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BV, I do not agree with insulting xalimos at all or creating pointless threads to attract attention like some of our unnamed members do because it is counterproductive.

I defend the right to call a spade a spade if the subject of how Somali females are more likely to engage in self hate is brought up in a healthy discussion about what ails our diaspora community.

It used to be very bad couple of years ago and then they put a stop to it ..but now it seems to be getting to preban levels again.

Look at these guys gulping down what their colleagues are telling them gladly without question.

DANGIRL wrote:

Estarix wrote: Dangirl really gets to you with these jokes doesnt she.

I dont really say much about whom anyone chooses to copulate with.
But im concerned with the permeation of feminine values into the new generation of somali females. You will find me criticizing these hippie social activist xalimos because i oppose the message that they spread. i'm also opposed to the militant " pro Black campaigning" social activist (largely also composed of xalimos) but that's for another day.

Don't get me started on those twitter hoes now. Don't.

Dangirl, i would say you are our only hope, if the situation wasnt hopeless

Cherine wrote:It used to be very bad couple of years ago and then they put a stop to it ..but now it seems to be getting to preban levels again.

Look at these guys gulping down what their colleagues are telling them gladly without question.

I can't imagine an ajnabi girl having the guts to go to a Somali girl with that BS

BlackVelvet wrote:

Estarix wrote:
Dangirl really gets to you with these jokes doesnt she.

I dont really say much about whom anyone chooses to copulate with.
But im concerned with the permeation of feminine values into the new generation of somali females. You will find me criticizing these hippie social activist xalimos because i oppose the message that they spread. i'm also opposed to the militant " pro Black campaigning" social activist (largely also composed of xalimos) but that's for another day.

She definitely gets me curious since she's a fellow Somali woman. I don't think this is my first time asking why she says such things but she never gives me an answer

We are a collectivistic society thrust into an individualist one, the cracks are starting to show. My single point that I don't want us drifting from is to agree that insulting Somali women in general on SomaliNet shouldn't be condoned and in deed throwing casual insults towards the men shouldn't either

BV. i agree most with the point you made which i think explains why these things happen and why we respond this way:

we are a collectivist society thrust into an individualist one, the cracks are starting to show

I think we are in the heart of a struggle between two incompattible cultural influences, the somali one and the western one - which we are exposed to everyday.
I think it's a matter of the fact that
1) debauchery and ethnic disloyalty (im not conflating the two) happens regardless of what society you live in.
2) we need to mentally adapt, we need to cease judging people collectively because some or many assimilated Somalis (whom are reallly outlier in the grand scheme of things) commit behaviour that's unrepresentative of the wider group.
3) However i do think trends need to be highlighted and discuss in a civil manner. For example the issue with xalimos signing up to getting married en masse through the mosuque registrations to people of dubious background.

War dumarka somaliyed ayaga isku cayarey, in laceyo wey fiicantahay waxaa laga yaba markaas iney isku xishoodan ee ajanabiga ee ka daba ordayaan ee dhafaan hadii kale ee sii sharafleh oo guursadan. Inta badan ghabdhoyashaan niimanka ee kadaba ordayaan ayaga isku qasba niimanka neh we iskaga cayaraan inta badan ee sii sharaf leh iney oo guursadan ee ka dhigtaan marwo ma rabyaan.

Hadii gabdhahaan laga amuuso wexey suubinayaan wax fiican aye oo maleynayaan. Lakiin Ina ajanabi meel ee iimankaraan ghabdhahena kuceyno waa khalad.

BlackVelvet wrote:

Cherine wrote:It used to be very bad couple of years ago and then they put a stop to it ..but now it seems to be getting to preban levels again.

Look at these guys gulping down what their colleagues are telling them gladly without question.

I can't imagine an ajnabi girl having the guts to go to a Somali girl with that BS

BV, men talk about sexual exploits casually and many non Muslims ethnics/cadaans are not aware of how much it injures old skool Somalis when they comment on our Somali females.

I am a realist, shit happens and I sure will not be offended or white knight if a non Somali guy tells me in a random ciyaal suuq conversation about his past conquests. Seen too much to overcome the effects it had on me when was I a naive soul. Now, it is all about being concerned with your ilk and nothing more.

What caused offence in that particular example is that she chose to attack her menfolk? Maybe she had a few bad experiences or lost her virginity to a Somali player that played her like a fool? Still, it does not excuse her actions.

Cherine, sis, what would I gain from lying about an encounter that a colleague that I work with had with a Somali female?

Zumaale I'm not asking you to white knight for the girls but a man telling you something like that is blatant disrespect towards you. If it happens again don't stand for it and you will feel much better

Estarix wrote:xalimos signing up to getting married en masse through the mosuque registrations to people of dubious background.

They were discussing this on Universal. I agree that there are topics that are worth discussing, it's all about how you do it

SiennaEarth wrote:Lakiin Ina ajanabi meel ee iimankaraan ghabdhahena kuceyno waa khalad.

Sax! Exactly

Chivalry where art thou? Femininity and decency where art thou? Nowadays there"s no class at all

BV, if he was a complete stranger that I thought had a bone to pick with Somalis I would have taken it as an insult. However, like I said, I am well acquainted with this guy and he was himself shocked at why someone would castigate their own so much. I was not because some Somali women have a history of bad mouthing Somalis to ajnabis.

Great points ladies.

Zumaale, I know you have always been one of my favorites, and even your dark humor is funny at times. You are not part of this problem, as BV mentioned, and I thank you for that.

BlackVelvet wrote:Zumaale I'm not asking you to white knight for the girls but a man telling you something like that is blatant disrespect towards you. If it happens again don't stand for it and you will feel much better

Exactly
The guy is a cunt for thinking it's okay to so much as inch towards the direction of someone just to tell them stuff that will be injurious to them.

^

Good thread BV .

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