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You realize feelings of loneliness are subjective. You can feel alone while you are in a relationship or if you are single. That's merely a state of mind. Intermittent single status happens throughout life - during childhood, because of circumstance i.e. divorce, widowed, haven't found what you're looking for etc. That response was from my vantage point and I spoke for myself at that moment. What I find it amusing is that you overlooked my reply before that one, which was very neutral and self-effacing. SMH.

i say, mind your own business people.

Do keep us up dated please markey xaaska koowad soo ogaato bal sheekadan sidey kayeesho.

I was so intrigued by the disparate responses that I was moved to contact my friend this evening.
So I can now update the thread....and perhaps answer some of the questions raised earlier.

They are not actually married.....but are considering it....and yes they're sharing intimacies.
She was married and has two kids...she threw her husband out some years ago.
Her backside is "as big as a sofa"...and one of her bosoms, "are as big as my head".
She is uninhibited and enjoys it all....doing things his wife would divorce him if he tried it at home.
Furthermore....she has a sister in a similar predicament if I'm interested.


Now I'm neither condoning or condemning them....I'm merely reporting the changing face of Somali's abroad.
PS Apparently....Asda (Park Royal) is where a lot of these women are picked up after doing their shopping.

Lool OD qosol gariir aa igu riday.

original dervish wrote:Her backside is "as big as a sofa"...and one of her bosoms, "are as big as my head".

original dervish wrote:She is uninhibited and enjoys it all....doing things his wife would divorce him if he tried it at home.

original dervish wrote:Furthermore....she has a sister in a similar predicament if I'm interested.

OD,
So let me get this right: he didn't wed her because the single mother opted for this uncomplicated arrangement

original dervish wrote:I was so intrigued by the disparate responses that I was moved to contact my friend this evening.
So I can now update the thread....and perhaps answer some of the questions raised earlier.

They are not actually married.....but are considering it....and yes they're sharing intimacies.
She was married and has two kids...she threw her husband out some years ago.
Her backside is "as big as a sofa"...and one of her bosoms, "are as big as my head".
She is uninhibited and enjoys it all....doing things his wife would divorce him if he tried it at home.
Furthermore....she has a sister in a similar predicament if I'm interested.


Now I'm neither condoning or condemning them....I'm merely reporting the changing face of Somali's abroad.
PS Apparently....Asda (Park Royal) is where a lot of these women are picked up after doing their shopping.

Lool at Asda Park Royal, I was there last Monday. So it is a hook up joint for lonely souls shopping for illicit encounters.

He is committing adultery and she is party to this. Nothing surprising among Somalis in the diaspora. Many divorced women that are not God fearing have the freedom to satisfy their lusts without condemnation from society as they are financially independent and do not need a man except for carnal matters. It is also a win win situation for men that are also not God fearing and want sex no strings attached that does not involve courtship. I have come across men that prefer these type of women to others that are younger and have no children. Personally, why seek see sex from a woman with children, do they not feel any guilt when they look into the eyes of the woman's children?!

Farah's perspectives: Marriage is based on KACSI rather than fulfilling what has been promised.

Zummale.....you couldn't be more right.
It's a convenient arrangement that suits both parties....however, I would say they're considering getting married...so I guess they're feeling guilty.

Waa uun "Call Girl" mese "Call Woman"...Zina fowqal Zina!

Secret somali wife? That is impossible nowadays. They will tell you it is a secret before you agree to it, but as soon as your tie the knot, it is public goods and you are on the doorsteps of hell.

IThe honourable institution of Qodobsiro, which was shrouded in secrecy is dead.

A friend told me once, that a lady agreed him to have Qudbisir with him, after 3 months he heard from the town. When he confronted her she was like:
" Haddee anigu ma naag qarsoomi karta ayaan ahay".
I was like " Mac Sonkor Caleen Shaah"!!!!

why woman agrees to this!! clearly, wo ko meelgaari.

maybe he is rich and wey ko meel gaari too.

hyperactive wrote:why woman agrees to this!! clearly, wo ko meelgaari.

maybe he is rich and wey ko meel gaari too.

The title is misleading.Od mentioned they are not married.Just a woman he is sleeping with while he cheats on his wife. Some women who have their own lives and are financially better off will do it.They dont need a provider just someone to sleep with.


What is crazy abt this things is;this man met a random woman and God knows how many other men she has been with.Whatever messed up disease who gets from this affair will harm his innocent wife.So fair.