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BlackVelvet wrote:Marring a woman so she can cook and reproduce, did not see that one coming

Crazy women of today.

So you want to keep your entire income for yourself and make him pay for all the expenses but you have a problem with those sucker men to expect their wives to cook and reproduce?

If you're not helping at all, what's the point? The men have become suckers. I bet you that guy OP is talking about is paying all the bills

I am,

Abdi "Somali girls today are useless" Johnson

AbdiJohnson wrote:

BlackVelvet wrote:Marring a woman so she can cook and reproduce, did not see that one coming

Crazy women of today.

So you want to keep your entire income for yourself and make him pay for all the expenses but you have a problem with those sucker men to expect their wives to cook and reproduce?

If you're not helping at all, what's the point? The men have become suckers. I bet you that guy OP is talking about is paying all the bills

I am,

Abdi "Somali girls today are useless" Johnson

this.

I don't get feminists like BV for reals. A man and a women got responsibilities. Diintu waxey leedahay the man is responsible for paying the bills and providing for the family. Naagta waajibka saaran waxaa waaye to take care of the kids and cook even if the women works she can do whatever she want for her cash. She aint responsible for paying bills,food and all that. So if BV is against taking care of kids and cooking dee marka rules ka diinta bey kaso hor jeeda.

However if she wants to be part of paying all the bills and shit then it's fair if her man cooks and takes care of the kids as well.

Warsheekh wrote:

AbdiJohnson wrote:

BlackVelvet wrote:Marring a woman so she can cook and reproduce, did not see that one coming

Crazy women of today.

So you want to keep your entire income for yourself and make him pay for all the expenses but you have a problem with those sucker men to expect their wives to cook and reproduce?

If you're not helping at all, what's the point? The men have become suckers. I bet you that guy OP is talking about is paying all the bills

I am,

Abdi "Somali girls today are useless" Johnson

this.

I don't get feminists like BV for reals. A man and a women got responsibilities. Diintu waxey leedahay the man is responsible for paying the bills and providing for the family. Naagta waajibka saaran waxaa waaye to take care of the kids and cook even if the women works she can do whatever she want for her cash. She aint responsible for paying bills,food and all that. So if BV is against taking care of kids and cooking dee marka rules ka diinta bey kaso hor jeeda.

Do u cook? Do u act like your gender? Nope right? U r a tom boy.

bye basra

They have been together for awhile before they got hitched. That means dude knew everything there is to know about his lady.

I am not buying the "she doesn't want kids" or "she can't cook" bs. How is it possible you don't know those basic info about your partner?

Is he a retard? Wtf.

Beentaan dacas haloo geliyo. Best of luck to both.

Warsheekh wrote:bye basra

AbdiJohnson wrote:

BlackVelvet wrote:Marring a woman so she can cook and reproduce, did not see that one coming

Crazy women of today.

So you want to keep your entire income for yourself and make him pay for all the expenses but you have a problem with those sucker men to expect their wives to cook and reproduce?

If you're not helping at all, what's the point? The men have become suckers. I bet you that guy OP is talking about is paying all the bills

I am,

Abdi "Somali girls today are useless" Johnson

I feel like we've gone back to "So she earns more than you"



Nothing has been said about their finances. For all you know she could be working longer hours than him.

Warsheekh wrote:So if BV is against taking care of kids and cooking dee marka rules ka diinta bey kaso hor jeeda.

I am not against anything. Plenty of women find joy in doing these things and that's good for them. But do not use Islam to justify you forcing women into this box. It is abhorrent and people like you are the reason there are so many young Muslims leaving the religion

i'm not forcing anyone sxb. It's really simple if i go to work working my ass off just to provide for my fam i expect to come home getting served a nice meal with respect. I wouldn't let my woman work a day in her life i'd get her anything she wants.

Hey it's true tho what i said about Islam. If i as man can't provide for my wife and pay the bills etc. Why get married in the first place?

Women arent obligated in Islam to cook and clean, or wash her husbands clothes. If she does this, it will only be only for her (ileeyn everything good we do, we do it for the sake of Allah and want to be rewarded by the Almighty).

Warsheekh wrote:i'm not forcing anyone sxb. It's really simple if i go to work working my ass off just to provide for my fam i expect to come home getting served a nice meal with respect. I wouldn't let my woman work a day in her life i'd get her anything she wants.

Hey it's true tho what i said about Islam. If i as man can't provide for my wife and pay the bills etc. Why get married in the first place?

U r morbidly obese. U barely leave your flat! What r u talking about?

Warsheekh there is nothing wrong with what you want, just marry a female who wants the same thing. There are plenty who don't want to work a day in their lives.

However do not extrapolate your interpretation of marriage to everyone else. Some men wouldn't want a woman who sits at home all day and some women don't want a man who expects them to. Islam is not there in nolosha dadka lagu cariiriyo. Ilaahey ka cabso before you start preaching and potentially being that last push for someone already on the edge, dambigaas qorta hayska saarin

Xamud. wrote:I seriously feel sorry for all these brothers who rush into marriage, I mean there's no need to rush it, you need to make sure that this person is the right person for you before you spend a fortune.


Naag aan ilmo rabin maxu ku falaya? advo if you're his real friend ninka naagta ka fur, I'm usually against in la dheex galo dadka is qabo, laakin this case waa emergency.

Makula tahay she will tell him right off the bat--- no kids & and no cooking. hahaha i think role reverse baa socoto waxaa jiiri jirtay naag been ku soo xarey ruuna ku daqo, hada sounds like xarfanta did just that

BlackVelvet wrote:Warsheekh there is nothing wrong with what you want, just marry a female who wants the same thing. There are plenty who don't want to work a day in their lives.

However do not extrapolate your interpretation of marriage to everyone else. Some men wouldn't want a woman who sits at home all day and some women don't want a man who expects them to. Islam is not there in nolosha dadka lagu cariiriyo. Ilaahey ka cabso before you start preaching and potentially being that last push for someone already on the edge, dambigaas qorta hayska saarin

Fair enough.

Warsheekh wrote:

AbdiJohnson wrote:

BlackVelvet wrote:Marring a woman so she can cook and reproduce, did not see that one coming

Crazy women of today.

So you want to keep your entire income for yourself and make him pay for all the expenses but you have a problem with those sucker men to expect their wives to cook and reproduce?

If you're not helping at all, what's the point? The men have become suckers. I bet you that guy OP is talking about is paying all the bills

I am,

Abdi "Somali girls today are useless" Johnson

this.

I don't get feminists like BV for reals. A man and a women got responsibilities. Diintu waxey leedahay the man is responsible for paying the bills and providing for the family. Naagta waajibka saaran waxaa waaye to take care of the kids and cook even if the women works she can do whatever she want for her cash. She aint responsible for paying bills,food and all that. So if BV is against taking care of kids and cooking dee marka rules ka diinta bey kaso hor jeeda.

However if she wants to be part of paying all the bills and shit then it's fair if her man cooks and takes care of the kids as well.

Poor feminists don't even realize that mainstream feminism is a front to promote cadaan western liberalism.

She should have not just assumed he is one of those people who don't wanna have kids. There are plenty who don't want kids, it is a case of wrong person, wrong place and wrong time for both of them. Am sorry divorce is imminent unless she gives in something she holds very dear (the idea of gablanlimo whilst married)