Best rate for mehr?

[BuuloXubeey]

We were married 2005-2010 so 5 years. I doubt it has anything with evil eyes though we used to think that. Things changed when she became pregnant and when our daughter turned 4 we divorced.

keep your head up mate, xaliimos this days are heartbreakers

Thanks saxib

[Ismail87]

Waar BuuloXubeey qofkan secretagent la dhaho inuusan caadi ahayn lama socotid? Waa mid waalan oo buufis iyo belo oo dhan qabee afaarahaaga ka ilaasho.

[Lillaahiya]

I'd prefer land. Dhowr iyo toban baloodh iyo dayirkiisa igu yaraan weeye sheekada.


Jokes aside, asking for a ridic meher is never a good idea. The husband will resent his wife when she's unable to cook a proper meal after he spent 15k for dowry. The more spent on meher, the higher the expectations. Best to just ask him what he can afford and negotiate from there.

p.s. Somali brides hardly ever get their meher. It's usually taken by her fam to finance the wedding or buy her dahab/dress There are even families who just use up the meher for themselves There is a girl in my city who agreed not to have a wedding/party and just have the men's qado & aqal gal. The guy paid her meher in full, and he also furnished the base they were gonna move into. A week before the official nikaax, she tells her fiance that she wants a wedding & aroos la'aan ma aqal galayso. An argument ensued and the guy said he didn't appreciate her switching up on him and that maybe it wasn't a good idea not to go through with the entire marriage. Lacagteeda i soo celi ayuu idhi, ayadana shilin kamaa hayso. She never ended up paying back the money either.

[SecretAgent]

Loooooooool y didn't da parents return da guys money bak or he should have never given her da money instead keep it till da wedding happens idiot poor guy he got hustled nicely! I bet he's issaq bloody cunt

[STARKAST]

Loooooooool y didn't da parents return da guys money bak or he should have never given her da money instead keep it till da wedding happens idiot poor guy he got hustled nicely! I bet he's issaq bloody cunt

jk

[CushiticReflections]

lol @ "current going rate".

I have no idea. I don't care either way so I'll let my parents decide.

But the Mahr is not for your parents, it is for you. So how much $$$ would you like for your Mahr?

I know but I wouldn't care. My entire family would probably be outraged but I wouldn't care if he didn't pay mehr. I'd let them decide the price and then I'd haggle down as low as possible before presenting the amount to him. I wouldn't allow the price to go above the cost of the wedding and I want as small and cheap a wedding as possible.

[Ismail87]

lol @ "current going rate".

I have no idea. I don't care either way so I'll let my parents decide.

But the Mahr is not for your parents, it is for you. So how much $$$ would you like for your Mahr?

I know but I wouldn't care. My entire family would probably be outraged but I wouldn't care if he didn't pay mehr. I'd let them decide the price and then I'd haggle down as low as possible before presenting the amount to him. I wouldn't allow the price to go above the cost of the wedding and I want as small and cheap a wedding as possible.

I have been looking for you everywhere.

[SultanOrder]

I'd prefer land. Dhowr iyo toban baloodh iyo dayirkiisa igu yaraan weeye sheekada.


Jokes aside, asking for a ridic meher is never a good idea. The husband will resent his wife when she's unable to cook a proper meal after he spent 15k for dowry. The more spent on meher, the higher the expectations. Best to just ask him what he can afford and negotiate from there.

p.s. Somali brides hardly ever get their meher. It's usually taken by her fam to finance the wedding or buy her dahab/dress There are even families who just use up the meher for themselves There is a girl in my city who agreed not to have a wedding/party and just have the men's qado & aqal gal. The guy paid her meher in full, and he also furnished the base they were gonna move into. A week before the official nikaax, she tells her fiance that she wants a wedding & aroos la'aan ma aqal galayso. An argument ensued and the guy said he didn't appreciate her switching up on him and that maybe it wasn't a good idea not to go through with the entire marriage. Lacagteeda i soo celi ayuu idhi, ayadana shilin kamaa hayso. She never ended up paying back the money either.

Ina lilah, gabadha yay aheed? Ceebta reerkaas raacdo iyo ayadaba, illa yawmawl qiymaaha kama harayso. Hadey marexaan ahaan laheed oo seattle ku dhacday, bil dhan wajigay somali ma tusi laheen

[Lillaahiya]

This happened 2 years ago and she recently got hitched.

[SultanOrder]

Sometimes, mar mar wallaahi baan ku dhaaran karaa some women jiniyaal ama sixir bay ku shaqayaaan

[Lillaahiya]

Nin lamaa waayo walaal. Has nothing to do with sixir/jin.

[Rabshoole]

For 25K she better be a dime and than some, with a built in flatscreen on her back
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Reasonable amount any where from 3-8k.

[SultanOrder]

walle anigu illaa lacagta u soo celiso ma meheri laheen. Ka waran hadaa suuqa lagugu mariyo inaad ninkale meherkiisa ku guursatay

[BuuloXubeey]

Guys if a girl troubles you with meher she is not worth it. She don't love you. Dump her ass if u debate with each other about meher alot.

[Lillaahiya]

Everyone knows her fam used the money. Ceeb looma dhinto.