Marrying back home - what's your view?

[Hyperactive]

wallah my blood boils when this social injust happens to miskeen girls in poor countries.

now old men their 50+ marrying poor syrian kids , saying, they doing favor for them!! how many young guys, educated cannot afford to marry. if you so generious why not give money to these youth and marry them , istead you already married 2 go marry 17 years old cause they are poor and you clearly taking advantage of them!

other one is one of the mothers takes her mental ill son his late 20s to Adan, yeman... marries him 15 years old from disadvantage family . rents house , lives with them to make sure his son takes his medication..... had a kid. couldnt hold up any more. girls's family asked her daughter to be divoirced and they gave to kid to them. since couldnt feed their daugh can they with grand kid!!

social injustice at worst. and worse it's sicially excepted and not shunned!

[GAMES]

Wait, 50yr olds are marrying 18yr olds...? Thats really disturbing.

[Hyperactive]

yeah taking advantage of syrian refugee by mmarrying girls as young as 16 and 17!
it's easy to play religion card when suits to some and act like they doing a favor for the girls and families!!

if this is true why not give that money to the family and leave them with their daughters!! old man! do not try to lie on my face when you damn know it's your pvert mentality and no goodness in you!!

[Itrah]

Women from Somalia can't find good jobs in the West. You need two incomes to be upper-middle class in the West. Stay away from those women. Plus you have to send her relatives a lot of money. It is a financial drain compared to marrying a Westernized woman.

[GAMES]

I totally agree with you sxb, not to mention men who father children at 50+ are at risk for their kids being born with all kinda disability and behavioral issues.

[Inaayah]

I totally agree with you sxb, not to mention men who father children at 50+ are at risk for their kids being born with all kinda disability and behavioral issues.

You're parents didn't have you at 50+ hadana soota wax ka si ah.

[Hyperactive]

Women from Somalia can't find good jobs in the West. You need two incomes to be upper-middle class in the West. Stay away from those women. Plus you have to send her relatives a lot of money. It is a financial drain compared to marrying a Westernized woman.

all you think is money man!! it's the baraka in it not the amount. there are people richer than i am and try to hussle me with car lease payments...deposit payment for car or house!

if you keep it real and live with your meaning... you can get far in life.

[GAMES]

Inaayah, its true. There has been alot of research done to know that.

For women they shouldn't have kids after 35yrs, because their eggs breakdown and degrades.

And for men its recommended that they shouldn't have kids past 50yrs, because the quality of the sperm is not good.

Its all in the Internet, Google it Abaayo.

[Itrah]

all you think is money man!! it's the baraka in it not the amount. there are people richer than i am and try to hussle me with car lease payments...deposit payment for car or house!

if you keep it real and live with your meaning... you can get far in life.

You got to think of the long term.

[Hyperactive]

then we all somalis came from bad quality sperms.lol

my grandpa maybe kept having kids when he was his 90s.

[Itrah]

then we all somalis came from bad quality sperms.lol

my grandpa maybe kept having kids when he was his 90s.

the mutation rate is relatively low, even in old dudes.

it's equivalent to winning the jackpot in a lottery, very low chance. same with old men fathering children, there's a very low chance of getting a disabled child, vast majority of them come out fine.

[Hyperactive]

all you think is money man!! it's the baraka in it not the amount. there are people richer than i am and try to hussle me with car lease payments...deposit payment for car or house!

if you keep it real and live with your meaning... you can get far in life.

You got to think of the long term.

lol do you things man. i do not agree marrying from back home if you are not from back home or not ready to live there for good.

our mentality has changed outside somalia and our our priorities is different in term what we want from marriage.

for me, when i think of a wife not thinking, some one to cook and clean for me cause i can do that by myself, not some one to have extra income to family.... i can take care of these things.... by cleaning after myself and eat what i can cook... also financially , i dont think of extra income cause i can live with my meanings.

i would want some one who is quite and self sufficant and indipendant who do not nag, why i dont talk or do this and that for her. some one who is realible and noble. my expectations not that high other than hygine and good education and rounded person in deen and dunya.

[Itrah]

Sometimes even local white guys go look for wives abroad because they can't stand Western women (their attitudes, feminism etc).

I had a friend in high school who was half Colombian half White and he told me his father ''ordered'' his mother from Colombia.

[Hyperactive]

it's popular these days to order wivies online or off line.

it's down what you want from marriage. traditional marriage not for every one. mom stay home, rising kids, dad provider.... etc.

loads of individuality lately. some little strange.

[Theguardian]

wallah my blood boils when this social injust happens to miskeen girls in poor countries.

now old men their 50+ marrying poor syrian kids , saying, they doing favor for them!! how many young guys, educated cannot afford to marry. if you so generious why not give money to these youth and marry them , istead you already married 2 go marry 17 years old cause they are poor and you clearly taking advantage of them!

other one is one of the mothers takes her mental ill son his late 20s to Adan, yeman... marries him 15 years old from disadvantage family . rents house , lives with them to make sure her son takes his medication..... had a kid. couldnt hold up any more. girls's family asked her daughter to be divorced and they gave to kid to them. since couldnt feed their daughter can they with grand kid!!

social injustice at worst. and worse it's sicially accepted and not shunned!

Reading this breaks my heart- it is the reality for so many poor little girls in the arab world and Somalia.

And you're so right - it is social injustice at it worse - older man taking advantage of them and using the deen- absolutely disgusting.

Also I heard similar stories regarding mothers taking their mentally ill sons back home to marry them off and they never tell the truth about his mental disability- when it is too late it comes out.