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surrender wrote:why dont they hang out with each other horta? i mean i school, college and uni! i never see us being friends. we just give each other the cold shoulder.

there is this guy i known for a while now. and no matter what, he dont say more than hi, u k? safe yh, cool cool and i dont say hello to him at all unless he does first. waa weird and we all like that.

but Asian, other African and whites are friends with one another!

whats with us? is it something to do with the religion? or jus cultue thing that we take too literal!

do any of you have guy/girl somali mates!

Why does he have to say it first?
If you want change...be the change first. why dont YOU go up and say hello and YOu make the effort to be a friend...its not a one way street always babe.

Some Idiot Somali guys think that if a girl belongs to their qabiil, somehow he has the priority. The biggest Jac happened to this Isaaq guy who tried to come in between me and an Isaaq girl that we used to go high school.

The fcker told the girl 'Ina adeer anaga habar yoonis is la ah, ee dhaboyacada iska daa' (Something only emperor is capable of). The girl said one of the funniest thing ever ' She said, I don't discriminate, If I'd discriminate, I do it in size, ee what's your size' LOL

Captain

taas waa weynka bay ahayd? mid so gubatay

No, she wasn't hoe just freak orally , but in bed she was very shy

gabdhaha iskuula ila dhiga xabashida eyey la wadaagaan

mj bride

waxaad tahay love faan dilay

Phd in niman daba u dhigte,

Are you piissed that she was Isaaq, Look at the bright side, she wasn't habar uuunsi, so fall back son

nayaa remember u still my proberty

just like you naago have no qabil

Wise-Man wrote:
2) I have seen a lot of Somali people who dont like going to Banadir restaurent because the owner is Majeerteen.

never knew that

the food there wasn't that bad, those mexicans cooking for the lady there know how to make a good suuqar

but they yemeni joint near it is damn good

ms.naliaa wrote:

surrender wrote:why dont they hang out with each other horta? i mean i school, college and uni! i never see us being friends. we just give each other the cold shoulder.

there is this guy i known for a while now. and no matter what, he dont say more than hi, u k? safe yh, cool cool and i dont say hello to him at all unless he does first. waa weird and we all like that.

but Asian, other African and whites are friends with one another!

whats with us? is it something to do with the religion? or jus cultue thing that we take too literal!

do any of you have guy/girl somali mates!

Why does he have to say it first?
If you want change...be the change first. why dont YOU go up and say hello and YOu make the effort to be a friend...its not a one way street always babe.

dont know. its the way i am i guess . i never say hi/salam to a guy first. he always says it to me first, or we just walk past each other! i like it this way too



how did my top turn in somali guys&girls who dont hang out! to which qabiil you hang out with most!?

FAH1223 wrote:

Wise-Man wrote:
2) I have seen a lot of Somali people who dont like going to Banadir restaurent because the owner is Majeerteen.

never knew that

the food there wasn't that bad, those mexicans cooking for the lady there know how to make a good suuqar

but they yemeni joint near it is damn good

Well, i dont like going to the mixed Yemeni/Xabashi guy restaurent. His food does not have a good taste at all, except the masluuq thing if you know what i am talking about and i am not one of those faaraxs who chil in there 24/7. So, Fah, we may know each other if you really go to Banadir restaurent. Well, brotherly meeting would be good idea and bring your eedo Kambuli with you...

Mataan-ciideed
why does somebody asking u about your qabiil bothers u? im tired of liberal somalis like u. how are u planning on surviving in somalia? cause "qolamaad tahay" is bound to come up in a convo back home.

Well, i dont mind people ask my qabiil because it seems a natural human behavior to me. you know even other nationalities ask each other which state or province they come from just to know a little about themselves, but the problem of Somalis is, once you told them, they will try to avoid you and some of them might not be even as friendly as they used to be with you.

Wise-Man wrote:
Well, i dont like going to the mixed Yemeni/Xabashi guy restaurent. His food does not have a good taste at all, except the masluuq thing if you know what i am talking about and i am not one of those faaraxs who chil in there 24/7. So, Fah, we may know each other if you really go to Banadir restaurent. Well, brotherly meeting would be good idea and bring your eedo Kambuli with you...

Mataan-ciideed
why does somebody asking u about your qabiil bothers u? im tired of liberal somalis like u. how are u planning on surviving in somalia? cause "qolamaad tahay" is bound to come up in a convo back home.

Well, i dont mind people ask my qabiil because it seems a natural human behavior to me. you know even other nationalities ask each other which state or province they come from just to know a little about themselves, but the problem of Somalis is, once you told them, they will try to avoid you and some of them might not be even as friendly as they used to be with you.

yeah sure, thing is I always go to VA randomly to see ayeeyo or something or I have to go with my dad to dahabshill there while we're in the neighborhood

surrender wrote:why dont they hang out with each other horta? i mean i school, college and uni! i never see us being friends. we just give each other the cold shoulder.

there is this guy i known for a while now. and no matter what, he dont say more than hi, u k? safe yh, cool cool. and i dont say hello to him at all unless he does first. waa weird and we all like that.

but Asian, other African and whites are friends with one another!

whats with us? is it something to do with the religion? or jus cultue thing that we take too literal!

do any of you have guy/girl somali mates!

To be honest I wish I never hung out with Somalis in my Secondary School days, we wasted a lot of time. Not only did we used to hang out, us Somali girls and boy but we even had meeting spots.

In my college days, we used to hang out but not so much. All of us Somalis knew each other for the most part, and spoke to each other, we was cool with each other and everything. In college days it was mostly guys in my classes, and so ofcourse in class I used to chat with guys alot, waa ciyaal suuqs hands down (Somali, Non-Somali), they all flirt, so no wonder the religion emphasises on not getting too friendly with them.

By the time I came to university, I had changed, and I thought it was inappropriate to get too friendly with guys, and I wasn't going to go out of my way to make friends with them. Anywho, there aren't that many Somalis in my university, I speak to two Somali girls, but I rarely see them. I don't really speak to [any] guys unless I need to, and if I do speak to them, it is rarely. And at that I don't speak to ANY Somali guys. There was one actually last year, but he left, I used to speak to him.

Sis, ofcourse it is something to do with the religion! We aren't supposed to get too friendly with each other, because it can lead to other stuff.

Salaam

Warsan Star Muslimah,

Does that mean your will turn down my invitation, if I asked you for a dinner? You know I am bound to come to U.k?