast with the Salafiyyah. In brief, it means that I couldn't be ideologically farther from a Salafi but thanks for playing.

Utter non sense Pashtun land has always been the center of " boy love " culture, Kandahar been the most extreme . Regardless of its origin its cause is obvious and its due to the hellish restriction of women in Asiatic culture be the Arabs or their side kicks the Persians and their colonial subject , Turks, Uzbeks, Tajik etc. There is homosexuality in the west or pedophilia but in Asiatic culture there is no clear cut differentiation between these sexual deviancy. In your culture and that of Persians , Turks and Arabs this culture resembles the prison rape culture where a wolf dominates and rapes a weaker victim and its due to the lack of women in prison and access of normal heterosexual sex and its the same in your country the lack of women due to this Salafi culture substituted boys for women .

[zamindawari]

[eliteSomali]

If the father said NO, you're pretty much at a dead end because there is no halaal way to get passed that. Move on son.

[eliteSomali]

Zamindawari: Why are you engaging with a man who bows down to a statue of Buddha? You're wasting your time because the kufr is strong in this one.

Let him be.