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Re: Am i wrong? Friends sister is divorced

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Most can't afford the meher they quote but still want to get married, so they agree to this deal...

You know the diin better than I do, but from what I understand most Somali marriages (the ones that go this route) aren't Islamically valid.
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well, inahadeths, you have to give the woman even silver ring! means you have to give her something. but how he cannot afford mahr? cause mahr isnt set amount. is whatever man can afford that woman agrees. even if he affords $100 he has to give her. why to agree something you cannot afford?

i only heard somalis agree mahr as tofaah, or teach me quran, give me kitab etc. which is valid if both sides agree but the whole point is the woman to get financial gain.
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Never. Never.
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Never indeed. :lol:
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what is this mehr he has to pay now that he divorced his wife? ant the mehr money given the bride when the nikax happens? :?
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I don't care how lonely my life gets. I don't. I will never do this to myself. I'd rather divulge every whim and thought that crosses my mind than settle for... this.

Never.
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Alphanumeric wrote:I don't care how lonely my life gets. I don't. I will never do this to myself. I'd rather divulge every whim and thought that crosses my mind than settle for... this.

Never.
amen to that.

FahanYare, this is what i dont understand, meta, needs to explain to us. miyo tolow ka deyn sadey mahrki!
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Alphanumeric wrote:I don't care how lonely my life gets. I don't. I will never do this to myself. I'd rather divulge every whim and thought that crosses my mind than settle for... this.

Never.
Yep :up:
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inoo iscebeyo to his former inlaws ma aheen. waa maxay am gonna pay the mehr money out of the child's benefit, nigger pay it off from your own benefit, better yet get a job.
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FAH1223 wrote:
Alphanumeric wrote:I don't care how lonely my life gets. I don't. I will never do this to myself. I'd rather divulge every whim and thought that crosses my mind than settle for... this.

Never.
Yep :up:
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^
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:dead:
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:lol:
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Looool
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