Inter-qabiil Marriage

[DalJecel60]

When I told my aunt I was marrying a Girl that was Ogaden she was happy but when I told my uncles they were shocked because they were waiting for a non Daarood like my sister

[Khalid Ali]

marry ur owN kind hawiye darood marriage never go well

when the next darood hawiye war break out how will the relations be. there will be no trust between the 2 families.

[FarhanYare]

marry ur owN kind hawiye darood marriage never go well

when the next darood hawiye war break out how will the relations be. there will be no trust between the 2 families.

What about your clan and da.......

[Khalid Ali]

u mean jebertis we keep our distance

shaydaan iyo muslim may is guursan karan

[Mustafee101]

My whole family consists of Darood clan except Majeerteen and Geri Kombe.

[Mustafee101]

Hawiye are okay but I will never marry to Iidoor or Isse. We just don't have the same dhaqan or xeer. They iidoors and isse seem to be more close to Gaalo.

[paperino]

Hawiye are okay but I will never marry to Iidoor or Isse. We just don't have the same dhaqan or xeer. They iidoors and isse seem to be more close to Gaalo.

The people outside the internet are different. I doubt you've interacted with enough reer Waqooyi to make blanket generalization. Your comment shows you're inexperienced, probably don't have enough social life, so go out and limit your internet life.

[Mustafee101]

Hawiye are okay but I will never marry to Iidoor or Isse. We just don't have the same dhaqan or xeer. They iidoors and isse seem to be more close to Gaalo.

The people outside the internet are different. I doubt you've interacted with enough reer Waqooyi to make blanket generalization. Your comment shows you're inexperienced, probably don't have enough social life, so go out and limit your internet life.

I don't have to travel to Djibouti or Gabiley to get to know them well. I've already seen them in Riyadh, in Holland, in UK and in Montreal. They're the easiest Somalis to adopt the gaalo culture.

[HayWire]

[UniQueen]

HG - MJ marriage dont work in general lets be honest but

If you are living in Somalia or willing to move to Somalia for the rest of your life go for it brother. Marry her because the benefit is in your hands

But if you live in the West or want to stay in the west for the rest of your life then the benefits is in her hands


1. You should always remember that marriage is financial institution and business contract in here West. The moment you divorce each other there is no Somalinimo anymore. Best believe if she wants to harm you the Islamic divorce (3 talaq) is not going to be enough for her! She will continue further.  Probably will go to court if she wants to and will get your wealth and in the worst case she'll take your kids full custody for herself.  (Court and divorce laws are favorable for women)  Not only that she'll fuck your mind emotionally and mentally over, and your Hawiye, Habar-Gidir kids will be raised as a Daarood, Majeerteen  and brainwashed against you. Always waxa wanagsan in la gursado gabadh isu tol tihin because the one from your own has a heart and cant f you over whaever happens she's from your tol after all!



2. In Somalia its all in your hands the kids are yours..  if you guys divorce you will raise your kids.. even if you die the kids will be raised by your folks ( brothers, uncles, ) and there is more likely that she'll be remarried to one of your blood brothers after your death because of the Somali tradtional thing (Dumaal)


3. Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying that if you marry her this is whats going to happen to you, but you're a grown ass man its good that you know the risks involved.

Best of luck to whatever decision you take ina adeer

[gegiroor]

A Muslima with good imaan is all you need provided you're a Muslim man with a good imaan as well. If she is Somali irrespective of a clan, maasha'Allah.

[thehappyone]

HG - MJ marriage dont work in general lets be honest but

If you are living in Somalia or willing to move to Somalia for the rest of your life go for it brother. Marry her because the benefit is in your hands

But if you live in the West or want to stay in the west for the rest of your life then the benefits is in her hands


1. You should always remember that marriage is financial institution and business contract in here West. The moment you divorce each other there is no Somalinimo anymore. Best believe if she wants to harm you the Islamic divorce (3 talaq) is not going to be enough for her! She will continue further.  Probably will go to court if she wants to and will get your wealth and in the worst case she'll take your kids full custody for herself.  (Court and divorce laws are favorable for women)  Not only that she'll fuck your mind emotionally and mentally over, and your Hawiye, Habar-Gidir kids will be raised as a Daarood, Majeerteen  and brainwashed against you. Always waxa wanagsan in la gursado gabadh isu tol tihin because the one from your own has a heart and cant f you over whaever happens she's from your tol after all!



2. In Somalia its all in your hands the kids are yours..  if you guys divorce you will raise your kids.. even if you die the kids will be raised by your folks ( brothers, uncles, ) and there is more likely that she'll be remarried to one of your blood brothers after your death because of the Somali tradtional thing (Dumaal)


3. Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying that if you marry her this is whats going to happen to you, but you're a grown ass man its good that you know the risks involved.

Best of luck to whatever decision you take ina adeer

You raise some very good points.

Qoloma ah aheyd?

[Advo]

I am always surprised when I read these replies, some of you posters have good head on ur shoulders but as soon as qabiil comes in to the conversation, you'll completely lose common sense making me think maybe qabyaalad is genetically predisposed or something.

Look I love my qabiil as the next person, but you gotta be all the way fuked up if u think your qabiil is perfect or free of moral decay. List all the traits you hate about someone or stereotypes of a certain qabiil and I guarantee ur qabiil has enough members who will either meet or exceed that list.

[paperino]

A Muslima with good imaan is all you need provided you're a Muslim man with a good imaan as well. If she is Somali irrespective of a clan, maasha'Allah.

Udun, be frank, if you were to meet a Muslima with good imaan, but is Midgaan or Bantu, would you marry her?

[gegiroor]

A Muslima with good imaan is all you need provided you're a Muslim man with a good imaan as well. If she is Somali irrespective of a clan, maasha'Allah.

Udun, be frank, if you were to meet a Muslima with good imaan, but is Midgaan or Bantu, would you marry her?

Yes, bro. I would marry her irrespective of her clan. I wouldn't care how society view it. I really wouldn't care. If my community shuns me, I wouldn't care.

Islam is more important than this backward clannish mentality.