[quote="Gedo_Boy"]1nemansquad,
Yes that should be the main force.......
Gamadid,
One time I was reading either Ghazali or Jaylani's works and he was talking about how Allah divided the qualities and blessing among people.
He mentioned the guy who is very intelligent/wise but yet is complained/shocked when he sees an imbecile get wealth that he feels ENTITLED to b/c of his intelligence.
So he asks (I'm paraphrasing): "Does that person expect that by virtue of him receiving a blessing from God which is intelligence/wisdom that he is entitled to also have wealth. So is it fair for him to have both blessings while others have none? "
That is at the heart of the matter. Some ugly girls have qualities that pretty girls don't. So why are those pretty girls feeling so entitled that they can't even fathom an ugly girl getting a man.
Do these pretty chicks want to be the arbiter of God's blessings.
Disclaimer: I don't condone stealing a married man.[/quote]
El perfecto, right on the money...
