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Re: Yasmin Ahmed: Marriage could wait, my education comes first.

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Hyperactive wrote:
Vivacious wrote:I didn't get married until I finished my education so I don't know why some of you are against such peronal choices people make.
you reminded me my sister, when she said "i am not some one who finishes 4 years university and works... i want do my masters and ph d...bla bla " i told her... after 2 years in university, nin on ha e kenin . foodleydan cannot be trusted :lol: :lol:
Hyper if she is serious you will have to trust her. Some of us are determined.
My parents first told me that I will have to get my bachelors degree before I bring them a husband to be :lol: then when I finished, I worked like a year before I started my masters. And then I came here after i was done with my masters and got a job and was running the family business at the same time until I recently got married. You see you gotta respect choices people make. What works for may not work for someone else and vice versa.
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Educated women. :up: :up:

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Sumubaridi wrote:
Hyperactive wrote:smart girl. marriage is overratted any way. go girl and make difference and change lives.
You are Xaasid. a woman will need her children to take care of when she grows old. Who is going to help an old lady in our society other than her Children. Somalida waxay dhahaan dhul iyo wax ladhalay ayaa marti looyahay. If you become weak and your need for help prolongs, your sisters, brothers, nephews and nieces will leave you. The only people that will hang on are your parents and kids.

a man can survive but not a woman oo gablan ah.
She will find herself another senior to snuggle up with..and collect her retirement benefits . Ur never too old to get married :blessed: Not everyone wants to pop out babies :stylin:
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Samu stop your fear mongering. If a woman doesn't get married early she will die alone blah blah. The less empowered Xalimos the more chances you have of convincing someone to sleep on a furaash dhulkaa yaalo. The likes of you feed on Xalimos with no future plan/aspirations. Mid aad silcisow Alleh haaku sahlo.
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MissFiora wrote:Samu stop your fear mongering. If a woman doesn't get married early she will die alone blah blah. The less empowered Xalimos the more chances you have of convincing someone to sleep on a furaash dhulkaa yaalo. The likes of you feed on Xalimos with no future plan/aspirations. Mid aad silcisow Alleh haaku sahlo.
I am sure you are either married or dreaming and praying silently for allah in uu nin kugu fariisiyo. Stop being xaasid. If a naag hits 30, she is of no use to anyone and the chance of her getting a decent man is closer to none. Her only chance will be nin naag qabo or a single father or nin tuur leh.
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MissFiora wrote:Samu stop your fear mongering. If a woman doesn't get married early she will die alone blah blah. The less empowered Xalimos the more chances you have of convincing someone to sleep on a furaash dhulkaa yaalo. The likes of you feed on Xalimos with no future plan/aspirations. Mid aad silcisow Alleh haaku sahlo.
:clap: atleast some one gets the game being played here, somali women not being educated made us a generation of illiterates. Imagine if we all had educated mothers like the Nigerians, we would over populate universities, instead of the street in the hood, shisha spots period. We were once an educated people who had class and now we are one level above gypsies.

When you educate a man you educate a family

When you educate a woman you educate a society
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She can finish her education and get married after that. Don't see anything wrong with that. It should be the norm
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DANGIRL wrote:Fact#123 you can be married and still get your edumacation.


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Smile Like Sunrise, have u found ur Farah in Shining Armor yet?

I am coming to Ohio in 8 days for the holidays, lets meet up.

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Chances are you'll remain single all your life. Remember finding a good man is getting harder while xalimos are plenty
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Today I learned that apparently mere seconds after marriage all men proceed to chain their wives to the kitchen. huh, who knew.

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Re: Yasmin Ahmed: Marriage could wait, my education comes first.

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DANGIRL wrote:Girl come out of the closet and say somali men aint your cup of tea. You aint gotta hide behind your edumacation. :Puhlease:

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DANGIRL wrote:Fact#123 you can be married and still get your edumacation.


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Lol

But it's not easy to balance both, let the young lady get herceducation early on..

And of course marriage waa iska calaf, no one plot it into and out of their lives
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Re: Yasmin Ahmed: Marriage could wait, my education comes first.

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They should be emulated and not the disbelievers of the West, whose new lifestyles - mostly out of concern for enjoying this life or obtaining as many worldly goods as possible - discourage women from having more children.

Islam has forbidden celibacy (state of not being married), monasticism (life of monks & nuns) and castration (removal of the male glands) for such purposes. The prophet (saw) made this clear when he told those companions who were considering acetic forms of life: "I pray and I sleep; I fast and I break my fast; and I marry women. Whoever turns away from my way of life is not from me."

The prophet (saw) not only encouraged marriage but he encouraged marrying those women who are child-bearing. He stated: "marry the loving, child-bearing women for I shall have the largest numbers among the prophets on the day of Resurrection."(Recorded by Ahmad and ibn Hibban.)

From the Islamic perspective, children are a gift and a blessing from Allah. Allah mentions some of the bounties that He has bestowed upon mankind in the following verse: "And Allah has made for you spouses of your own kind and has made for you, from your wives, sons and grandsons, and has bestowed upon you good provisions." (al-Nahl 72)

Allah also said: "Wealth and children are the adornment of the life of this world." (al-Kahf 46)

The only true provider for all mankind is Allah. If Muslims follow what Allah has prescribed for them, Allah will provide for them. Allah has warned about killing one's children out of fear of poverty for either parents or the child. Allah says: "Kill not your children because of poverty - We provide sustenance for you and for them" (al-Anaam 151)
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Re: Yasmin Ahmed: Marriage could wait, my education comes first.

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She can do both study and enjoy motherhood if allah allows and the support system is there I.e. mum helping out
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